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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004
Posts: 822
Location: Virginia
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Sorry I Haven't Been On. Too Much Drama In My Life!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 06-20-04 00:30am
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There has been so much crap going on
lately. I don't even know where to
begin. I guess to try to make a long
story short: i'm sick of everyone trying
to tell me what to do with my life and
what is best for me. I'm sick of my mom
talking crap about me to her friends and
family behind my back. I'm tired of her
lying making me come off as a bad mom to
the rest of the world. I want to move
out. I have no one to talk to. No one
understands. I have no friends to
confide in....No friends at all for that
matter. I'm sick of being by myself and
lonely...And i'm sick of aj getting on my
nerves. The other morning I went
upstairs to get the phone and when I came
back down my parents were gone and they
had took ethan with them....And they
didn't even ask me or tell me they were
taking him. I was so mad. I left a
note on the table that said, "i'm sick of
the caca, i'm going for a drive." so, I
left and I didn't come back that night.
I didn't come back until around 7:00 the
next night. I spent the whole day a half
hour away from my house, in
staunton...Looking for my older sister.
For those of you that don't know
already....I hadn't talked to her in over
3 years and she had been missing. Well,
I spent all day searching for her and I
finally found an address and I went and
knocked on the door and there she was with
her 3 kids and her husband. She hates
mom too. She wont even talk to her at
all. If mom finds out where she lives,
she moves. Mom is really two-faced. I
wish I could make everyone understand.
Next year, when I turn 18...I'm sure as
hell not staying here. I'm taking ethan
and moving into an apartment. Everyone
is yelling at me telling me to get a job,
but they have no idea how hard it is to
take care of a baby and work also. It's
so irritating. Everyone is freaking out
now, thinking that i'm going to kill
myself. I got a phone call today from 2
different people telling me how worried
about me they were. There is so much
more to tell, but I just can't explain it
or type it on here. I'm sorry. I'm
going to go to bed now, i'm exausted.
I'm just so so so tired you guys....So
very tired. I don't want to deal with
this crap. I love ethan and i'm with him
all day long at home and people are trying
to say that I don't spend any time with
him. Even my grandfather made a smart
remark to me today. I'm so sick of it, I
really am. I'm just gonna go to bed now.
Good night girls. <333
crystal
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 06-20-04 01:44am
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Hey hun.. Im really sorry about
everything thats going on. One thing I
will tell u is they will get better. Ive
gone through some realllly tough sh*t and
I thought it would never ever end, but it
does. I truely beleive everything happens
for a reason. You are a good mom and dont
let anyone tell u diferent because you are
the one that knows. I know its hard to
work and take care of a baby . .But one
thing is you will have to start working to
have money if u plan on movin out into an
apartment at 18 and dont make urself think
u cant work because you have a kid, many
people do it so your strong enough to be
able to do it too. Even if u just start
part time for a while. Im working full
time and making pretty good money but I
know it will still be really hard.Overall
, I know ur a good mom to ethan and he
loves you! Parents suck.. But in their
weird ways, they want in their hearts
whats best for their kids and sometimes
just dont know how to show it. Your
strong, uve made it this far, just dont
give up hope*
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-21-04 16:33pm
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W00t...That makes two of us....Lets me
roomies! Your kid is only 1 day older
than mine :d
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004
Posts: 874
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Posted: 06-21-04 20:27pm
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Blu I know how you feel. My baby isn't
born yet ,but the whole thing with you mom
I feel. My mom has been talking about me
to her friends and family behind my back
since I was a little girl. I've gotten
over that ,but whay I hate is that she
tries to take credit for anything good I
do. That makes me so sick. Btw how old r
u and when do you turn 18?
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-21-04 22:13pm
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I am sorry blu. No one needs two faced
people in their life whether it is their
mother or not. I really do feel for ya,
and the sad thing is that if she hasn't
changed yet, she isn't going to.
Just reassure yourself that you are a
great mother and that she and everyone she
talks to is wrong. You know better.
And someday, hopefully soon, you can get
out of there.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-22-04 09:59am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:08am; edited 1 time in total
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-23-04 00:39am
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She didn't leave ethan. Her parents just
up and took him without asking or telling
her.
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-23-04 16:21pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:20am; edited 1 time in total
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004
Posts: 822
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 06-23-04 16:48pm
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They took him for the entire day and
that's why I was pissed. And yes, I did
leave...But you know that was the only
time I did that. They always pull sh*t
like that and it really doing it angers me
off that they try to act like he is their
son. You don't know me and you don't
know my situation. I'm not acting like a
doing it kid. There are a lot of things
going on with me that no one knows
about....No one. So, I don't see how
anyone else can say anything rude or bad
about my parenting. All i've ever been
to ethan was a good loving mother. And it
surprises me that you would even begin to
assume that I don't care. I'm so sick of
this....I'm so sick of everyone
.A.S.S.U.M.I.N.G sh*t before they even
take the time to get the facts straight.
crystal
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 06-23-04 16:52pm
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My point on the matter is:
crystal had no idea where she was headed.
Where she would spend the night. Where
she would eat. So what did she do? She
left her son with her parents (who had
taken him anyway!) and knew that they'd
look after him. This isn't an every day
occurance with her so I don't think it's a
horribly big deal. She did leave a note.
Would you like it better if she'd have
struck out alone with her son, not knowing
where they would sleep that night or
anything? No! I don't agree with leaving
your child somewhere until you talk to the
"caregivers" but it's a hell of a lot
better than dragging him along if you
aren't even sure where you are going
anyway!
And jennifer...... You are pointing out
childishness????? Hmmmm, double
standards? 
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-23-04 16:54pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:21am; edited 1 time in total
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 06-23-04 16:58pm
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She didn't tell them she was going out
because she didn't know they were taking
her child! She left them a note and knew
he'd be ok with them. Hell, they take him
everywhere anyway without permission!!!!
And she didn't go "out" she went and found
her missing sister.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-23-04 17:02pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:22am; edited 1 time in total
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 06-23-04 17:04pm
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I would not have done that, but it's what
she did. Dosen't make her a bad mother in
any way though. As long as it's not a
reoccurance.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-23-04 17:06pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:23am; edited 1 time in total
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-23-04 17:13pm
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First of all, it is not her parents "job"
to find her missing sister. Her sister
is "missing" because she got sick of her
parents crap.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with
what blu did. Her parents up and took
her son and didn't even ask/tell or even
say where they were going. In my eyes
that is kidnapping. Of course, blu knew
that her son was safe because he was with
her parents, but I personally think that
what she did was better than the
alternative. Do you honestly think it
would be better for her to sit there and
wait for god knows how long, getting more
and more angry and then blowing up at her
parents in front of her son?
It wasn't like she just up and left her
son at home alone or with someone she
didn't know. He was taken from her, and
for all she knew he wouldn't be back for a
couple of days. So, back off!
Blu, ignore her. She obviously isn't one
to take advice from anyway. I have kept
my mouth shut through this whole multiple
personality thing and I will continue to,
but she has absolutely no right to come on
here and tell you that you are a bad
mother. No one is a perfect mother.
Not even schizo.
Luv ya
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 06-23-04 17:14pm
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insurancegirl
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Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 06-23-04 17:17pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-04-04 10:23am; edited 1 time in total
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003
Posts: 3717
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Posted: 06-23-04 17:53pm
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Okay, but you have three children, one on
the way, own your own business and have
time to make up multiple personalities on
the internet. I really don't think you
are the one who should be giving blu
parenting advice.
And just because I do not have my own
children doesn't mean I don't know a thing
or two about them, and I do know that if
my parents took my child and did not even
tell me, it would be better for everyone
involved if I stepped away for a day.
Geesh, you act like she left her kid on
the side of the road for a week.
I am sure you have made your mistakes, so
quit judging.
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004
Posts: 822
Location: Virginia
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Posted: 06-23-04 18:29pm
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This thing with my sister I hold close to
my heart and it is very personal, so don't
even go there jen. Like I said before,
there are .A. L.O.T of things that you
don't know. Yeah, I would have loved to
been able to take ethan and know where I
was going and just get out..The 2 of us
together. But I couldn't do that, now
could i?? And yes, I did leave a
note...And I called my mom's cell after I
had left to tell her I was mad at her for
what she did, but she didn't have it with
her or on or whatever. I don't
appreciate you trying to bring more
attention to yourself by nagging me about
stupid crap. I mean come on...After the
whole multiple personality thing, I would
think you'd have brought enough attention
to yourself. And the sad part is, at one
point...I actually believed you were my
friend. Oh well...
Crystal
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