Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Its Over! Posted: 06-27-04 01:48am
Ok, jeff called me yet again on the phone,
and we got into a fight. He says he
treats me the way he does because I treat
him that way. Come again?? I do???
Since when have I hit him and left bruses
on him?? Since when did I tell I guy I
want to suck his c*ck or sleep with a guy?
He told me he wants me out of his life
and the baby! I told him that will never
happen, cause he is the father, and if he
doesn't want to be in our lives fine, but
he is going to pay child support, so he
called me a health forum, and said I
wasn't going on the trip. Lol!!! His mom
is still going to have me go on the trip,
no matter what jeff says, because she
loves me, and this is her grandchild! And
guess what, he doesn' have enough money
for the rent, and i'm not giving it to
him!!! And his room mates? I am going to
make sure they know he rips them off.
Rent is $1200. He pays only $100 of that,
the other two room mates pay the rest!
They will love knowing this.
Stacey
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 06-27-04 01:55am
Guys are jerks (well not all, congrats to
the girls that got one of the few good
ones)... Dont stress over this dude, its
not worth it! You dont deserve that crap!
You will find somebody way way better...
I sometimes wish I had enough strength to
leave the @ss im with, but I just cant do
it... I love him so much, but I hate him
at the same time. Im sick of not being
able to trust him!
Good for you! You deserve better than
that trash!
Love,
chanda
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Posted: 06-27-04 03:01am
I can't breath!! I'm dieing here!!! I
need him!!!! Even though he can be a
compleat jerk!!! He is also soo sweet at
times!!! And I don't want to lose him!!!
But I think its too late!!! I don't want
tlo live with out him. What do I do????
Please god what do I doo!!!!????????????
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
Posted: 06-27-04 10:09am
Hun u gotta take a few deep breaths
everything will be ok. U can do this with
him or without him, but if he's treatin u
like that with hitting and tellin 16yr old
girls he wants to f*ck them then he is not
worth it! U deserve alot better than
that.
~heather ryan and mackenzie
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 06-27-04 10:23am
Hun I know its hard but just try to calm
down. Everyday without him will get
easier, I promise! You dont need him, no
matter how much you think you do. Hope
everything works out and gets better! =)
remember that we're always here for you!
<3
gaby
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-27-04 12:12pm
Sometimes it's worth giving up something
good to get something bad out of your
life. And sometimes it's worth putting
up with something bad to keep something
good in your life. You've got to decide
which this is. Good luck girl!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 06-27-04 17:42pm
I understand it is hard, but you have to
think of yourself and the baby. I mean,
if he is hitting you then what is he going
to do to your child? And if he is 32 and
after 16 year old chicks, what kind of a
role model is that anyway? You don't
have a baby girl do you? If you do, then
you need to think about her. If he
doesn't hit on her or abuse her, (and I am
not trying to say that it is inevitable
that he will) then what about her and her
friends when they hit like 13? He would
be hitting on her friends and that is just
sick.
He has some serious issues. And if he
said that he doesn't want you or the baby
in his life then screw him. He doesn't
need to be. He doesn't deserve you or
the baby. Get out and stay out. I know
it is hard, but it will be worth it. He
is psycho. If you cannot do it for
yourself, do it for your baby! Please!
He is sick!
