Could It Be?? Pregnant Without Sex?? Posted: 07-05-04 13:18pm
Hi everyone, basically me and my
girlfriend are so scared at the mo. We
have never had sex before but.. (please
dont laugh)... We have rubbed against
each other with either clothes on or with
a condom on, although a few weeks ago we
need forget the condom and rubbed against
each other for a while without it, we have
never had sex only ever done this and oral
sex. I have never ejactualted onto her,
but is it possible that she could be
pregnent.
She has got sore breasts and it looks like
small bumps have appeared around her
nipple. She is due on her period late
this week, we have bought a pregnancy test
but it says that we cant use it untill the
period date, this is killing us inside,
this really would be the worst thing to
happen to use, we are both only 16.
What are the chances that she could be
pregnent, could these symtoms be for her
period (she says that she never normally
gets this before her period)
thanks for your time, please help, we are
so scared, we cant tell our perants that
would be to hard.
Thanks
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-05-04 13:27pm
While it's very unlikely considering you
haven't actually ejaculated onto her, you
have to keep in mind that "pre-cum"
contains sperm, so it's possible.
If you don't want to get pregnant, you
need to use protection. Without fail.
If you are considering becoming more
sexually active (taking it to the next
level) you need to consider a more
reliable form of birth control.
At your girlfriend's age, her system is
probably still changing as it matures.
She may notice different pre-menstrual
symptoms over the years.
Good luck.
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-05-04 13:55pm
Like I say, it was the bit when she told
me that she had sore and tender breasts,
and then today should me this little dot
(spot) type things around her nipple, can
this appear just before the period??
Thanks for your help.
Like I say we really are worried at the
mo. Hoping that everything is ok, we took
the test today and it said negitive and
that was 10 days after the time we think
it happened, but then on the box it says
to take the test the day the period is
due, so it looks like that negitive result
is not correct at the mo.
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-05-04 14:26pm
Sore breasts is a classic premenstrual
symptom. Trust me!
If these "spots" around her nipples are
like pimples, they are perfectly normal
and are called montgomery's glands.
While they do tend to enlarge during
pregnancy, it's unlikely to be the cause
of their appearance this early.
Hcg (human chorionic gonadotrophin) is the
chemical that pregnancy tests measure, and
is also the chemical that triggers
pregnancy symptoms. While some women are
particularily sensitive to it's presence,
most don't notice any physical changes
until the hcg concentration is at least
high enough to register on a pregnancy
test (most tests detect 100miu of hcg).
There are some tests that detect lower
amounts, and one brand is fre (first
response early). This test can be used
up to four days before her period is due
(not with 100% accuracy as implantation
times can vary, but with reasonable
accuracy). I believe that this tests
detects 20miu of hcg.
Give it a try, and if you get a reprieve
this time (and I believe you will), please
make sure you're well protected in the
future.
Good luck.
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-05-04 14:37pm
Thanks, we tried using clearblue today.
That comes with 3 tests we still have 2
left, do you think we should now wait till
the due date (8th july) before trying
again??
I really hope that it says negative. The
bit that got us worried was because she
never normally gets these little spot type
things around her period, with any luck
she will be fine. I have been looking for
things to do with this little spots on the
net to see weather it is very normal to
get these but I cant find anything
anywhere.
You sound very clear on what you are
saying I just hope your right.....
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-05-04 14:59pm
Please keep me posted.
Hcg doubles every 48-72 hours so you'd be
wise to wait a day or two if you've
already tested today.
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you
both.
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-05-04 15:03pm
Thanks alot, we are going on holiday with
my perants in 2 days to, it will be a huge
releaf if everything is ok, cos I dont
want to have to tell them that on holiday
thanks for the help. We will keep you
posted
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-05-04 15:11pm
Ok she told me that she is not sure what
pimples are like. I am not 100% either I
think they are like that tho, could be
discribe them please
thanks
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-05-04 21:19pm
If I were to describe them, I would say
they were small bumps that, if squeezed,
have white "stuff" inside. This is
perfectly normal and they should be left
alone.
It's also possible that they are hair
follicles. These would be small bumps
surrounding the aureola.
I would test just before you go away. If
it's still negative, the chances of your
girlfriend being pregnant are slim, not
impossible, but very slim.
Hang in there.
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-06-04 03:30am
She is due on thursday so you thnk it
would be ok to test wednesday morning
before we leave...
It does sound like those are the spot type
things she has. Are they noramal during
the time leading the period??
This is so frustrating.... Not knowing...
And that fact that we have never had sex
before but then could still be
pregnant...
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-06-04 07:11am
Ok now this morning the little lump things
are only on one nipple and they look abit
more red. What does this mean?? Is it a
reason to start the panic??
Thanks please reply asap
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-06-04 14:41pm
What you're describing is in no way a sign
of pregnancy. As I stated before,
pregnancy symptoms don't usually show up
until well after a missed period.
There is no reason to panic and, yes, you
can test before you go on wednesday and,
if it's negative, then you're 95% in the
clear.
There are a few women who are late
implanters (i'm not trying to make you
nervous i'm trying to be honest) but the
average day of implantation is 8dpo (days
past ovulation). If a positive isn't
registering by 13 dpo, it's not likely a
pregnancy has occured.
Try not to worry.
(edited to finish a sentence)
Last edited by CheekyMonkey on 07-06-04 15:06pm; edited 1 time in total
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-06-04 14:52pm
Thanks, we will try and calm down a bit
we are hoping to enjoy the holiday we will
need it lol.
Ok so now we noticed on the other nipple
we are hoping this could be her period
coming. She says she has the pains now in
the lower stomach, but this I am hoping is
the pain of the period.
What do you think?
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-06-04 15:11pm
My honest opinion (and this is only my
opinion, of course) is that you will be
fine.....This time.
Don't keep tempting fate. Sometimes a
scare can be a wonderful teacher.
Test in the morning, then go enjoy your
holiday.
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-06-04 15:20pm
Thanks alot. We will have fun I am sure,
dont worry this will put us off for a
while scary stuff, well at 16 it is
thanks for your help
i will tell you the result
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coulditbe
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Posted: 07-06-04 15:20pm
Thanks alot. We will have fun I am sure,
dont worry this will put us off for a
while scary stuff, well at 16 it is
thanks for your help
i will tell you the result
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CheekyMonkey
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Posted: 07-06-04 22:01pm
I'll be waiting to hear.
Hang in there!
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PattyV
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Posted: 07-21-04 15:03pm
So,what happened??Was your girl pregnant
or not??You need contraception to keep
yourselves from going off the deep end!You
don't want to be playing this game every
month,you'll go insane!!
