Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Where Is a Good Shoulder to Cry On When I Need One??? Posted: 06-26-04 02:09am
I was talking to this 16 year old girl who
is friends with my 32 year old bf, and
well.. All seemed fine at first, she is
really nice, has a bf who she really
loves, and after talking for a couple
hours, she tells me this.... (i am copy
and pasting it here)
"we were talking and then he said is your
bf treating u better I was like ya were
doing great and he was like that's good to
hear and I was like in fact I get to see
him in august and he was like that's good,
enjoy the sex and I was like I will and he
was like I am jealous nad I was like why
and he was like cuz I want u and I was
like I get that alot and he was like I bet
you do and he was like I wish we could
have sex and I was like ya I know and he
was like maybe if u two fall threw maybe
we can. I was like I don't think so I am
loyal to my bf"
then I asked her when he said this.....
And she said........
"like a few days ago. That's not all.
Then I said hey I thought u had a gf? He
said I dunno why don't u go ask her, she
tells me one thing and then does another"
.what is that??? I say one thing and do
another??? And he wants to .medical
question her?????????? Hell no!!!!! I am
soooooo hurt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-26-04 03:43am
Oh, honey, I am sorry. Men suck my butt.
If he really is hitting on her, a 16
year old and he is 32? I think he needs
therapy. I know, I know, when you are in
love age doesn't matter, but he is twice
as old as her and she isn't even 18 yet,
and to me, that is just wrong.
Plus, judging from your pasted
conversation with her, she isn't very
bright either. No offense, but that "i
was like, and he was like" was really
annoying!
Sorry dear, I don't know what to tell you.
I love being single.
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
I Know.. Posted: 06-26-04 04:52am
That whole I was like and he was like bit
annoyed me, but she really is bright and
smart. I really like her, she is nice. I
hope she and I can keep talking.
My bf says he was telling her that if we
broke up, and that he knew she wouldn't
leave her bf anyway. I was like what
ever!!!! And that is an excuse to want
to have sex with her?? I'm confused!
stacey
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003 Posts: 309 Location: colorado
Posted: 06-26-04 07:42am
Ummmm ok thats sick hes 32 and shes 16?
Hello illegal
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 06-26-04 08:46am
Hun u deserve so much better than that!
32 and 16 are creepy numbers....Does he
realize he is twice her age? Yucky!
Lol......But you are too good for him just
so you know that hun!!!
I am so sorry hun! Guys suck. I haven't
found a goo done yet. I know some of you
have decent ones, but for the most part
they suck! I'd let him have it girl~
don't hold back!
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 06-26-04 12:21pm
That would be an immediate break up with
me!!
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 06-26-04 15:59pm
Aw hun im sorry! Yeah, I would break up
with him too.. Good luck tho!
<3
gaby
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Its Bugging Me!! Posted: 06-26-04 16:41pm
It is really bugging me!! He is trying to
say it wouldn't happen unless we .D.I.D
break up, but eather way, he .W.A.N.T.S to
have sex with her, and this is bugging the
caca out of me!!!! Why the hell is he
bothering to keep me around if he is
wanting someone else??????? And yet I
feel stuck. If I go back to my dad's I
will become sick again (his house is way
too dirty and it makes my asthma get
really bad and I get really really
sick!!!) and I have a "friend" who would
help me out, but she has been more of a
problem in my life then a friend, and she
has this horrible bf who I hate, and I do
not want around him at all!!!! In her bfs
words, I am disrespectful to him because I
wouldn't .medical question him!! Haha!!
I don't want to be near him, thank you
very much!!! So I am compleatly .messed
here!!!
stacey
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 06-26-04 18:02pm
Yeah, I get jealous that my boyfriend had
a crush on another girl even when we
weren't going out. That would be
automatic end for us. I just could not
deal with it and if he actually doesn't
deny it, then he's up caca's creek or
would be with me!!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-26-04 18:06pm
If he wants to have sex with her, that
means he is looking at other girls and
lusting after other girls while you two
are together. I agree with everybody
else. That's an automatic leave him.
Saying you have to leave him and actully
doing it are two every hard, very
different things. I, have been in that
position and I know how hard the decision
making process is to decide wether to
leave or not..... Sweetie, think about
yourself. You are way to good to let
yourself be brought down by this guy! You
are a wonderful person, but only you can
decide what to do......... Never though,
never let yourself think you deserve to be
treated badly......You are a wonderful
person who deserves the very best!
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 06-26-04 18:35pm
I realize like chanda said that it is
easier said then done which is usually the
case which is with you since you're asking
advice (advice is what we ask for when we
know the answer but wish we didn't ) well just think,
you won't be grieving for him in about a
year after you find a wonderful new
boyfriend who lusts only you. You will
be if you don't break up with him and keep
watching him eye other woman.
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Posted: 06-26-04 22:56pm
God I hate this!!! I feel like I must
have done something really bad to deserve
this!! He called me just a minut ago
and was acting like everything is all
great between him and i!!! When I was
giving him the cold shoulder, he asked me
what was wrong, I said well duh, you are
whast wrong! And he had the nerve to ask
me "what did I do??" .O.M.G!!! So I
told him think about it, why I have been
mad at you the last 24 hours??? And he
was like oh please, come on! It was just
a fantacy! And I was sharing it with
her! .W.H.A.T??? A
.F.A.N.T.A.C.Y?????????????
.B.S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him well
because of your fantacy its over!! He
was like oh please you do the same thing!
To .H.E.L.L I do!! I told him he can
keep flirting and what not cause its over!
And so he asked me if I was still going
on the trip next month and I said hell
yeah I am!! I'm not missing out of a
free trip!! Lol
but girls.. This
sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes find another guy, but who wants an
over weight pregnant lady or over weight
mother!!!
oh yeah, and today he was on www.Myspace.Com and
messaging swingers looking for
dates!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! And as of a
minut ago, we were together, and he was
still all I love you and crap!!!! Omg
omg omg I hate him!!!! No.. I love him,
but I want to hate him!!!!!! I hate
this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stacey
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-27-04 17:16pm
Okay, you really need to leave him. I
know it will be hard, but it really needs
to be done. I mean, every guy and girl
(at some point) looks and fantasises (and
I know that is spelled wrong). But there
is a difference between looking and
saying/doing nothing, and looking and
telling the girl that he wants to f her.
And saying all of that crap about you!
Whatever....He seems really sick and
demented and I think he needs therapy. I
feel for ya girl, I really do, but you
need to put your foot down and get out.
Don't play his games. He is gross.
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theman0o
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jun 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Tokyo
Posted: 06-27-04 17:48pm
Ok some girls make me sick, every time
some gross dude do something really
unusually stupid and weird like being 32
and hitting on a 16 all the girls go, men
can suck my ass > well I have something
to tell you all women that says that: use
a dildo, you don’t reserve a man!
This dude is hitting honeybun, he’s
cheating on her, he doesn’t even have
money to pay the rent, he’s 32 year old?
That is the most disgusting, useless
human-bin that ever came out from a hairy
suckers can you women say that man suck?
Is that guy a man? Do you think that all
men is that like this douche-bag? You’re
wrong! There are really good men out
there you just have to give them a chance,
no matter how you look as a lady, no
matter how overweight you think you are
don’t be fooled, everyone is meant to be
with someone, if you exist on this planet
then be assured that someone that is right
for you exists as well, you just have to
be open minded and never loose faith in
yourself, some women are too scared to
leave their man and accept some extensive
abuse from them, big mistake!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-27-04 20:41pm
Wow, that was really hard to make any
sense out of.
Umm, if you would read the posts correctly
almost all of them say "i know that not
all men suck and that there are some good
ones out there, but in general men suck"
well, in general they do! In general
most women suck too! The general
population sucks! That doesn't mean that
us women who are intelligent enough to
realize that do not deserve a man, but a
dildo. That is just dumb.
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theman0o
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jun 2004 Posts: 3 Location: Tokyo
Posted: 06-28-04 08:16am
hotasfrick
wrote:
... The general population
sucks! ...
good point. My apologies for the
inappropriate dildo joke.
) well just think,
you won't be grieving for him in about a
year after you find a wonderful new
boyfriend who lusts only you. You will
be if you don't break up with him and keep
watching him eye other woman.
.O.M.G!!! So I
told him think about it, why I have been
mad at you the last 24 hours??? And he
was like oh please, come on! It was just
a fantacy! And I was sharing it with
her! .W.H.A.T??? A
.F.A.N.T.A.C.Y?????????????
.B.S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I told him well
because of your fantacy its over!! He
was like oh please you do the same thing!
To .H.E.L.L I do!! I told him he can
keep flirting and what not cause its over!
And so he asked me if I was still going
on the trip next month and I said hell
yeah I am!! I'm not missing out of a
free trip!! Lol
