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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Location: houston
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Why Do Some Girls Say Mean Things???
Posted: 07-01-04 09:26am
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Ok, I thought this was a site where if you
had a question, no matter how dumb the
question was or whatever it was that you
did someone would try to answer it to the
best of their ability, and share some
similar experiences. Now there are some
people I will admit that ask questions
that make you ask yourself "well why did
you put yourself in that situation?", but
that does not mean when you answer their
question you throw that in their face I am
sure they thought about that long and hard
b4 they even came to this site! 
like there was one older post I read and
someone said that the girl was way too
young be having sex and basically that she
was dumb, ok it is ok to express that but
you have to realize that this is a person
too, and they do have feelings, and that
there is always another way to say
something if you just think. Its not
everybody its just a few that I have
noticed, and it just really bothered me,
and I needed to vent I guess, maybe I am
wrong if so I apologize, but just look at
some older posts and some from now.
Meagan
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KissyBai912
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Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-01-04 09:59am
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I think you are right.....I am sure I have
probably been rude to some people....But I
do have to say....Some of the questions
are stupid and ought to be common sense.
And some of the girls (me sometimes) just
express that a little strongly.....Like
asking if you can get ur g/f pregnant
after jizzing on your hand waiting a few
minutes, washing it, waiting a few minutes
again and then fingering her without
penetrating.....Thats just stupid....Lol.
But I do have to say you are right and we
should all try and watch what we say a
little more......
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tweety12986
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Location: houston
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:03am
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If anyone asked a question like that I am
not sure I would even answer...Lol. I
understand I read someones reply and it
triggered something in my head, bcuz my
bf's parents were just jumping on his case
and he knew they would, and it bothered
him to the point of depression and then
other people were telling him the same
thing making it worse and that post
reminded me of that. But I wasnt singling
anyone out I have been known to get on
someone in person its apart of being human
sadly.
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posts: 1970
Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:15am
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Sometimes it just gets annoying when we
have like 5 million people coming in one
day askin if cum can get them pregnant
pretty much...
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tweety12986
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:19am
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I understand that too, and when you are
annoyed just dont answer them and return
to the forum instead of saying something
negative, dont get me wrong I agree that
these people should know, but they ask for
a reason.
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lilmama2b_oct04
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:25am
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Its hard not to post... Lol I dont know,
its kinda hard to explain. It just makes
you angry that there are people that dont
know what gets you pregnant and they are
out having sex, and then alot of them go
and get abortions cuz they cant handle the
fact that they had sex and got pregnant.
Im not saying that any of these people
would get an abortion, im just saying
there are people that do that. I guess it
just makes me so angry and I have to post.
Does that make any sense? Like have
knowledge about sex, before you have
sex...
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tweety12986
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Location: houston
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mommabear16
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:27am
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The thing about that is some of us have
been here for a long time. Some longer
than others. What you don't relise is
that...There are like several retarded
questions a day asked! It gets really old
so.....Some of us get on the grumpy side.
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tweety12986
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Location: houston
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tweety12986
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:31am
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Ok mommabear I do realize what you are
saying, but when you see the stupid
question and are on the grumpy side, not
answering the question is a whole lot
better than being mean. So just don't
answer. I see a lot of the dumb questions
you are talking about and you make it
sound like since you have been here longer
you talk to these people any kind of way.
Its just not right is all I am saying
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mommabear16
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:37am
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Mmmm yeah but sometimes you really get
like annoyed and stuff and like you have
to reply other wise...Well...If you don't
then...Then sometime later you will end up
blowing up on someone who really didn't
ask a stupid question.
Lol I know it sounds like really uber
stupid but its the truth. I guess i'm
crazy like that eh
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tweety12986
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Location: houston
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Posted: 07-01-04 10:44am
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I don't know... I guess thats just how
some people are... So instead of just not
answering that person's question you would
rather make a not so nice/not really mean
comment, so you won't blow up at another
person later on. If people on the
internet with a dumb question make you
that mad to where you can't control what
you say maybe you shouldn't even look at
questions bcuz it might just be a dumb
one.
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-01-04 11:06am
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In my opinon. When someone comes and says
"we didn't have sex. He just touched his
penis and then fingered me". Oh my god, I
am dying here, am I pregnant? Am i?
Please help me"
i am personally disgusted. Quit having
sex if #1 you don't know how you can get
pregnant and #2 you are that ignorant.
I don't like stupid people. That's my
excuse.
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 07-01-04 11:15am
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Im with chanda! Those people are
pathetic. How on earth can they be having
sex when they dont know the consequences?
They need to go back to school!
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tweety12986
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Location: houston
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Posted: 07-01-04 11:15am
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Chanda believe me I know what all of you
are saying my co-op teacher was very dumb,
he had something dumb to say evertime he
saw me, and he just had to say it too, and
it set me off everyday, and I told him
many times that he was the dumbest man to
set foot on earth ( which explains my p's
the whole last semester), but these people
obviously need help becuz they are
ignorant of the fact, and I know it makes
you angry, but I just think its easier to
just not give them any kind of answer if
its negative in any way. It seems to be
that everyone thinks its ok with the
exception of kissybai and I keep trying to
explain, so I am through posting on this
subject.
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WhiteDragon213
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jun 2004
Posts: 54
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Posted: 07-01-04 16:39pm
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To hopefully lighten up this post a
little, it's a very easy situation to
understand.
This message board is populated by
pregnant girls. Pregnant girls are prone
to mood swings. Therefore it is not a
smart idea to antagonize girls who might
be prone to ripping your arm out of your
socket and beating you with it simply
because their pregnancies are not being
very kind to them at that moment
before my arm is ripped out of its socket
and I am beaten with it, I remind you all
this is a joke, a device designed to
instigate laughter. But just in case, I
think I might apply for the witness
protection program....
(joking around girls, I hoped I brought
some levity to the subject)
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KariM1804
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Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 07-01-04 17:05pm
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Well I think .. Sometimes they just need
a reality check. And sometimes we try to
be nice, but if its just ridiculous..
Then it just is. Sometimes some people
might be a little too aggressive (i have
been im sure b4) but I mean like I said,
sometimes the truth hurts and they need
that reality check. It really depends on
their situation. But its annoying..
People need to be educated on sex before
having it.. They should know what gets
peopel pregnant.
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ADM12
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2004
Posts: 11
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Posted: 07-01-04 17:27pm
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I know no one knows me...But I am just
wondering, I was reading some of these
posts, and some were talking about girls
who are asking stupid questions,i asked a
question that was i'm sure "stupid" or
"dumb" to many, but is this not teen
pregnancy board? I wasnt too sure how old
everyone was on here..Or is this strictly
for women who are pregnant and thats it?
Im just wondering.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 852
Location: grand blanc michigan
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Posted: 07-01-04 17:34pm
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What adm!?!?!? Yes.. This is a teen
pregnancy forum.. But teens or not
should be educated somewhat about sex...
God, I had sex-ed in 7th grade.... So
just because most are teens (not all) does
not even give the excuse to be completely
nieve about sex and not know what gets
someone pregnant....And if they dont know
what gets someone pregnant, they shouldnt
be making the 'mature' decisision to have
sex....Not sure how that was ment by you
but you made it sound like just because
people are teens that they are uneducated
about sex.
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nikki_caro
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Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 07-01-04 17:40pm
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No everyone is welcome to the boards,
guys, girls, pregnant or not everyone is
welcome. The thing with the dumb
questions is when people say.... "im on
my period, I had a tampon in but his thing
was near me and im freaking out!" I mean
some common sense here is you shouldnt be
near having sex if you have no idea what
the consequenses are. Especially the
young teens. We are ok with most of the
am I pregnant questions, but when you come
in here with something like "he put it in
for like 10 seconds and some stuff might
have gotten in me, am I pregnant?" I mean
common sense here, I wonder if they are
bs'ing with us, or they really have no
clue. Thats why we get aggrivated
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