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miss_kitty
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Joined: 21 Sep 2003
Posts: 2
Location: Australia
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15 & Pregnant.
Posted: 09-21-03 08:41am
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Before everyone starts lecturing me about
being too young to have sex, hear me
out... My boyfriend is 27 years old &
he has inpregnated 2 other girls which he
has one 5 year old son too (the other girl
had an abortion). His son doesn't live
with him tho...
We started having unprotected sex about 2
months ago but he didn't blow in me but he
started to when I was on my period and we
figured if I was on my period that it
wouldn't matter if he blew in me. So
after I finished my period he still
proceeded to blow in me anyway, and has
been ever since.
Now there is no doubt in my mind that i'm
pregnant, because if I wasn't by now and
considering the amount of sperm that has
been in me, I must be infertile.
He told me if I am pregnant to have an
abortion, but I really don't want to have
one, altho I told him i'd consider it.
I will be having the baby if I am
pregnant, and I intend to be the best
mother to it that I can be. My b/f earns
over $1200 a fortnight from his job, I
have a job, so we will hopefully be
financially stable to support a baby. But
a lot of problems still follow.
He lives with his parents at the moment
but will be moving out soon in about 3-4
weeks in which if i'm pregnant I will be
moving in with him.
I don't expect anyone to respond to this,
just had to let it off my chest. Please
don't judge me.
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youngmama
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Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-21-03 09:51am
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Wow, well first of all I am not going to
judge you. However I do have a couple
questions, if he expects you do have an
abortion are you sure that he is going to
be there for you if you have this baby?
Do your parents know that you are having
sex with a man 12 years older than you?
What is the age of consent in australia?
I am not here to judge you but rather help
you. If you want or desire advice please
don't hesitate to ask!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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evilpickle
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Joined: 18 Aug 2003
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Location: virginia beach
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Age of Consent
Posted: 09-21-03 10:08am
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Age of consent is 16 in most places in
australia...If parents find out and you
are pregnant...He could be facing jail
time......(he could face jail time even if
you aren't pregnant) 
Http://www.Avert.Org/aofcons
ent.Htm
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phillygurl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Posts: 56
Location: philadelphia
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Posted: 09-21-03 10:15am
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Well I just wanted to say no matter what
he says or anybody says please dont get an
abortion  I
wish you the best luck and I hope that he
will be there for you 
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Well
Posted: 09-21-03 20:13pm
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Sweetie, he's 27.... I mean.... Look at
the age difference. I won't lecture
you..... But I think the state and the
laws might lecture him.
Good luck to you. I hope you make the
decision that is right for you, but
abortion is never the right answer.
Good luck,
chanda
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frozenglue
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Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 39
Location: Marysville
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Good Decision On Your Behalf
Posted: 09-21-03 22:12pm
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For keeping the child. I salute you. On
the other hand, did you want to have a
child? I mean, I would think he would
have learned from the past two girls he
was with that he shouldn't, as you put it
"blow" inside you. I have not heard of
that term till I came in here.
Anyway, someone mentioned that if he
wanted you to have an abortion do you
think he'll stay beside you? Do you
really think he wants to move intogether?
Have you even discussed this with him?
Sounds like it might be illegal as well.
First things first, get a pregnancy test
and find out for sure. We're here fo you.
:d
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 09-22-03 11:18am
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Yeah I suggest getting a test. He is
older anyways and if he told you to get an
abortion it means he doesnt want the baby,
or there is a chance he wont even be there
for you. Make sure you are pregnant
first. And find a guy your own age if you
are not.
What is "blow in you?"
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ceasargirl
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Joined: 02 Sep 2003
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Who
Posted: 09-22-03 12:51pm
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Hold up girl im not the one to jugde but
dont you kind of think having sex on your
period is nasty you can get an efection
when your on your period it cleans your
body so all that stuff your period takes
out is bacteria inside of you.
And another thing your 15 and he is 27
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 09-22-03 13:12pm
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Yeah thats kinda gross, the age and the
period. He is one weird guy
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ceasargirl
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Joined: 02 Sep 2003
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Hold Up
Posted: 09-22-03 13:21pm
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 09-22-03 13:31pm
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It is. Sex during a period is gross, but
many people do it anyways so
whatever...But being a 27 year old man and
having sex with a 15 year old. What is
wrong with him? I will slap my son silly
if he ever though about that. He is
almost old enough to be her father.
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JLRbabygrl0330
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Location: Michigan
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Posted: 09-23-03 20:44pm
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If he isnt with his other kid what makes
you think that he will stay with you  im
not trying to be mean or anything im just
saying he is 27 and screwing 15 yr olds,
he must not have life.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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27 Year Old
Posted: 09-23-03 20:53pm
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I would choke the 27 year old if he was
having sex with my 15 year old daughter, I
would definately report him to the police
for carnal knowledge. He is
irresponsible. Dosen't sound like he is
the brightest crayon in the pack either.
Goodness me.
.::suzy::.
Ps. I hope for your sake girl, that you
are not pregnant. And for god's sake from
now on, get yourself on birth control
pills. Surely you have a brain, use it
please.
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-23-03 20:59pm
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I with you suzy, not only would I choke
him but I would cut the petruding parts of
his body off! It would be like a
consentration camp at mine and austin's
house if a 27 year old guy had sex with
cheyenne at 15!
-jessika-
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Heather_16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2003
Posts: 79
Location: Colorado
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Posted: 09-23-03 21:04pm
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Hahahaha, nice one jessika. P.S.
Concentration** ^_^
sorry, i'm a spelling nazi >.<
love ya toots,
heather
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-23-03 21:21pm
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Lmao! I have been spelling retarded all
day long! I forgot how to spell 'catch'
earlier today when I was writing in my
journal! I was gonna look it up but my
brain wasn't processing the letters! Lol
or maybe its cause I am a dork and have
been out of the classroom too long!
Anyways!!
Much love
-jessika-
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miss_kitty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Sep 2003
Posts: 2
Location: Australia
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Re: Who
Posted: 09-24-03 01:19am
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| ceasargirl
wrote: | hold up girl im not the one
to jugde but dont you kind of think having
sex on your period is nasty you can get an
efection when your on your period it
cleans your body so all that stuff your
period takes out is bacteria inside of
you.
And another thing your 15 and he is
27 |
what's your point exactly?
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 52
Location: Nova Scotia
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Posted: 09-24-03 05:44am
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Ok sweetie - u asked not to be judged so
im not going to judge you - first off I
appluad *spelling* you on deciding not to
have an abortion, its just wrong. But if
he doesnt' have his other child he might
decide not to have yours either and by
decide I mean he might not accept his
responsibilities to you and this child.
So even though you have this child you
could give the baby up for adoption. I
was supposed to have a baby and met many
wonderful families some that were even
going to let me visit the baby. Its
always a possibility. That way you can
let your child have a chance to live, and
you can go back to school get an
education, a full time job and then meet a
man that is willing to stay with you and
have a wonderful family and life style.
Meanwhile, continue going to school, some
people are definitly going to judge you
there but thats what I was going to do and
its a much better option than wasting the
time. Best of luck sweetie and email me
if you ever need any information on
anything or advice or even if you just
need someone to say its going to be ok.
I'm there for ya. ~misty
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topinky4u
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Joined: 30 Sep 2003
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Location: South Carolina
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Just a Note
Posted: 09-30-03 16:31pm
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Although I do agree that the age thing is
illegal and you should see that no 27 year
old man should be with a girl your age.
Think about why he might be with someone
so young and still living at home, at
that. Anyway, I though I would just note
that it will not cause an infection if you
have sex on your period. Your period is
getting rid of your utering lining that
prepares itself once a month in case you
do get pregnant. On your period, that
lining is discarded to prepare to put a
"fresh" one in it's place. That is why
you have cramps. It is you uterus
cramping up releasing the lining. The
doctor has told me, that although gross,
this is the least likely time to get
pregnant. This will not cause an
infection.
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insurancegirl
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Posted: 10-01-03 15:28pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 09-27-04 14:00pm; edited 1 time in total
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