Hard At First, Then Gone Forever? Posted: 06-17-04 20:06pm
I am a young, teenage male, and sexually
active as I have been for the past 6 or so
months. Before being sexually active I
had masturbate almost once a day to
various pornography in all its
readily-available internet forms, and I
still do when I am not having sex.
When I am having sex, I have a good
erection at the start, but if I pull it
out to try another position I lose it and
I cant get it back, i've tried manual
stimulation, recieving oral sex from my
partners, and 'stuffing it in' in hopes of
achieving an erection during intercourse.
I have divorcing parents and such
emotional issues, but they arent on my
mind that often, nor are any negative
things during sex. Does anyone know the
problem? Perhaps too much
masturbation/pornography has desensitized
me? Hormones? I would appreciate any
help, thank you.
Julius.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-19-04 21:21pm
Masturbation does not harm your body at
all, but if you do masturbate a lot and
watch porn and whatnot, it can make the
real thing boring to you.
Well, not really boring, but porn is
mainly unrealistic and when you watch that
and please yourself, then when you have
"real" sex it may just not be enough for
you. Some people actually get to the
point where they cannot get an erection at
all when they are about to have
intercourse and can only be stimulated by
porn.
So, that may not be it, but I think it
would be worth it to lay off of the porn
altogether for a while and masturbate a
little less. Just to see if it helps.
If it doesn't help then maybe it is just
stress, or you could be putting too much
pressure on yourself while performing.
Try to relax also.
