Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
What to Do About Rude Co-worker.. Posted: 07-01-04 14:03pm
Ok seriously im kinda pisssed off right
now. My stupid co-worker (shes a girl)
shes 23.. Anyhow, shes a ‘bigger’ girl..
Not to be mean, but she’s overweight.
Doesn’t bother me at all and I think its
fine. But she is really getting to me. A
few months back she would always comment
on how I eat all the time and bla bla
bla…even if I wasn’t eating a lot etc..And
not to sound conceided.. But I know im
not a big person, and she knows a little
about my past/present with my eating
disorder (not in detail at all tho)
anyhow, today she was like “kari,
look..See that guy” and she pointed to
this guy that sits near us. He is such a
nice person. He is overweight..And shes
like ‘his bellys like yours!’ …first of
all im thinking… how immature and rude..
That guy is super nice… and 2nd of all I
got pisssed because she was comparing my
belly to his.. (not to be mean at all)
but I mean im really self conscious..And
it bothered me a lot.. I know of course
my belly is gonna be big, im 37 weeks
preggo lol.. But still..I know it doesn’t
look like just an overweight belly at all
but it still buggs me! Im just trying to
remind myself im fine, ive gained 22 lbs
and im almost done and haven’t gained in 9
weeks so I know im not like overgaining..
But my head gets the best of me sometimes.
She also freaks me out sometimes because
I always catch her staring at me! What
should I do about this girl? Thanks!
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 07-01-04 14:10pm
Shes just really jealous of you most
likely thats all. Ignore her. Shes
immature. And maybe she thinks your cute
lmao. When she says rude comments like
that just say, "thats so mean" "your one
to talk" or "your so rude!" thats what I
would do. Shes in no spot to mbe making
fun of you. So just keep away from her.
But snap back next time she says
something, otherwise she will continue to
do it, you are really tiny so dont get
down at all ok!
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 07-01-04 14:24pm
Haha next time just hand her a mirror!!
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 07-01-04 15:45pm
I agree with erin on this one
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 07-01-04 16:12pm
Don't feel bad hun....When camerin teases
me all the time my friends mom says its
just a sign of affection.....Lol....A
little weird in this case but you never
know......But I think she is jealous cuz u
r absoloutly beautiful.....Now I have to
give this smelly kid a bath....It was 96
degrees here today and he sweats like a
little piggy.....Lol.
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little_woman
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Mar 2004 Posts: 765
Posted: 07-01-04 16:29pm
Hit her with your car
meg
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-01-04 16:57pm
Haha thanks girls i'll take some of ur
advice. Lol the car things goin a little
too far
anyhow... I feel like shes hitting on me
sometimes tho.. Shes always telling me
how 'cute' and 'pretty' I am and she'll
even say to someone else out loud, 'isnt
kari so cute?' what am i, a puppy or
something?!?!? Its just too weird she
freaks me out..Maybe shes into chics...
By the way if no ones noticed, ive been
posting alot.. Its soooooooo slow at work
im so bored im going to die! Im working
the late shift and its so dead............
Last edited by KariM1804 on 07-01-04 17:45pm; edited 1 time in total
