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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Baby Blues
Posted: 07-02-04 20:45pm
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Man, do I have the baby blues or what?!?!
Everytime I look at jaydyn I want to
cry...I think about how much my life has
changed and how her daddy is such an
@$$(his birthday is tomorrow btw)-i love
her to death, but im so scared of raising
her! Im gonna die the first time she
ever gets sick! I dont want her out of my
sight! I know those of ya'll that have
had ur kiddos know what im talking
about...And if not, u will konw soon!
There is no love like the love for ur
child!
Any time they cry and u cant figure out
whats wrong, u wanna cry too...
When they draw blood at the hospital from
her and give her her shots u wanna cry
with her...You, yourself dont matter
anymore, its all about ur baby!.... You
go without showers, makeup, sleep,
everything!
Its all I can do to find time to take a
shower! Its crazy! And to blowdry ur
hair, u feel like ur taking up too much
time that u should b spending with ur
child.
I hope I dont get postpardom depression,
but im gonna keep my head high...
My exboyfriend wants to b a "father
figure" to jaydyn, but I dont know if im
ready for another relationship...Hes
really sweet and would do anything for
us..But u know? Its kindda weird...He
stayed with me in the hospital the whole
time(ill show pix tuesday when I get them
back)
i dunno..Im confused..Sorry so long just
felt a lil emotional
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bellax0x
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Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 07-02-04 20:50pm
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Aw hun, im happy you love being a mommy!
But dont worry, everything will start
seeming so natural and getting easier
soon! I would maybe hang out with the guy
a few times, but idk if now is a good time
to start up a new relationship like you
said. Good luck!
<3
gaby
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 07-02-04 20:55pm
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Girl I had it too. Mommy needs her own
time to, ive been takin a lil too much for
myself n u kno now I got the lil booger in
my arms every minute im with her. U r
mommy, but ur also jordan, n a teenager.
U r doin awesome from wut ive read.
Breastfeedin alone shows u r a supermom.
Dont for one minute feel like crap cuz tho
things r guna b duf from now on think of
all the good times ull have with ur
beautiful lil girl...N man im rambling
like mad so ill go. But ur awesome u look
great n ur lil girls a cute lil blessing,
n a gift from god. Love ya girly...
Mol
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 07-02-04 20:56pm
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Ps --notice im not good at one handed
typing
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 07-02-04 21:01pm
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Lol thanks guys ... Mol, I know u know
where I coming from...I would have been a
major mess if jaydyn had to stay in the
hospital without me...I would have refused
to leave her side!--im not good at one
handed typing either but jaydyns just ate
and is in her swing staring at her toy
thingy hanging ... I cant get her too
feed laying on my tummy..She'll only eat
inthe "football hold"...I had to get a
boppy pillow and it helps alot...Oh well I
think im going to go read her a
story...Lol, I just took two vicodin and a
800 mg. Ibuprofen so I should start
getting a lil drowsy...Goodnight yall!
Talk to everyone soon!~
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 07-02-04 21:06pm
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Boppy pillows n the football hold rock .A.
Lol- whoaaa hopefully ull hear her cry
when u pass out there girl...U druggy
momma...Jk of coarse!
Night
mol n livy
Last edited by pInKpAnThEr on 07-03-04 04:53am; edited 2 times in total
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-03-04 08:34am
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Don't worry girl! I know how you
feel....It took everything I had not to
bawl when josh got his shots.....And
showers don't concern you anymore because
you know that baby is so much more
important. And trust me, sometimes josh
refuses to sleep in his bed but I don't
wanna spoil him and put him in mine, so I
rock him, put him down, he wakes up, and I
do it again and again and
again.....Sometimes I get so tired and
frustrated that I have to put him down and
go scream into the pillow and stomp my
feet and cry like a baby....But it's part
of it. And the next morning, it doesn't
seem like a big deal. I know its hard
being a single mom. But you can do it
girl. And it's ok to cry. Whenever you
feel lonely or overwhelmed or like the
world is against you it's ok!!! I'm here
for you if you ever need to talk....You
have a beautiful daughter and I know you
will take great care of her!
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mommabear16
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Joined: 16 Jan 2004
Posts: 1222
Location: illinois
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Posted: 07-03-04 11:38am
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Haha...When alex was about 4 days old he
was crying so I went to go make his bottle
and I was so freaked cause he was
crying....And so I was making the bottle
all fast and I dropped it on the ground
and it spilled everywhere....So I started
bawling and threw the bottle and I was
like " I cant do this!! My baby is
starving! Im a bad mother!" my mom made
him a bottle while I calmed down..And
after that I was fine...But I just
sometimes cried over the dumbest things
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ERICA83
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2004
Posts: 738
Location: clinton twp, MI
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Posted: 07-03-04 12:05pm
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Jordan you are going to do great. I
didnt even have my kid yet and thats all
that goes through my head is fear! Fear
that I wont raise him right or that I wont
be able to handle it. Hey ive been
around kids since I was like 10 ive always
been the lil mommy type. My nephew was
born when I was 10 and the other when I
was 12 and ive been babysitting ever since
so I got my share of experience but it is
different when its ur own, u cant give em
back . You have to deal with it. Ull
be an excellent mom . Ive learned that
about u from ur personality just by talkin
with ya. And I mean that. And as crazy
as it sounds this is true to a certain
extent.... But those vicodin ur takin
well lol those r really gonna make u super
emotional as if it aint bad enough u just
had a baby. I used to take those for
fun!!! They can make u feel all good and
then reall deppressed. To me takin a
vicodin is like havin a alcoholic drink
w/o the major impairment. Any of this
make sense to u? Anyhow ur gonna be ok.
I promise. ~ erica.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Drug Mother
Posted: 07-05-04 16:45pm
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If only molly wasn't kidding.
I totally agree with what molly said, only
I am not kidding. Jordan as you may know
I too had a c-section and unlike yourself
I didn't take any medication except one
tylenol (note: 1). I think it is totally
immature of you to dope yourself up on
medication and then attempt to care for
jaydyn. One time when you are going to
take too much medication, you aren't going
to hear her cries and no one is going to
be around to help you care for her. You
seem to be so concerned about her
wellbeing but if you really care then you
shoudln't be doping yourself up like that.
You are making yourself look very
immature by bragging about taking so much
medication and then laughing about it,
when you have an infant lying next to you.
I hope you take all the information in
and think about it. I hope it doesn't
piss you off. I am just being real.
Stacie
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:36pm
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Vicodin combines a narcotic analgesic
(painkiller) and cough reliever with a
non-narcotic analgesic for the relief of
moderate to moderately severe pain.
Vicodin can be habit-forming. If you take
this drug over a long period of time, you
can become mentally and physically
dependent on it, and you may find the drug
no longer works for you at the prescribed
dosage.
Vicodin may make you drowsy, less alert,
or unable to function well physically. Do
not drive a car, operate machinery, or
perform any other potentially dangerous
activities until you know how this drug
affects you.
Use caution in taking vicodin if you have
a head injury. Narcotics tend to increase
the pressure of the fluid within the
skull, and this effect may be exaggerated
by head injuries. Side effects of
narcotics can interfere in the treatment
of people with head injuries.
Use vicodin with caution if you have a
severe liver or kidney disorder, an
underactive thyroid gland, addison's
disease (a disease of the adrenal glands),
an enlarged prostate, or urethral
stricture (narrowing of the tube carrying
urine from the bladder).
Older adults and those in a weakened
condition should be careful using this
drug, since it contains a narcotic.
Narcotics such as vicodin may interfere
with the diagnosis and treatment of people
with abdominal conditions.
Hydrocodone suppresses the cough reflex;
therefore, be careful using vicodin after
an operation or if you have a lung
disease.
High doses of hydrocodone may produce
slowed breathing; if you are sensitive to
this drug, you are more likely to
experience this effect.
Stacie
(ps you can get this sold you on almost
every corner)
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:40pm
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Doping myself up? Haha, excuse me, but im
not " doping" myself up. The pain
killers the Dr. Gave me dont impair u or
whatnot. They do what their name says
kill the pain! Everyones pain threshold
is different so dont even go
there...Bragging? What the medical
question? You think the Dr. Would give
u meds that would impair me taking care of
my daughter? I think not..Shes well taken
care of thank you. Everyone thats had a
csection is different~so dont try and make
me feel bad b/c u only had one
tylenol..Thats stupid to put urself
through that pain when u can ease it. Of
all people I didnt expect this sort of
"bashing" from you..But sooner or later u
see everyones true colors...
Shauna- vicodin is the painkiller that the
Dr. Gave me.
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babyrae
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Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:40pm
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Ohhh okay! So after a c-section, they
give u some to take home?? Sounds kinda
like that one prescription drug... I cant
remember the name tho... Lol!
Shauna
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:42pm
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Omfg~ everyones reaction to a certain med
is diff. Too! For gods sakes! Like
some ppl get drunk off one beer when it
takes others several..Thats the same thing
here! 
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:43pm
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They usually dont just give it out like
that shauna. And I am not bashing you, I
am just telling you to look out for you.
You need to watch what you are doing. You
dont need to come on here and brag "i just
took vicodin and ib.." jordan, when have
you ever known me to bash you.....I
realize that everyone is different when it
comes to csections, I just saying take it
easy. You dont want to become addicted.
I have seen it happen. I didnt suffer
through pain...
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:44pm
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Omg I took like a bunch of hydrocodone
this one time with a bunch of adderol
(sp?) and tylenol and I was tweakin for 2
days straight.....I didn't sleep 2 nights
in a row and I was driving myself crazy
making this annoying clicking sound with
my mouth....I felt like I was absoloutly
crazy. That stuff does weird things to
you. It made me panic thinking I couldnt
breathe. Bad stuff that is.
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:46pm
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Well, in no way whatsoever was I
bragging?!?! what would I need to "brag"
about that? Woohoo look at me?!? No,
sorry..Not like that...And yes teh Dr.
Did give me two scripts(one of vicodin,
and one of ibuprofen)....Im taking care of
my daughter, shes perfectly fine---im not
going to b addicted..They just give u
enough pills for the initial days..Im out
now and u dont see my crying a river b/c
of it? Im all gravy~
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smith8500
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 07-05-04 17:46pm
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Well, I do not want this to turn into
bashing, but I took 2 vics one day, I was
driving home with angela, and jordan is
correct, they effect people different,
but.... I could barly drive! It was a
stupid thing to do at the time and knowing
I had to drive! Jordan, I did notice the
"bragging" or so it seemed. I think she
just wants to you be careful. I was going
to say something, but I know our history
and I didn't want you to think I was
trying to be mean.
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Mesmerizeu15
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Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 07-05-04 17:49pm
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Come one jordan, I was just trying to make
sure everything was fine, and just trying
to look out for you. Next time I just
wont doing it say anything, and what ever
happens, happens..
I sure as hell aint crying
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