Ok, Here's What Happened... Posted: 06-24-04 23:38pm
Ok, first you need to know some background
information for anything to even make
sense. Dottie is my ex-bestfriend.
I hate her. She's a
prostitute...Seriously. She really
gets around. Anyway...She dated nick a
while back. She talked to other guys
while they were dating and health forum at
him all the time about stupid caca. I
constantly used to ask her why she was
even with him if she wasn't happy.
Then, after they broke up, she started
dating nick's best friend chipper.
They dated for a few weeks and then she
met one of chipper's friends, charles.
Then, she started dating charles.
Now, charles has been in jail several
times and every time he goes to jail,
dottie cheats on him with like 5 different
guys. Charles just got out of jail
again a couple weeks ago. As some of
you guys know, me and nick have had some
history.
The other night my brother had some of his
friends over because they had bought a
bunch of fireworks and were setting them
off in the street out front of the house.
Nick was here too. After they got
done setting of the fireworks it was
pretty boring, so I asked nick if he
wanted to go to the movie place and rent a
movie. He said yeah, so we went.
We got there right as they had closed
though. So, I decided to try to ask
around and see if anyone had any good
dvds. Even though I don't get along
with dottie too well, her mom and I are
cool and talk all the time. I decided
to go to my friend sherry's house (which
is right across the street from dottie's
mom's house) and ask her if I could borrow
a dvd. Nick waited in the car though.
Well, she couldn't find them, cuz she
said she only had a couple and her husband
must have put them somewhere. So, I
decided to go across the street to
dottie's mom's house and ask. Nick
waited in the car again there. But
dottie's mom only had disney movies.
Then, we went back to my house and just
decided to watch scary movie 3 over at his
house. We invited my little brother
over to watch it with us. While we
were watching the movie, justin had gone
to my house and my dad told him I wasn't
home and that I was over at nicks. So,
justin knocked on nick's door and I went
out on the porch to talk to him. He
asked what we were going and I said that
we were watching a movie and then he asked
what movie and I told him scary movie 3.
He was like, "oh cool". Then, he
asked me what dottie was doing and I told
him she was probably having sex with
charles (cuz that's what she truly is
usually doing). Justin was really
high and drunk though. He had just
came from a party at the college. I
told him to go home and go to sleep
because he wasn't in any condition to be
driving. He didn't listen though, and
he went to dottie's apartment and even
though me and nick had done absolutely
nothing and I told justin we were just
watching a movie...He told dottie that I
was having sex with nick. Yeah, to say
the least...That didn't go too swell.
Anyway, back to the movie...
So we were watching the movie on his couch
together and he started rubbing my arm and
then he put his arm around me. I
scooted closer to him and we cuddled up
together under a blanket. It was
sweet. We watched another movie after
scary movie 3 was over and my brother had
fallen asleep across the room on the other
couch. During the end of the second
movie, we started making out and then
things started heating up and there was
touching and groping...Anyways, we ended
up on his bed together and we had sex.
So, even though I hadn't had sex with him
before justin came over, I did after he
had left. That kind of put me in an
weird position the next day when dottie
called me up health forum at me and
telling me how messed up it was that I was
"messing" with her ex. She's like
really pissed off and she told her
boyfriend, charles, about it and he said
she was jealous. That kind of made him
mad because he got the impression that
dottie still liked nick. So, today,
charles decided to walk to nick's house
(and remember, nick lives one house down
from me) to "beat his a$$". My
parents get home from the store and pull
in our driveway and see justin and dottie
driving up and down the road and charles
over at nick's. They come in and ask
why charles is over at nick's and ask why
dottie and justin keep driving by the
house. I flip out and get pissed and
go over to nick's and tell charles off and
then i'm like, "dottie better watch the
f*ck out, cuz i'm sick ok her caca".
I was so pissed I started shaking, so I
drove over to sherry's (that's where
dottie and justin were) and I was planning
on beating the caca out of dottie, but
dottie's mom and sherry and the little 5
year old girl that she babysits were all
out on the porch with her and justin...So
I couldn't. I asked justin what they
were doing and why charles decided to make
a scene at nick's in front of all his
friends. Justin claims he had nothing
to do with it, but none of this would have
happened if he wouldn't have went back and
told dottie. They said that charles
was pissed off at nick. That's when I
was like, "for what? I'm not his doing
it girlfriend, why should he care?" and
then I left. I got home and the phone
kept ringing and it was dottie, so I
didn't answer it. Then, justin started
calling too. I finally got sick of it
and answered the phone and it was justin.
He was like, "i heard something about
you." I asked him what he heard and he
said he had heard that I touched charles's
dick. Which is .caca!!! He's nasty
and I wouldn't mess with him if he was the
last guy on earth!!! So now dottie
thinks I messed with her boyfriend.
The only reason I can think of that he
would tell her that, is to make her
jealous of him since she's jealous of nick
and he's pissed about it. I'm really
sick of this crap though. There has
been nothing but bad caca and drama in my
life. I honestly don't know how much
more I can take. I honestly felt so
unstable today, I thought about checking
myself into mental health hospital. I
know that sounds stupid, but i'm serious.
I'm so stressed and i'm sooo soo
tired. I have depression, axiety and
now chronic fatigue syndrom. I really
don't feel like dealing with all the extra
added stress and crap. Then, there's
the situation you guys already know about
with my mom talking about me behind my
back and about her pretending ethan is
hers. Everyone thinks i'm this
horrible person, and i'm really not.
I have .N.O. Friends left whatsoever.
Just when you think someone is your
friend, they stab you in the back. I
tried to call my friend steven and talk to
him, because he's usually really
understanding and helps me out, but he
just lectured me and told me that i'm
"going down the wrong path". I'm
really not doing anything bad. I stay
in my house all day like a loser.
Occasionally, I do go out hang out, but
not very often. He told me that I
need to get my life together. He
doesn't understand, no one understands.
They just go by what everyone else has
told them or what they've heard. I am
seriously so lost. I have no one.
I have no friends. I have no one to
talk to about anything. I feel like
i'm going crazy. I can't talk to my
parents, I have no friends and i'm getting
to the point where I feel like giving up
and that everything is hopeless.
There is so much more to say, but I just
can't do it. I'm sorry...I just need
to rest for a while. I'm so so very
tired.
Screw that dottie girl. I am tellin you
she is just not even worth the stress.
Easier said than done, I know, but just
laugh at her. She is jealous, and that
is all it is! Neener, neener, neener,
you got her man! Even though she has
like five of them, she is still jealous
that one of her old men is with you, and
not chasing her. Forget her!
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 06-25-04 09:04am
Wow they are really immature....Jealousy
is a terrible thing...But if it were me up
in there some people woulda already had
some whoopins! Lol. Girl you know you
are above all that....And as for your
mom....Tell her she is too old to have
kids and too ugly to have one as beautiful
as ethan! Lol I hope you feel better
because I know exactly how you feel. But
you don't want to go to a mental hospital.
Been there, done that, caca scared me
straight. They are scary places...U cant
wear shoe laces or even a bra with an
underwire....And u dont want to be away
from ethan do u? Im sure u dont. Sorry
but I g2g. Good luck girl!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-25-04 09:18am
Crystal, you don't deserve friends like
that! Forget about them. Get some new
friends. They don't deserve to have you
as a friend.
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 06-25-04 11:20am
I don't have friends. You guys are my
only friends. And it's a lot different on
the net. I wish we all lived in the same
neighborhood. Wouldn't that be awesome?
Crystal
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 06-25-04 12:47pm
That would be awesome to all live in the
same neighborhood. Im with u crystal I
dont have "friends" yall are my only real
friends. Cause yall didnt take off when I
found out I was pregnant unlike my old
friends. Crystal those ppl are dumb and
immature
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 06-25-04 12:49pm
Hun dont worry!! You are sooo much better
than them...Like chrissy said you dont
want to go to a mental hositpal I have
been to one 3 times!! They are so scarey
and you get all drugged up its not cool...
I dont have many friends all I have is
melanie and cassie and all of you guys of
course!! I hate not having any friends
but I just think of it this way I dont
want to be like most teenagers out
there... I dont party I use to alot tho I
dont drink but I smoke weed but thats
differnt... I hate staying out late at
nite... You have one of the speicalest
things in life and than is your ethan!!
As for your mom tell her what chrissy said
haha that was funny:p or don't even listen
to her...Swwetie your such a wonderful
person and mother!!! Remeber you have
your whole doing it life ahead of you...Ur
only 17 (i think)
i have been thinking about my life and
sh*t and I started thinking im the only
one that can change my life they way I
want it too be... I want to be skinney I
need to be skinney b4 I go to
austriala...So me and my mom have been
going mostly everyday for 30-45 mins im
trying to eat healthy....Now all I need is
a job!! Like I want to do it but im
scared and neourus(sp?) but I know once I
start handing them out it gets easy...
Even if you dont have any friends... I
love you so much!!!! And so many people
on here do too!!
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 06-25-04 14:37pm
They took ethan again. I was feeding him
and they were leaving to go to the store
and she told me she was taking ethan
along, and I told her no because he was
eating. And she said to my dad,"get his
diaper bag ready". I was like, "no, I
want him to stay here with me."...And she
didn't say anything, but she picked up his
car seat and went out the door and then my
dad was standing there and I said, "see,
this is what I doing it mean....She tries
to pretend like she's ethan's mom and she
doesn't give a f*ck what I say. He's my
son, and I want him to stay here." my dad
didn't say anything and at this point I
was so pissed and i've had enough fighting
since yesterday....So I bit my tongue and
didn't say anything except. "that's
screwed up." they left, took ethan with
them... And left me home by myself.
Crystal,
eathen is your son. Would your sister
possibly allow you to move in with her?
You need to explain to your mother that
you are ethan's mother. Not her. And you
need to draw a line. She is grandma and
you are mama. Is there somewhere you
could possibly go? This is going to
become confusing to ethan when he'sa bit
older. Do you think your mom like, when
you aren't around, calls herself mom and
stuff? That sad! Girl, reclaim your
position! That is your son!
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BbyBlu0602
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2004 Posts: 822 Location: Virginia
Posted: 06-25-04 19:00pm
Yes, i'm sure she does. She's done it
right in front of me. Sometimes when
ethan is crying he'll make a sound that
sounds like "mama", and the other day he
did that while he was crying for a bottle
and I was standing right beside my mom in
the kitchen and she said, "mamas, getting
you a bottle...And then she started making
the bottle and went into the living room
and said, how's my boy?" no, I don't
think I could move in with my sister
because her house his croweded as it is.
I wouldn't have a room to stay in because
all of the bedrooms are taken up. She has
3 kids.
Crystal
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-26-04 03:23am
Crystal, how old are you? Just curious
as to if you could get government housing.
If you got a social worker and explained
your situation, you may just be able to
get them to help you. That is messed up.
You really need to get out of there
now.
It just scares me, because the longer you
stay with your mother the more she will
fight when you go to move out. Not that
she could get custody, but she sounds like
the kind of person who would try, and you
don't need that crap. Hang in there, but
definately check into housing
assistance.
I agree with the mental institution thing.
I was in there once for seventeen days
because my parents "couldn't control me"
i still haven't and don't think I ever
will completely forgive them for that.
That seventeen days was hell.
