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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Hey Guys.....
Posted: 09-23-03 12:31pm
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This is mainly for the girls who have been
so kind to me, mainly tanya, mandi, and
jessika. And the rest or the nice girls
in here!!!!
Ladies im going through a hard time and
ive been holding it in and I cant no more
because even the smallest thing, happy,
sad or mean makes me cry. I have tears
right now!
Its my dad. He was living in mexico and
he would call and visit all the time and I
was mad because he had left us to go
there. But recently we havent heard from
him. Since august first. And thats not
like him to not call us or his
grandbabies. So my mom went looking for
him and nobody has seen him in 2 months.
They thought he came this way. But he
hasnt. My mom even called the post office
to see if he picked up his mail and he
hasnt picked up anything since august.
Not even his paychecks. Im worried his
dead or hurt out there. And its driving
me crazy not knowing whats happened. My
mom said the other day if she cant find
anything, she would start checking
cemetaries. Im so sad. But I just keep
praying and hoping .God takes care of him
and knows where he is. And my husband
wants to have a baby early but I dont know
how I can go with a baby and stressing
about my dad. And it makes me cry and
smile because my husband reminds me soooo
much.
And ive been going to church as usual and
it helps alot. And I went sunday and it
was an excellent service on patience. If
anybody wants a tape of service I would be
more than happy to get it and mail it to
you! Just pm me your name and address and
I can get it and send it. It was so great
it helped me alot. But im still sad about
my dad. I miss him so much...
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frozenglue
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003
Posts: 39
Location: Marysville
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Oh Honey
Posted: 09-23-03 13:30pm
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That is so sad.  I truely am
praying for your father. It doesn't sound
good if he's not even picking up his
paychecks. Did anyone check with his
employer? If he's not coming to work and
has not picked up his paychecks I would
think things don't sound right. But keep
praying. Hang in there honey.
Michele
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-23-03 13:32pm
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Thanks. No, nobody has heard from him.
He just never showed up for anybody. Not
even a new job he was supposed to start
doing. And I went out there in early
august to see jose and my dad was supposed
to call me to meet up for breakfast and
nothing. Havent heard a word since, and
its going to be october, the 5th is my
birthday and the 9th is his grand
daughters 1st birthday. He wouldnt miss
it.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-23-03 14:40pm
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Im so sorry nikki, it must be horrible.
Is there anyone in mexico that you know
that can try to contact him? Maybe even a
private detective? I know sounds silly,
but they might be able to help. Even the
local police in his area could help if you
file a missing persons report. I will
surely keep you and your father in my
prayers amd please let me know if I can do
anything to help you, even lend a
listening ear.
Much love
tanya
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-23-03 14:47pm
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My mom went and asked everyone. Not one
person can help. She has to check with
the federales in mexico and she is going
to give a report to san luis and the
border patrol. But she has to get better
first because she had surgery on her wrist
and she cant us her hand much and its a 6
hour drive. We asked his brother, aunts,
nephews, neices anyone who knew
him...Everyone thought he came this way.
We have no lead at all. I hold it in and
put on a smile but so many things remind
me of him and I want to talk to him. At
least hug him. And I cant...God I hope
hes ok. Thanks tanya and michelle for
caring!!!
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-23-03 14:54pm
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Of course I care! Jeez! Lol
stay positive, and just keep praying.
Worrying is going to make you sick. Do as
much as you can but take it easy and stay
positive! Very positive and hope for the
best. Thats all you can do for now. I
will be thinking of you.
Love
tanya 
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Darlin
Posted: 09-23-03 15:08pm
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Thanks! Im trying my best! I got my
husband and neices to keep me happy right
now! Its just hard to think that if I
have kids they wont have a grandpa cuz
jose doesnt have his dad, and I cant find
mine. But its ok. I hope he shows up or
something. I pray .God keeps him safe.
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lee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Posts: 122
Location: canada
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Niki
Posted: 09-23-03 15:10pm
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Hi niki, I dont really know you that well,
but you seem like a very sweet girl. You
have a positive attitude and great advice.
You need to keep that positive attitude
and hope for the best! You have all my
prayers, god bless and try to be strong.
Lee
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-23-03 15:12pm
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Thanks!!! Im am so over sensative today,
everything brings tears to my eyes...Like
now!!! Thanks lee!!!! Your in my prayers
as well for that baby!!
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003
Posts: 530
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In Sympathy
Posted: 09-23-03 18:39pm
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I'm really sorry to hear about your dad
nikki, I hope you are all able to find him
really soon. That's really horrible.
Keep praying for him to return, I will
pray for him, you sound like you have lots
of loving support from your family and
husband. Good luck with finding him.
Regards,
.::suzy::.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-23-03 18:51pm
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Thanks. It means alot. Goodness
everytime I think about it I still get
tears...
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 875
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Posted: 09-23-03 18:52pm
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(((((((((((((((((((((big
hugs)))))))))))))))))))))))))
i wish there was something I could do or
say to help you, all I can do is send my
love and prayers 
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
Posts: 48
Location: minnesota
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Sniffle...sniffle
Posted: 09-23-03 19:31pm
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that is so
sad......If I am there for you will you be
there for me??
My dad moved to colorado..Ummm....Like 3
weeks ago or so...He took my dog and
everything....I havent heard from him
much....I cry myself to sleep some
nights...(every night actually) im sure
you do to! I am drepressed its not
fun..Im sure you are in the first stage of
it to....Im sure we are both going tru the
greiving stage! I wanna be there for
you....
~*~bree~*~
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youngmama
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-23-03 20:23pm
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Oh my goodness! I am sooo sorry nikki! I
hope that your dad is alive and well just
wondering somewhere! You family is in my
prayers! I hope he calls you soon!!
Good luck and best wishes
-jessika-
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 09-24-03 11:00am
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Thanks so much!!!! I will be there for
anybody who needs it! Its a hard thing to
go thru but the calls sure do help! Bree,
you can ask anything you want! Thanks you
guys for the prayers and kind words!!! It
helps so much! I felt so much better this
morning to know you all are so nice and
there for me! I havent heard anything
yet. But my hopes arent gone! Thank you,
thank you, thank you!
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