Honey,
i am going to begin with the fact that he
is 12 years older than you. To begin
with, a man that has a physical
relationship with a
fifteen/sixteen/seventeen year old is
going to be held responsible and could
face prison time for statutory rape.
Also, I would speak with your mom. Does
she know you are dating this man? If you
knew it was possible to get pregnant, why
didn't you use a condom? I'm glad you
are deciding to keep the baby. I really
am. God bless you and keep you and your
baby safe.
Ccn330
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ccn330
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Oct 2003 Posts: 7 Location: IL
12 Posted: 10-02-03 12:46pm
Honey,
i am going to begin with the fact that he
is 12 years older than you. To begin
with, a man that has a physical
relationship with a
fifteen/sixteen/seventeen year old is
going to be held responsible and could
face prison time for statutory rape.
Also, I would speak with your mom. Does
she know you are dating this man? If you
knew it was possible to get pregnant, why
didn't you use a condom? I'm glad you
are deciding to keep the baby. I really
am. God bless you and keep you and your
baby safe.
Ccn330
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Autumn
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Oct 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Moreno VAlley
Posted: 10-14-03 03:46am
Kitty,
I won't judge you because of how
old you are, because i'm 18 years old and
I had my 1st baby when I was 15 years old
to. I'm now pregnant with my 2nd baby,
and it's by a diffrent dad. All I want to
say to you, is think about it, does he
really love you? Can you see your self 10
years from now still with him? Sure you
do. I said the same thing. Hes a lot
older than you, you never know how your
feelings are going to change when you get
older, because they do. Sweetie i'll tell
you what i've learned. I have a 2 1/2
year old little girl, her daddy said he
loved me, and he would always be their for
me. As I got older (1 year later), he
began getting on my nerves, I did'nt even
think he was cute anymore. We began
fighting all the time, and he would'nt get
a job. We had to live at his moms house,
because he was so lazy. Now i'm pregnant
again, this babies dad would always hit
me, lock me up in a room for days, and no
matter how many times I tried to break up
with him, he would hit me even more. I
stayed with him for 1 year, and now he hit
me while I was pregnant and I put him in
jail. The d.A. Wants to give him 6 years
in state prison. So now i'm a pretty, 18
year old young lady, whose about to have
her 2nd child. I'm just trying to tell
you that your young, and you don't want to
depend on any man. Think about it, he
wants you to kill a little baby, f**k him.
You said you work also right? Save up
money yourself, and take care of your
baby. Ask your family to help you, you'll
never know until you ask. Don't forget to
finsh school, it will be hard but it can
be done. Take care of your self. Think
hard about what your going to do. But
think about it, what is a older man doing
with someone so young? One thing that
i've learned is all they want is sex, and
to control you, because your so much
younger than they are. Think about it.
Good luck abd
take care,
autumn :d :d
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modelmommy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2003 Posts: 21 Location: My Beautiful Home
Posted: 10-14-03 11:06am
Autumn you and I are in the same boat!!
I had my daughter kierra at 15 and I am
now 33 weeks pregnant with my second child
who is by a different dad and I am also
18. However I am engaged to my second
baby's dad. Having a baby at 15 does not
ruin your life! It just means that you
have to grow up faster! You can still
have a good time with a baby, just not as
much! You can still have a life, but
just need know that you are the center of
that child's life and if you go out once
in a while its no big deal but when you
party all day, everyday they will look for
another mommy figure!!
Good luck with everything!
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