Hello there,

perhaps you shouldn't be quick to judge becuase you could have it all wrong it may not be that. Why not ask him? He shouldn't get mad. I think it's best you ask him why has he acted turned off around you. But don't jump into conclusion with out knowing for sure. Good luck~

I think it could be you feeling sh!Tty about the way you look and you just can't imagine him finding you sexy or maybe he's just a guy and doesn't know how to show it well... I don't think you should worry. Just tie him down and make him want you.

For your sake, I hope not. It's strange to think of it, but, he might just be afraid to hurt you or the baby.

You have the right to know what he feels. Have you initiated sex, yet? Maybe he doesn't think you're interested. Especially if you're tired, sore and moody. It's also important to stroke their ego during this time sweetheart, I hate to say it, but they aren't as strong as we are


let us know, I hope it gets better.

Hey there I felt the same way u did..... About the guy thing.But I talked to my boyfriend about it and he was just afriad he was goin to hurt me or the baby and becuz I was so moody and he doesnt like to see me crabby or n e thing ....But I think you should talk to your husband about it

good luck

kc

Sometimes men handle pregnancies differently. While most men find pregnant women extremely beautiful, he may be terrified at this huge event in his life. Men don't always know how to handle the feelings they have. Does he have a mentor? (an older gentleman of good moral character that he trusts?) my husband can't always express his fears to me, but he is very close to the assistant pastor at our church. I can tell him something to try to calm him down, and it doesn't work, but the pastor can say the exact same thing and it works like a charm. Men are funny creatures. Just love him with all your heart. Be a comfort to him, but not obviously. Know that pregnancy is a natural and beautiful thing and that you are your most beautiful right now. He may not be able to see past his fears. Besides, 9 times out of 10, it's not looks that make a man stray, but lack of intimacy (that's not the same as sex). Be loving, giving and gentle. Women are emotionally stronger than men. Nurture him, he needs you.

God bless you and your marriage.

Pamela

My husband was afraid to come near me when I was pregnant. My doctors talked to him and told him he would not hurt me or the baby if we made love but he could not get past his fears.
It's normal I think. Most men don't really understand the female pregnant body and how strong it can be they think we are going to break.
Ask your husband if he is afraid of hurting you and if he is then try and talk to him or have your doctor talk to him.
Hope this helps.

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