Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
I Am So Through With His Crap.... Posted: 06-20-04 12:29pm
Ok as some of you know dewitt hadn't
called me for 8 days when he promised he
would call back 30 mins later. Well
yesterday they got the card I sent him
from josh, and his mom, not him, called me
and said thanks and talked to me and blah
blah blah. Well she gave the phone to him
and he wasn't talking much and I asked him
why he hadn't called and he said because
he thought I was mad at him and he didn't
want to make me even more mad. How lame
is that? And than I said something about
how I was stuck in the house with a couple
of pervs b/c the 2 guys that were helping
remodel our kitchen were 24 and they kept
whistling at me everytime I got out of the
pool to do something. And he got all mad
and said that was like him telling me he
was stuck in the house with a bunch of
strippers or something and i'm like ummmm
ok. And he had also promised to send out
the paternity papers friday b4 last, and
he said he didnt b/c the post office was
closed due to ronald reagen death and then
saturday he thought post didnt run and
sunday it didnt and then I said something
to someone else and when I was done I said
now where were we? And he was like I
don't remember and I said you were making
up excuses for not sending the papers I
believe you were at monday. He got all
pissed at that too. Then I kept giving
him a playfully hard time about not
calling me (i wasnt even that mad) and hes
like i'm sorry i'm such a piece of caca,
as much as it hurts to say it, maybe josh
should have been camerins. I hung up on
him. What an problem. Can you believe he
said that? And he had the nerve to get
mad at me? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....
I think I am going to change josh's last
name to mine and he will be lucky if I
even put his name on the birth
certificate. I am so sick of his crap and
I am through.....Sorry I just had to vent.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-20-04 21:45pm
Hey hun im so sorry about all what ur
going through! Im confused, I dont know
much about it, but I didnt know the guy
had to send paternity papers? And who is
camerin? I dont think I know the whole
story* but yea I wouldnt use his last name
if hes not being good about being a dad.
I would keep yours. Thats certainly what
im doin! But ur way better then that and
u dont need to take his sh*t * I hope
things turn up better for you!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 06-21-04 10:36am
Thanks kari, I signed the paternity
acknowledgment forms and I had to mail
them to him so he could. He is just now
sending them back, 6 weeks later.....Ugh.
Camerin is my ex-boyfriend, he was the one
I was cheating on when I got pregnant. He
is really great. He was helping me pick
out names for the baby b4 I knew what he
was and he was the first person I told
when I found out he was a boy. He met
josh and he absoloutly loves him...Lol.
He didn't want to give him back to me. I
have been really dumb, I mean any guy that
wants anything to do with me and josh
after what I put him through is obviously
something special. And he doesn't treat
josh as though he is what broke us up. He
holds him and plays with him and just sits
there and smiles his big ol head off at
him. Lol. I'm not supposed to be around
him because my mom thinks I will leave
josh and sneak out and end up pregnant
again. She is crazy. And I am not going
to listen to her on this. She was right
about dewitt, but she is wrong about this.
Lol. I'll become a celibate if I have
to. Lol. That's basically the story.
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 236 Location: New York
Posted: 06-21-04 10:50am
Chrissy- hey girl!! Ugh, sounds like
dewitt is bein an fool again! (no
offense). Be strong and dont put up with
anyones sh*t. Im sorry, but he is
obviously very immature and cant deal with
the idea that he is a daddy. You and josh
deserve better!
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cherry_pie
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jan 2004 Posts: 599
Posted: 06-21-04 11:04am
Here, here.. Lol
or is it hear, hear? Meh, oh well..
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 06-21-04 11:40am
Chrissy you nerd, I told you! I said to
not bother with him and dont give him the
last name! Nerd butt!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 06-21-04 11:47am
Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-03-04 17:52pm; edited 1 time in total
Chrissy,
you and joshy are too good for him! Don't
let him have anything! He dosen't deserve
it! Keep being a good mother to your lil
man and leave dew out in the cold!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 06-21-04 12:16pm
Lol....Thanks guys....I am debating
whether or not to put dewitts name on the
birth certificate.....I wanna do it for
josh, not for dewitt, because im know mine
looks bare without a father.....But I
really think he is getting my last name,
as much as I hate it, unless I get like a
100 dollar check in the mail tomorrow (lol
yeah right) but he is being a butthead and
I am not going to go out of my way to make
him feel like a part of this family when
he's really not so thats that and nikki u
b kwiet! Lol
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 236 Location: New York
Posted: 06-21-04 12:20pm
I agree, u should deffinatly put his name
on the birth certificate because no matter
what, dewitt is in fact the biological
father of josh. My birth certificate is
blank where it says father, and even
thought I know my father, I still wish my
mom woulda put his name on the birth
certificate.
I also think you should deffinatly give
josh your last name. Youre the one thats
there with him 24/7...Dewitt hasnt really
shown any proof that he will be there.
Awww, lil joshie is a mamas boy, lol, and
that sounds perfect to me!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-21-04 12:50pm
Cherry- hear hear!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 06-21-04 12:57pm
Lol yup...Hes a mamas boy....And thats how
it should be....I am going to put him on
the birth certificate but he is getting my
last name. Joshua blake
robins-york.....Eh....No comment...Lol...O
well.
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angel4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 236 Location: New York
Posted: 06-21-04 13:05pm
I think it sounds fine! Why dont u like
yur last name?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
