Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 194 Location: *louisiana*
Ok Im Freakin Out!! Posted: 06-29-04 22:35pm
Ok well most of you girls dont know me to
well but me and my boyrfriend have been
together a year and well ill make a long
story short he has cheated on me and lied
to me in the past I have forgiven it to
many times when he apoligizes he crys I
think thats what got me!!Ugh!Anyway there
was this girl jennifer he worked with and
obviously flirted with because we broke u
for like 3 hours and he already kissed she
has been to his apartment to hang out with
other people he swore to me that he hates
her and doesnt want anything to do with
her well tonight we had to go the store I
decided to sit in the car (he writes music
he is a lil rapper dude)anyways I was
reading his music notebook and I saw this
page that says durrell loves sarah durrell
loves jennifer!!It crushed me I thought he
promised I am now 5 months pregnant(and
the stupid health forum knows im pregnant
and im his girlfriend and she wont give
up) our relationship has been so prefect
we have never been better and then this I
didnt say anything I just ripped out the
page and I have it now!!I dont wanna talk
to him about it I wanna forget it but I
cant all I want is the truth and he cant
give it me I want my baby to have a good
dad not just a mom but I cant take this
lying anymore girls help me I dont know
what to do?????????
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 06-29-04 23:16pm
Well sometimes a man isn't worth the
trouble, but if you really want to try
with him you make him call her on the
phone and tell her to leave him alone in
front of you if he cares at all for you
and his baby, and if not then your baby
will just have to do with a good mommy.
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Julymommy72504
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jun 2004 Posts: 225 Location: Cincinnati, Oh
Posted: 06-30-04 00:34am
Pregnancy is an emotional roller coaster!
I am a single preggy and I think that in
some cases it has been better with out
him. I mean I really started missing him
the other day but like the girls said I
got to do whats best for me and the baby
now. If he gets me all emotional and sad
then I dont obviously need him. Take my
advice hun. You baby will love you just
the same. You can be mommy and daddy.
The only thing I had trouble with was when
I tarted putting things together. I
actually told my mom so this is what the
daddy is for. So I got my dad to do it
for me, lol.
If he cant just love you then you dont
need him hun!
Lots of love,
heather and hayley
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sarah88
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2004 Posts: 194 Location: *louisiana*
Posted: 06-30-04 01:16am
Thanks girls!!!The thing is I really love
this guy and wanna make this work its just
I dont wanna get hurt anymore it
sucks!!!And if he cant step up now I dont
want him here when the baby is born!!I
just dont get why he lies to me all I want
is the truth I hate men I mean boys!!!
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 06-30-04 06:39am
My opinion, hes obviously not a good
guy/good person and he doesnt have respect
for u. So regardless wether ur having a
baby or not, its no reason to settle for
someone like him. I wouldnt want a guy
like that being the influence in my childs
life when he doesnt even have respect for
women, not even his babys mother. If he
did, he wouldnt do that to you.
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 06-30-04 09:00am
I have to agree with kari. Sometimes it
doesn't matter if you love them. You've
got to get out of a potentially explosive
situation.
Some of the girls do have good point. You
may love him but all he is doing is
hurting you and causing pain. I don't
think you want that kind of stress. If
you confront him about it i'm sure he'll
lie about it, but if you do and he says
that he don't love that other girl than
tweety has a pretty good idea make him
call her and tell her so that you can hear
it. Sometimes girls don't give up because
they could care less what sitaution you
are in and depending what he feeds into
her head she won't quit.
Hope you do what's best for you and your
baby.
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Scarf
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2004 Posts: 1062 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 06-30-04 13:44pm
I agree with kari. Hun, you shouldnt have
to go through stuff like this while you're
pregnant..Or always. Hes not treating you
with respect. My advice, find someone
else. If you reaaaallly want to make
things work between the 2 of you then talk
to him about it..Thats the best advice I
could give..Sorry
shannon xoxox
