Hi, i'm new to the boards. I know this
question has probably been asked a 1000
times, but I have a unique twist on it I
think. Ok, i'm 21, I haven't had sex in
about 2 years, but I have masturbated
normally (not everyday). I have never had
any problem with erections or anything
like that. Well, friday I went to see a
girl that I met and we spent the weekend
at a motel together. We cuddled and stuff
the whole night until like 6 saturday
morning (and I had erections quite a bit
the whole night) so then we started
messing around and were going to have sex
and I couldnt get it up! I freaked out
cuz it had never happened to me before.
My girl said it was ok and not to worry
about it that it happens. So we stopped
and went to sleep (oh I masturbated
thursday, so I know nothing was wrong).
So the next morning we went and got
breakfast and stuff and I had to use the
bathroom really bad. A burning sensation
kinda that I hadnt had before. So when I
used the bathroom, the urine was an odd
color (almost orange, I cant explain it)
and after I was finished it burned really
bad and I noticed that there was an odd
substance that came out. It was like a
gel or jello type thing that was white and
cloudy. I was just so freaked out.
Anyway fast forward, sunday morning, we
managed to have sex after she gave me oral
sex, but it still wasnt right. I mean I
could tell that it wasnt a full erection
and I could barely keep it up. But we
both managed to get off and that was that.
Now today, I noticed that I watched porn
and the erection wasnt as strong as usual
again! I always get it up watching porn.
Anyway, could I have damaged myself maybe
by having an erection too long/ too
frequent friday night without releiving
myself? Or am I just overreacting? My
girl thinks that im just trying too hard
and that I need to relax... Please im
scared and I need help. Thank you...
