Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Edit-no Smiles Anymore Posted: 06-17-04 21:50pm
Haha im sure u guys dont care but u know
shawn? The ex I told u about?
If u dont, then anyhow, hes myy ex and
weve been talking on the phone about every
other day again, hes been calling me that
is and we went to the movies last weekend.
But as I was sayin in my other post,
I was confused and didnt know if he liked
me or anything or if it was just as
friends. Well I still dont know I
guess lol. But he asked me to go to
the movies again tomorrow im happy.
Even if it doesnt turn out to be us bein
together again I just feel happy..It feels
good when I feel fat and pregnant to know
a guy still might like me and that he
still wants to be around me (and hes soooo
good looking by the way) I was trying to
find out or get clues to how he felt..
And he told me its his friends 21st bday
tomorrow and they were goin out and
partying and going to the bar (u have to
be 21 to get in (hes 22) , and im only 18
) so I was like "well its ur friends bday
u can go hang out with him tomorrow then
and go out with me another time''..
And hes like "i know I 'could' but I want
to go to the movies with you''.......So
maybe that might be a small clue?
Maybe not tho lol I dont know but im just
happy. I hope I dont get hurt.
But im not trying to show too much..I dont
call him yet etc. And I dont make the
initative yet. But yeah thats why im
happy right now :d
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 06-17-04 21:53pm
Im glad your happy girl! And btw, your
not fatt! Lol and youre still beautiful!
Yeah I think thats a deffinate 'clue' that
he likes you! He wants to hang out with
you over his friends! =) good luck! And
have lots of fun!
<3
gaby
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 06-17-04 22:29pm
Ya, I agree with gaby, I would take that
as a 'hey, I like you more than friends'
hint. I think thats awesome that he is
being such a good guy to you even though
you are pregnant, not that theres anything
wrong with that.. But most guys our age
speak with their penis rather than their
brains. This guy seems the opposite.
He's a keeper!!! Lol
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 06-17-04 23:13pm
Hey!
It definetly sounds like he's interested
usually guys dont
give up goin to the bar so easily lol!!
Its good to know tho that hes there for u
in ur pregnancy... Its just what ya need
I hope u two have
fun at the movies and who knows? Maybe u
and him and baby will be goin to the
movies together sometime soon hehe!
Shauna
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-18-04 05:48am
Thanks girls!!
One prob. Wrapped up in all the
excitment. . I did forget theere are
still bad things.........1) hes been with
alot of girls (he doesnt even know exactly
how many) hes not the typical player type
u think of tho when u think of a guy thats
been with alot of people. He doesnt
sleep with nice girls and hurt them and
leave em.. But hes just been with alot
of slutty girls...... So that makes me a
little nervous...Also I do have to keep in
mind the reasons we broke up.. 1..
Because I was pregnant (which that status
still hasnt changed! ) and 2.. I
remmeber I got so mad at him because when
we were together he went to a strip club
with his brother and they gave a stripper
a ride home! I mean overall hes nice and
hes been real nice lately. But I do have
to keep that stuff in mind.. What do u
think? I just dont wanna get hurt, and I
know bein pregnant im alot more sensitive.
Kari! I hope things work out for you! I
know how much you want things to go right!
I dunno, keep in mind what he did and try
and keep yourself from getting hurt for a
while. See how it goes. And you are by
far fat and ugly! You are pregnant! You
have the best excuse in the world!
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-18-04 17:30pm
Thanks! I hope so.. Were going to the
drive in now with angie and her
boyfriend.. I just hope it goes okay. I
feel nervous! I prolly wont be back on
till late but I will update what happened*
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-18-04 23:54pm
Well.. Im not happy. we
went to the drive-inn.. At first it was
cool.. And we seemed a little flirty
etc..He even felt my belly to feel the
baby kick and when I said a spot on my
back hurt, he put his arm behind me to
support it so it wouldnt hurt.. But then
it turned into a big nothing. We went to
the movies, then he dropped me off,
period. And I think he still does feel
weird about me being pregnnat, and I think
he would feel weird bein with me when its
not his kid, maybe he was trying to not
let it bug him , but I think it did. He
started to act a little weird after a
while. So im just going to forget the
whole getting back together thing, it just
didnt work that way. We'll see if he
still calls etc. .But either way im just
not going to count on it, and im not going
to call him for a while. I'll just focus
on us just talkin sometimes, no strings
attached. It just ddidnt go the way I
planned. O well.. I dont wanna put
myself out there too much anyhow so im
going to give up easy. I have to focus on
other things anyhow, and the last thing I
need is to get upset over a guy or get
emotional so its for the best I guess.
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Julymommy72504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Cincinnati, Oh
Posted: 06-19-04 00:00am
Kari so sorry to hear things did not go
the way you planned. Maybe he has
something for you but feels bad about
before. Its always worse being let down
when your preggy cause your emotions are
so much higher. Hun, tonight just treat
yourself to a nice warm bubble bath or
whatever you can to calm yourself.
Lots of love,
heather and hayley
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 06-19-04 13:06pm
Aw guys are sooooo silly....I hate when
they kinda act like they like you..Then
another day...You're not sure because they
are just acting all regular like and
stuff...Lol..Don't give up.And if he
doesnt like you while your pregnant..He's
a stupid as$ cause when you're
pregnant...Your true personality shows.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-19-04 21:53pm
Sorry kari. Men suck (no offense to
those who actually have good ones) the
majority just suck.
Maybe he does feel weird, but he obviously
does have some sort of feelings for you.
I think what you decided is the good thing
to do. Just talk to him when he calls
and hang out when you have time, but try
not to get your hopes up. That way if
something does happen you will be
surprised, but if it doesn't you will not
be hurt.
but if it doesn't happen, don't worry.
You will find a great one someday and he
will probably be 100 times better than
this one!
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-20-04 01:21am
Thanks girls~ yea.. He didnt call today.
I didnt think he would tho. Normally
we talk every other day. But I have this
'feeling' he wont call for a while.
.Things were just weird for us. O well,
I went out tonite and just got home (its
2am) went to a lil party and saw some old
friends so it was fun and kept my mind off
him. It wont be hard, im glad nothing
more happened, otherwise I would have to
try and get over him but im fine about it
now and we will only be 'friends'. I
have to think about the baby right now
soley anyhow, so I dont want to rush into
the whole dating scene yet. It just
sucks because a part of me still feels so
young (which I still kinda am at 18 ) and
I miss dating, partying etc and just feel
like I had to grow up so fast. Everyone
else my age is in such a different stage
right now in their life. But I try not
to think about that, I know my sons a
blessing*
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im happy.
Even if it doesnt turn out to be us bein
together again I just feel happy..It feels
good when I feel fat and pregnant to know
a guy still might like me and that he
still wants to be around me (and hes soooo
good looking by the way) I was trying to
find out or get clues to how he felt..
And he told me its his friends 21st bday
tomorrow and they were goin out and
partying and going to the bar (u have to
be 21 to get in (hes 22) , and im only 18
) so I was like "well its ur friends bday
u can go hang out with him tomorrow then
and go out with me another time''..
And hes like "i know I 'could' but I want
to go to the movies with you''.......So
maybe that might be a small clue?
Maybe not tho lol I dont know but im just
happy. I hope I dont get hurt.
But im not trying to show too much..I dont
call him yet etc. And I dont make the
initative yet. But yeah thats why im
happy right now :d
usually guys dont
give up goin to the bar so easily lol!!
Its good to know tho that hes there for u
in ur pregnancy... Its just what ya need
we
went to the drive-inn.. At first it was
cool.. And we seemed a little flirty
etc..He even felt my belly to feel the
baby kick and when I said a spot on my
back hurt, he put his arm behind me to
support it so it wouldnt hurt.. But then
it turned into a big nothing. We went to
the movies, then he dropped me off,
period. And I think he still does feel
weird about me being pregnnat, and I think
he would feel weird bein with me when its
not his kid, maybe he was trying to not
let it bug him , but I think it did. He
started to act a little weird after a
while. So im just going to forget the
whole getting back together thing, it just
didnt work that way. We'll see if he
still calls etc. .But either way im just
not going to count on it, and im not going
to call him for a while. I'll just focus
on us just talkin sometimes, no strings
attached. It just ddidnt go the way I
planned. O well.. I dont wanna put
myself out there too much anyhow so im
going to give up easy. I have to focus on
other things anyhow, and the last thing I
need is to get upset over a guy or get
emotional so its for the best I guess.