Well as you all should know..My babies
father (glenn) is a total a-hole. Well he
had the nerve to call me today. After so
long. When he left me. One minute hes
nice to me the next hes not. I just dont
even want him in mine or my daughers life.
Well he called me and was like I talked
to my lawyer and im just letting you know
im working under the table so im not
paying you s**t. And I was like thats
fine me and her dont need you. And he
goes well im going to get full
custody..Hahah yea right he is. I was
like glenn you haevnt been to one appt.
Wit me..And have done crap for this baby
and you honestly think your going to get
her. Are you insane? So we just faught
and then he put his stupid girlfriend on
the phone and me and her exchanged some
not so nice words..And I just am soo
frustuarted..Ugh sorry girls I just needed
to vent:(
*marisa*
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-24-04 22:01pm
Aww hunni!! Dont listen to him he seems
like an problem!! He doesnt derserve ur
baby girl!! You do. I hope everything
works out for you sweetie *kiss*
.Alison xoxo
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Julymommy72504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Cincinnati, Oh
Posted: 06-25-04 00:26am
Marisa don't worry bout that problem! If
he aint paying nothing for her now he wont
pay for her to be in his full custody
either. It is the hardest thing in the
workd to take a baby away from its mommy.
You have to have physical proof she is a
bad mommy and he has none cause your not a
bad mom!!! He sucks and so does the
health forum he is with.
Lots of love,
heather and hayley
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
Posted: 06-25-04 01:10am
Well marisa, he can say what he wants ,but
he doesn't have a dime to put it on.
Next time he calls record the convo if you
can ,and if you can get him on tape saying
that he is getting paid under the table
that is great. But if you can't don't
worry. If you can afford it get a lawyer
,and if not look up legal aid in your
area. And take him to family court. Did
he sign the birth cert. ? If not you may
need to get a court ordered paternity test
first (they usually pay for it). After
that is done (which you may not need
anyway), go back to court a make a request
for child support (sometimes you may have
to have a custody hearing first but in
most cases where one parent is the obvious
main caretaker you won't need one). And
if he says to the court that he doesn't
have a job ,it won't matter b/c he is
still responsible for his child. If he
does claim that he doesn't have a job the
order will be low at first but at least
it'll be something to shut his smart a$$
up. But if you can get him on tape he'll
really have to pay up. And the best part
of it all is that in most states if he
misses three payments (most of the time it
has to be consecutive), and you report him
each time ,by the third time they'll be
sending his little a$$ to jail. And I
know that you said you don't need anything
from him ,but that is beside the point.
Your child deserves everything in the
world, and you shouldn't let the dad get
off especially when he is an problem. And
you at least owe your baby that.
Hate to say it but I agree with newlife.
She's right. Get it on tape or something
that way you can f**k him over!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 06-25-04 16:21pm
You dont even need it recorded. You take
him to court for child support and its
ordered that he has to pay child support.
And if not he gets in trouble. Or you
collect welfare and they make him pay it
back. So either way hes screwed. Im sure
once the judge puts him in his place he
will shut his mouth so fast, you will be
the laughing. So dont worry. Dont let
him bother you. You shouldnt even talk to
him. Screw him. I cant stand dead beats.
