I am 20 , and I recently lost my virginity
with my love , it pained a lot . We again
had it for the second time . But it too
was really painful for me . We tried to
have for the third time too . But we
stopped due to my pain again . So I am
worried ! How long will it pain ? With
how many attempts will I start getting
pleasure and it won't hurt ?
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-27-04 20:59pm
It may hurt for a while dear. You may
also have a condition causing excess pain.
Do you go for your annual exams? If
not, I would recommend it. You could
have a tipped uterus or something. Very
common, and can cause great pain during
intercourse.
As for the pleasure thing, well unless he
know exactly what he is doing, that may
take quite a while!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Painful Lovemaking Posted: 06-28-04 15:04pm
I'm sorry you are in so much pain.It's
never like it is in lovestories.See a
doctor just to make sure you are healthy
and to get birth control.If all is
okay,give yourselves time to learn about
each others' bodies.Show him what makes
you feel good(you do know???)let him show
you what he likes.Great sex takes
time!!Just because the first several times
have not been terrific,don't loose
hope.Relax and enjoy each other!!Good luck
