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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
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Self Mutilation.
Posted: 06-29-04 19:20pm
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Well, I was all watching real world today
and this gurl named franki cuts herself.
She was all crying and in another room and
the cams werent in there but by the way
she was crying I could tell she was
cutting herself. Then like not two min.
Later she admitted to cutting herself.
She cuts herself on her thighs like I do
when i'm really upset. I havent cut in
about a month now....I posted about doing
it...I think it got erased...But this dude
came on afterwards and was like
all...Talking about how people mutilate
themselves because of emotional distress
and need profesional help..And I yelled at
the tv.
Am I just crazy? El oh el...Im yelling at
a television!
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 06-29-04 19:23pm
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Haha not crazy! I used to always cut
myself (until one day I went to far and
cut too deep) but I havent since ive been
preg (yay for me!) but I hate how people
always say its "for attention" or "cry for
help" cuz its not always the case. Tv's
so stupid sometimes! I always find myself
b**ching at commercials too haha!
Shauna
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 06-29-04 20:11pm
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I do some self-mutilation type stuff but I
dont actually cut with a razor or sharp
objects, I take my nails and pick or
scratch at myskin untili bleed..
<3
gaby
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
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Posted: 06-29-04 23:22pm
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Well I believe that people who mutilate
themselves do need help ,even though they
may not want to hear it. I went to
therapy a while ago for my depression ,and
at first I didn't want to admit it, but
after a while I couldn't help but to
realize the pain that I was feeling. I
wouldn't say that I got cured ,but I don't
get depressed anymore. So therapy is a
good thing. But if you decide to get
help, please don't tell anyone that you
cut yourself b/c if you do the therapist
will most definately get you locked up
somewhere for a period of time. Just tell
them that you need to talk to someone
about the pain you are feeling inside.
But if your hurting yourself has gotten to
an extreme please tell whomever you have
to.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-29-04 23:23pm
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*laughs* i've already been down that
cousulling road....I was in it for a
year..I hated it. And i'm not going
back.
Nice try.
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
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Posted: 06-29-04 23:42pm
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I know it can be kind of stupid ,but it
all depends on the therapist. I made one
of mine cry hehe. Some of them are so
dumb b/c they think that they know
everything. But I found a great one, she
was cool.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
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Posted: 06-29-04 23:44pm
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Mine was mostly for sexual abuse..But I
could talk to her about anything. I made
her cry.
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 1062 Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 06-30-04 13:32pm
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I dont agree that people do it for
attention..They do it because its the only
way that will make them feel good..Or
atleast thats what they think. Meh. I
dont agree with people cutting themselves
though.
Shannon xoxox
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littlehunybunny
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
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Posted: 06-30-04 18:53pm
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When I get really really mad at someone,
or they hurt me in some way I hit myself.
Punching my head. I can't stand actually
hitting someone else, unless they hit me
first, so I hit myself. It helps me calm
down. I am trying to over come this
though.
Stacey
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Rhapsody
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2004 Posts: 17
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Posted: 06-30-04 22:14pm
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.....I cut myself.
......My wrists.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:25am
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Lol want me to give you a gold metal?
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 07-01-04 11:03am
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I used to cut my wrists, I have only done
it twice since I been going out with kevin
cuz alot of my depression went away, since
I moved out my moms, and I left school...
But I havent cut myself in over a year. I
used to do it cuz I would get so angry at
myself and it was almost like a form of
disaplining myself, but kinda like cutting
out the bad at the same time... I guess
it was also kinda practice cuts, til I got
the guts to actually do it to kill myself,
and I would hope that one time I would
accidently slice too deep and I would just
slowly bleed to death in my bedroom. My
mom found out about it and told my
therapist I was seeing at the time because
of my bad grades... She never really
helped me, except to get on some drugs
that I just started to abuse... I never
got put away for cutting myself, and my
therapist knew about it and would check my
wrists when I went and would just talk to
me about it, it would make me feel better
talking about it and then she would talk
to my mom about how they could make it
better, like removing my verbaly abusive
stepdad from the picture, or at least
being able to make it so he couldnt even
talk to me, and that I wouldnt get
grounded for such long times and
everything.
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 1410 Location: burlington
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Posted: 07-01-04 12:26pm
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I used to cut myself(wrists), I did it
basically because I was depressed and
angry at everybody. Last time I did it
was around christmas of 2003 I didnt know
I was pregnant but I was. That was the
last time I cut because I did it really
bad and then I found out I was pregnant
and promised ryan I would never do it
again. So I stopped for my ryan and my
daughters sake(shes almost here ...) I personally
didnt do it for attention or anything like
that I did it because I was angry and
depressed.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
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Posted: 07-01-04 13:56pm
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I used to do it too. Cutting wrists and
punching myself. I only punched myself
once and it made such a huge bruise on my
arm. There was a bruise there before
that but still it was really big, maybe 5
inches tall and 3 inches wide it's been 2
years since adn I did it because of was
mad at myself for something I did at
school and I cut when I was upset about
something. One time I cut because I was
so mad at myself because I crashed the
family car into a tree. All it did was
bust out the back window and make a dent
in the bumper but I felt like such a
failure. I don't do it anymore, i'd get
in trouble.
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Rhapsody
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Jun 2004 Posts: 17
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.........
Posted: 07-06-04 12:24pm
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Mommabear, I think maybe next time you
write a post like this you shouldnt be so
rude to people who respond.
What you said to me was mean and out of
line.
Think about that next time. I dont
appreciate it at all when I did nothing to
deserve it.
If you didnt want people to respond, then
dont be dumb enough to make a damn post.
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
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Posted: 07-06-04 12:33pm
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*laughs*....You know what.....Hmmm you
could have explained it a bit more than
just sayin
....I cut myself
.....My wrists..
Lol
makin is sound like you wan someone to say
sorry to you or something
teehee...Shut up.
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 6623 Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-06-04 13:46pm
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It did seem like you wanted someone to
applaud you huni........ Maybe go in more
depth next time. Ok. I'm sure nikki
would have replied nicer had you explained
better.
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