I was just wondering is your babies father
helping you at all? Is he going to be
involved? And do you know if jordan ever
hears from the father?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 07-02-04 12:57pm
Hey I talk to jordan all the time, the
father is in no way involved and she dont
want him to be either. Alot of women can
always make it without the father, just
like my sister did. She has no help from
her dead beat and the baby is as happy as
can be.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-02-04 15:13pm
Hey hun. On this question, your guess is
as good as mine. I really don’t even
know. He claimed that he was going to be
there for the baby once he is here.. But
as of now, he hasn’t shown that
what-so-ever. I haven’t talked to him in
2 months. Last time I called him to tell
him about the baby shower, he was sooo
rude to me and made me cry. He said he
had other things to think about that were
more important and it didn’t matter
because the baby ‘isnt even alive yet’.
So.,.He claims that he will be there,but I
honestly don’t think he will. If he
does, then I can see him as being the type
to just come around whenever he doesn’t
have something else to do. All I can do
is hope for the best and prepare for the
worst.. But im mostly out of hope so im
just preparing for the worst. Ive tried
so much with him and it got me nowhere.
Hes an asssshole* I try not to think about
it too much as it just upsets me ..But im
not sure abotu jordan tho right now*
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PregnaJordan
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2003 Posts: 2908
Posted: 07-02-04 20:57pm
No daddy here..He's an @$$, I havent
spoken to him since october!!! He doesnt
know my number or where I live...Im going
to see if I can make it without his help,
if not, then im filing for
childsupport...But prolly not I dont want
to see his deadbeat a s s every again!
In ways its easier(at least I think so )
without the father! I grew up without a
father and loved it .. Everyone is
different, but no father for jaydyn is
better than his a s s.
But maybe my ex boyfriend will become
involved in our lives(not chris the father
btw)
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elyse
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 73 Location: utah
Posted: 07-04-04 17:43pm
I like hearing from you guys because my
babies father is the same way. Im not
sure what he will do when its born but im
starting to think it would be better
without him in our lives. But it makes
me so mad then they can just choose not to
deal with any of this!
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-04-04 19:25pm
Exactly. I hate it. They have this
choice wether we like it or not. But
which way they choose is what determines
if they are any kind of respectable
person.. And in these cases, their
not....They'll prolly go to hell anyhow*
