Need Some Tips For Orgasm During Sex Posted: 06-18-04 15:43pm
I need some help. I enjoy sex on a
regular basis but I have never had an
orgasm during intercourse. I work around
this by manually stimulating myself with
my guy's assistance. However I really
want to be able to experience an orgasm
while we are having sex and I know he
would love it. When I am trying to reach
an orgasm, I use my kegels and clamp down
apparently very hard and that works for
me. However when I once clamped down
when he was inside me, it made him go numb
and tingling. He had an operation
several years ago and there was some nerve
damage, but for the most part everything
seems to work fine. Basically if anyone
has any tips or advice I would really
appreciate it.
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 06-19-04 21:55pm
Hey, you should read the thread called are
orgasms a pyschological thing. I wrote a
bunch of stuff in there, but I will quote
it a bit:
first off chuck any ideas that you have to
have an orgasm with just penis-in-vagina
intercourse. Most women don't officially
orgasm this way (though for many it
enhances the clitoral orgasm).
Fact of the matter is, the majority of the
female's sexual pleasure comes from the
clitoris. it is the only organ on the human
body, male or female, designed for pleasure
only. Even g-spot orgasms are due
to the clitoris being stimulated (as the
nerve endings from the clitoris extend to
roughly that area). imo trying to
have an orgasm without clitoral
stimulation is like telling a man to have
an orgasm without using the penis. The
clitoris has 2x the nerve endings of a
penis, why neglect it?? Truth be told,
the idea the sex should be all
penis-in-vagina and be enough to give a
woman an orgasm alone is very freudian in
nature and very ignorant of women's
physical structure. Not to say that
intercourse isn't pleasureable, but it's
not the sole orgasm-producer for women.
Give yourself some clitoral stimulation,
don't be embarassed about it, you'd expect
him to use his penis wouldn't you?? :p
try some positions that enable you to
stimulate yourself while he's inside you
(doggy style or female on top are some
good ways). And it is true (as you have
seen) that clamping down can hurt the
guy.
Experiment alot, talk with your partner
about it and his expectations of your
orgasms (truth be told porn depicts
inaccurate sexual response in women, and
most guys think what they see there is the
truth for all women) and try different
things and most importantly, have fun!!
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harper
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2004 Posts: 5 Location: orange
Teenytoona Posted: 06-21-04 22:33pm
You are not alone, so many of my friends
cannot have orgasms during intercourse, I
have the plan for you. This is what
works for me. The girl before me said it
all, you have to stimuilate the clitoris.
I never have a problem climaxing. This is
why. Make sure that he is on top of you
missionary style. Push yourself against
him. Pull him (his body) towards your
clitoris and have him rub up and down on
it. He is going in the motion that you
need him to, just make sure that as he
goes in and out make sure his body is
rubbing against you. You also have to
kind of push yourself aginst him. He can
still go in and out of you while he is
rubbing against you. This is the only way
it works for me. This is the best way.
Also try going on top and doing the same
thing. He will not give you an orgasm if
you are not in contact with your clitoris.
You don't need to do this the whole time
only long enoough for you to climax. You
will notice that guys like to go in and
out and barely rub up aginst you because
there most sensitive part is at the tip of
the penis. So good luck to you.
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habichuelo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 36 Location: puerto rico
nobody has told you the real way to get an
extreme delicious orgasm to the
woman,,,just try this,,,follow this
instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and
lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her
vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on
one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and
tickle her anal hole and vaginal center
area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is
very wet and very desperate for
intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the
woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the
vagina several times until she get wildly
desperate to be penetrated with his full
lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important
step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her
vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress
her anal hole,,,,also the man can
penetrate only one fingertip into her anal
hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be
extremely delicious and
unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely
hook on this way of having sex,,,that she
will be wanting it everyday more and more.
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