He Used a Condom(inappropriately), Could I Be Pregnant? Posted: 07-04-04 16:51pm
Greetings everyone,
i am curious to know if I might be
pregnant. I had sexual intercourse 3 1/2
weeks ago, we did use protection. But I
noticed he pulled out of me, and rolled
the condom down and put it back inside of
me. He didnt pull out immediately after
ejaculation. (wondering did he do this
the other times we had sex)
i didnt really think any of it, but that
image keeps coming into my mind. I did
vomit a couple of days later after I drank
a margarita. Also have been experiencing
some nausea.
I went to have a pap smear done last week.
My gyn had a hard time opening my cervix.
It was really high, and it basically
wasnt budging. She finally was able to
get it open after 4 mins.
The next day, I noticed a brownish-mucus
type discharge. I thought I was about to
come on my period, but I didnt.
My stomache is bloated, im having a lot of
painful gas. I cant get comfortable
without my back aching. My breasts feel
heavier and my nipples are sore. And I
have been to the bathroom, (this morning,
6 times, in a hour)
my child is 8 years old, so its been a
while since ive been pregnant. And it was
my only pregnancy. So, im kinda out of
the loop, as far as symptoms goes.
My period is due 11th of this month. If I
am pregnant, I am 4 weeks.
What do you all think? Im kinda upset
with myself, because should have asked for
a pregnancy test, before the pap smear.
Is there any indication, the papsmear,
could cause a miscarriage?
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-05-04 13:19pm
Hey hun u very well could be pregnant. I
would take a test. But I dont think the
papsmear would cause a miscarriage at all
I do agree with kari it sounds as if you
are. If you don't get your period by the
11th take a pregnancy test. Take one now
if you feel as if you want to know now.
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 07-06-04 16:38pm
Quote:
my period is due
11th of this month. If I am pregnant, I
am 4 weeks.
What do you all think? Im kinda upset
with myself, because should have asked for
a pregnancy test, before the pap smear.
Is there any indication, the papsmear,
could cause a miscarriage?
fyi if your period is due the 11th of this
month, then there is no way you could
right now be 4 weeks pregnant (it would be
closer to 2 weeks on the expected day of
period starting). See you roughly
ovulate 2 weeks before the first day of
your period. Not on the elusive "day
14" or a number of days after your period.
You have to count backwards. If you
were in fact 4 weeks pregnant, your period
should have been due about 1.5 weeks ago.
If you are in fact due, and your period
does come, on july 11th, then you ovulated
probably about june 28th. Making a
conception date right around the same time
as ovulation.
I'm also wondering why your gyn was opening
your cervix. For pap smears, the doctor
just takes a sample of cells from the
cervix, to open it would be painful enough
to need some kind of painkilling
injection, if not sedation (the cervix
opening is pretty intense in the pain
department). Opening your cervix could
be hazardous, but opening your cervix
isn't what happens in a pap smear.
Perhaps she was just having trouble
finding it? Also a cervix of a pregnant
woman appears bluish - and I would hope if
your doctor saw your cervix appearing blue
that she would at least suggest that you
were pregnant instead of saying nothing at
all.
Sometimes pap smears do cause
bleeding/spotting a bit, that could be
what you experienced.
Keep your eyes on your symptoms and your
period. I think you're probably ok in
as far as not being pregnant.
Also pay attention to what your partner is
doing with the condoms - if he does that
continually then you are not protected and
he is putting you in harms way. I
suggest an in depth talk with him.
Good luck
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IceCastlez
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jul 2004 Posts: 2 Location: missouri
Posted: 07-06-04 22:23pm
Thanks everyone for their replies.
Actually, ive basically have read about
every possibility, irritation from
papsmear, was one of main concern.
This could be another month of pms for
me..So who knows..I will count down the
days..And see what is to come..
Teeny-thank you for your response, after I
posted this, 4 weeks couldnt be right.
Im not saying I am pregnant as of yet..So
this is very hopeful to me.
As far as opening of cervix- that's what
she told me she was doing, and that it
wasnt opening..So if it was something of
concern, I believe she would have told
me..
