I Need Some Serious Advice!!! Please Reply.... Posted: 06-29-04 03:04am
I have hpv, I got it from my ex-boyfriend
of 4 years. After a year of being with
him I had my one and only break out and
have seen a doctor snice that and that was
3 years ago. Well, back in sept. We
brokeup and here recently I have been
seeing someone else. I have never had to
deal with telling someone about me having
hpv. I have not yet slept with this guy
or anything but I have had thoughts of
maybe pursuing that and taking the
relationship to the next level. But,
before I do all that I have to tell him
that I have hpv, and I want to know how do
I tell him and what do I say exactly. I'm
really scared and need someone's help.
Please please help me...
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bootsie840
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2003 Posts: 113 Location: pennsylvainaia
Posted: 06-29-04 07:12am
I really dont know to much about hpv, but
first and foremost just be open and honest
with him tell him exactly what you posted,
if a man cares about you enough hell stay
with you it wont mater, just make sure
when you do decide to have sex you use
condoms to protect him. Having a std does
not make you a bad person, it means you
had sex and there are tons of people who
have them, and they are in relationships
or married, so life doesnt stop because of
it, if he doesnt stay then oh well his
loss youll find someone who cares about
you for the person you are not for what
you have,
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Acdga21
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2004 Posts: 7
Thanks For You Great Advice. Posted: 06-29-04 12:03pm
Thank you so much for your great advice
it's very uplifting. This is so hard I
really don't know how to handle it for
i've never really had to face it like
this. But I really don't even know how to
bring it up or anything so i'm trying to
do some research and get some help. Thank
you once again for your input every little
bit helps. I'll be sure to post back how
things go when I get the nerve to do it.
Thanks ashley
