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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2003
Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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"experience"
Posted: 09-22-03 18:37pm
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This post is in reference to the previous
postings about a certain individual on the
forum. I think she is giving a nice
gesture to women by keeping up with their
posts and offering advice. I do agree on
the other hand that she should not give
advice regarding symptoms during pregnancy
only because real symptoms are alot
different from textbook symptoms. Women
join the post to talk to "relate" to
others about what they are going through.
But other opinion are nice sometimes too.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 18:57pm
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I was pregnant but that doesn't mean I
know everything there is to know about
pregnancy. I try to help as much as I can
in any way I can. I have a ba in family
and social services and I am currenly
working on becoming a youth worker.
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:42pm
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I think that is absolutely wonderful! Go
you! I just feel that someone who has
never experienced pregnancy should not be
reassuring people of their symptoms or
problems. Having sisters who were
pregnant is nothing compared to actually
being pregnant. I have worked in ob
offices since high school and learned alot
from other people's experiences and from
reading, but when I actually got pregnant
everything was completely different.
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:58pm
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Since joining the post , it has kind of
bothered me that nikki was on here telling
women they won't have symptoms until 3 -4
weeks after they miss their period when
half the women on here ae less than 8
weeks pregnant. If a women knows her body
she will be able to tell as soon as the
egg is fertilized.
I was only concerned because I wanted to
talk with women who have been where I am
now (9 weeks) and find out how they are
feeling and if they have the same
"problems" I have been having. I have
many books, magazines, and internet
sources to read from. I didn't want
answers...I wanted real life opinions.
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 19:59pm
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Since joining the post , it has kind of
bothered me that nikki was on here telling
women they won't have symptoms until 3 -4
weeks after they miss their period when
half the women on here ae less than 8
weeks pregnant. If a women knows her body
she will be able to tell as soon as the
egg is fertilized.
I was only concerned because I wanted to
talk with women who have been where I am
now (9 weeks) and find out how they are
feeling and if they have the same
"problems" I have been having. I have
many books, magazines, and internet
sources to read from. I didn't want
answers...I wanted real life opinions.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 145
Location: Hmm
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:00pm
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Nikki has seen both her sisters go through
pregnancies so im sure it's very valid
information.
I on the other hand was pregnant about...6
years ago! And if you asked me how it
was at 9 weeks I dont even think I can
remeber! I try not to think about my
pregnancy, I dont think i've mentioned it
before. My daughter died shortly after
birth, it was about 3 hours because of a
severely malformed heart. I miss her
terribly.
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:08pm
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I have seen countless women go through
their pregnancues having worked in an ob
office, but like I said... You cannot
compare any two pregnancies... And
definately can't compare if you've never
been pregnant.
I am terribly sorry about your experience,
tanya. I couldn't imagine going through
what you have. I think your an asset to
the forum and have a heart of gold. Stay
strong!
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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Real Life Experiences
Posted: 09-22-03 20:16pm
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A post that doesn't need to be here.
Last edited by Suzy on 09-23-03 17:13pm; edited 1 time in total
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:18pm
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Yes I did take notice of what she said
suzy. What do you have against me?
Tanya
(by the way I had to change username so
this is my new one)
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:21pm
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I understand, I just dont know what suzy
has against me. I have no problem about
talking about my education im extremely
proud of it and I was in no way saying
that I was better than anyone else.
Ps this is tanya by the way I had to
change my username
Last edited by Darling on 09-22-03 20:27pm; edited 1 time in total
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MrsVeeDub
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 38
Location: Baltimore
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Re: Seen It All
Posted: 09-22-03 20:24pm
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~there is no substitute for real life
experience~[/quote]
i couldn't have said it better. I really
thought going into this whole new world of
being pregnant myself, I would be ready
for anything. I never expected things to
be the way thay actually are. You just
can't compare and someone who is not
pregnant or has not been can not relate or
give advice even if they're a damn
gynecologist!
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-22-03 20:28pm
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It would really be a miracle! Wouldnt
that be wonderful if the men could carry
the babies! 
oh yea and veedub I hope I didnt offend
you in any way...I never meant to 
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4922
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-23-03 11:22am
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You know I dont care if you all hate me.
I will still be here. Because whether
you like it or not there are alot of girls
that love my advice and kind words. And
they love the scripture I find for them
that have patience. I dont hate you guys
for being mean to me. I can forgive too.
"with ever lasting kindness I will have
compassion on you," says the .Lord my
redeemer." isaiah 54:8
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 48
Location: minnesota
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Posted: 09-24-03 19:17pm
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If someone gives advice you dont have to
take you might not think its true...So who
cares what someone else thinks you dont
have to say ne thing!!!!! 
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