Help I Really Need to No If Im Pregnant Or Not Posted: 06-19-04 19:37pm
hi
i need some help well about 2months ago I
had sex for the 1st time n ive only done
it twice from know I bled twice wen I did
it. And the last time we had sex the
condom broke n I still b but we didnt
actually have sex for that long coz it was
to painfull. But 8 days later I noticed
some very lite pink spots wen I would wipe
myself after I peed that whent on for 5
days then I noticed red blood all over my
under wear n it was only for a day after
that I had dark brown to light discharge.
My bf told me it was coz I was a vergent
its just dirty blood but I read about
implantation blood could this be or is it
just in my head I havent had any cramping
yet or nothing. And it could not have
been my periods coz my periods stoped
2weeks after I noticed the blood so it was
too soon for period. Does anyone ahve any
suggestions what it might be plzzz help im
only 18. :cry
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 06-19-04 21:42pm
Well it's altogether possible that your
cycle went a little off and you had an
early period. It's also possible that you
had some tearing inside your vagina and
you were bleeding from that - you might
want to get into a doc so she can check
you out and make sure there are no
injuries! Please be careful during sex -
it it hurts don't proceed - protect
yourself !! Also to avoid
future painful sex or injuries make sure
you are fully aroused (your vagina will
open up bigger generally and you will be
wet) or at the very least use lube. One
of the things no one ever talks about is
making sex not-painful for women, or what
happens to women during sex (everybody and
their momma knows men get hard, but no one
knows women are supposed to get wet and
open up).
What the blood actually is would be hard
to say for certain over the internet,
truth be told.
A bit about implantation bleeding: it
doesn't always happen (in fact it's not
the norm) and it would happen 2 weeks
after ovulation, which means if you were
going to have implantation bleeding, it
would happen usually right about the same
time your period would start. So the
possibility of the blood you had being
implantation bleeding seems to be slim.
Other than that, get yourself to a gyn and
see what she has to say about the bleeding
- just from what you said it sounds like
injury blood, but I can't say for certain.
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sally11
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 106
Thanks For the Advise Posted: 06-20-04 01:46am
Hi thanks it helped abit. About the
doctor I did go bout 1 week ago he told
do you think you mite be pregnant I said
no so he just told me come and see me in
2weeks and just relax. He said it mite be
old blood or maybe pregnancy but his not
shore he wants to run some test wen I get
bak but I was so impassent I wanted to
ehar what some one else had to say. But
thank you and for the painfull sex I ahve
a bit of a problem I love my bf so much n
his very attractive but for some reason I
cannot get arroused by him I just cannot
relax. Is this a problem.
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 06-20-04 15:21pm
You know, it takes a while to get
comfortable with sex - especially at
first. Maybe it's uncomfortable to talk
about, but it will help your experience
and your experience with sex as a couple.
So try initiating a talk about it. Figure
out if you have any major hang-ups about
it and sort those out, and then talk to
him about it. Just because sex is awkward
for you now doesn't mean it's a result of
your not loving him or him not being
attractive. We have a society that sends
out all kinds of garbagy messages about
sex, and alot of women and some men have
alot of sorting out of that junk to do.
When you talk to him about it, tell him
that it has nothign to do with him in
particular, but you just have some stuff
to sort out about sex to make sure you can
really get into it.
I wish I had some fabulous pointers on how
to talk about it, but it's really
dependent upon the couple. Maybe if you
have a therapist you can talk to her about
it, or even a good friend (another woman
perhaps that you can trust.).
Because honestly if all the sex you're
having is uncomfortable that can put a
damper on things (at best).
Hope this helps some!
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sally11
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 106
Posted: 06-20-04 18:48pm
Heyits me again :p
i talked to my boy about it he just said
its because its my first time coz ive only
had sex twice but im gona try again and
see what happens n this time make sure im
wet.........
Hey today im getiing cramps in my stomach
should I bee worried but any way I got
blood test done by my skin therapist she
wante dto do test for my face and im
geting the results on wed would this show
anything or would it be too soon jsut
wanted to know thanks.
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sally11
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 106
Posted: 06-25-04 08:23am
Hi the results came negative but I new
cause it was early but I got a problem I
havwent gotwen my periods yet its been 37
days I get et every 28 should I do the hp
test.
I think you should because it's already
been 37 days and if you get it every 28
days. It won't hurt to try because maybe
it could be your period is running late or
something good luck~~
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sally11
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 106
Posted: 06-26-04 20:19pm
I took the test today it came out negative
I gues my periods are just
late............ Im not pregnant what
arelief
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hi
!! Also to avoid
future painful sex or injuries make sure
you are fully aroused (your vagina will
open up bigger generally and you will be
wet) or at the very least use lube. One
of the things no one ever talks about is
making sex not-painful for women, or what
happens to women during sex (everybody and
their momma knows men get hard, but no one
knows women are supposed to get wet and
open up).
