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brokenwings89
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2004
Posts: 3
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Please Someone Talk to Me
Posted: 07-07-04 00:01am
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I have never ask for help or told anyone
how I feel. All I can say is I try all my
life to be perfect and live up to my
parents expectations and I always seem to
screw it up. I scre up twice with the
same thing. And I know it was wrong and I
will never do it again but I am so
depressed and diappointed in myself. My
mother hates me and I have tryed so hard
to get her to except me. I am not one of
those trouble children and it is so hard
for me to except my mistakes I just really
want to talkt o someone who can listen and
provide a helping hand, I am so woorried
all the time and I get my self sick .
Please I am begging someone to hear a
crying voice. 
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laura_girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2004
Posts: 173
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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Posted: 07-07-04 01:07am
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I am here if you're still online and want
to talk.
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>?¿_BaByGuRL_?¿<
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2004
Posts: 54
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Posted: 07-07-04 08:23am
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Oh honey!! Im here too u can pm me if you
want.
Xoxoxoxoxoxo
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brokenwings89
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2004
Posts: 3
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Thanks For Listening
Posted: 07-07-04 10:10am
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If it isanot to much of a bother I would
love to just spill to someone you knw. I
just think it would be easier for me. I
really appreciate even just the simple
replys. I guess for once in my life some
one listened. So if I can just tell
someone who would mind listening I would
really really be grateful.
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Haley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 122
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Posted: 07-08-04 06:48am
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Quit trying so hard to be perfect. It is
an unreachable goal that does not exist in
reality and will always leave you feeling
down. I think it is the way you are
thinking that is making you miserable and
if you could just learn to use a tea form
and counter your thoughts and catch the
thinking errors you are making you will
feel a lot better. Go to your library and
read some books on cbt. I really like the
obitz book and it is a simple book to
read.
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 07-10-04 15:59pm
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Not knowing you or your mum - I know I can
not say for sure but more often than not
kids think parents hate them or are
disappointed in them when that is just not
true - but that doesn't mean that you
don't feel as if it is which still hurts -
it does mean that you should consider
whether your mum truly hates you or
whether it is just how you think she
feels. In either case give yourself a
break - nobody is perfect - including your
mum!! - so accept that you are human
& you will make mistakes - we all do
& it is ok!!
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brokenwings89
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2004
Posts: 3
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Thank You
Posted: 07-10-04 23:13pm
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I just wanted to thank everyone for there
replys I just wanted to let you know that
I am letting time heal wounds. I jsut
pray that time goes by faster. But I
really aprreciate respounses believe it or
not it made me feel sso much better at the
end of the day to know that people
understood. I am still going through
rough times but hopefully I will learn
from them and become stronger. Thanx
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003
Posts: 1420
Location: Sydney
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Posted: 07-12-04 04:20am
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Brokenwings89,
you are right - keep on keeping on &
you will get stronger - just also remember
that there are peole here (& all over
the place) who will listen & maybe
even be able to offer help/suggestions
etc. So if you need us - just call.
Even if you just need to vent, we all need
to do that sometimes.
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Haley
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2004
Posts: 122
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Posted: 07-15-04 03:53am
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I'm glad you are feeling better 
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KittyKat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Nov 2003
Posts: 39
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Posted: 07-21-04 19:27pm
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You know the most important person to
please is yourself. You can't live your
life for others. I know it's important
to please the one's that mean so much to
us, but you will go crazy trying to do it.
Do you have any local mental health
agencies that can offer you some sort of
counselling? Sometimes just talking with
someone neutral can really help. You
really need to be loving &
compassionate with yourself. Being hard
on yourself and punishing yourself really
serves no purpose. Treat yourself with
the love & dignity you deserve.
Nobody is perfect, and nobody will ever be
perfect. It's so hard when you whole
life is trying to please others. Just be
good to yourself and remind yourself of
all the good things you have done.
Xoxo
kitty
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chris thompson
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Nov 2005
Posts: 1
Location: bonnieville ky
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Some Stop Me
Posted: 11-22-05 05:45am
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I'm 25 and i've lost everything i've ever
worked for and everyone I ever loved.My
girlfriend left me the day I asked her to
marry me,i lost my car and job a week
later.She moved in with her new boyfriend
the day after she dumped me and has'nt
spoke to me in 8 mths even though we have
a child.She refuses to tell me what
happened or what I did wrong.I've cried
every day for the last 8 mths.I can't
afford to go to a dr and i'm at the edge
of killin myself and the lovely couple.I
ahe the holidays and i'll hate them even
more now that i'm alone and forced to be
broke for over 9 mths and I havn't left
this house in 8mth not one date nothing.
I feel that it would be a deserved killing
and I would not fear going to jail.For my
own family has around 30,000 thousand
dollars in the bank and won't give me a
dime,so what reason other than the son
that I never see to not do this?
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me_plus1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2005
Posts: 38
Location: Georgia
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Chris
Posted: 11-22-05 12:07pm
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Chris there are plenty of reasons not to
do it. And if you find none your son
should be the most important reason. Yeah
at time life can suck, royally. But like
the bad time the goods time are just
around the corner. I'm not sure what your
religious beliefs are, and i'm not going
to get preachy. But if you surrond your
self in negativty, negative things will be
drawn toward you. Every day look for
something that makes you happy, even if
it's as simple as I made my oatmeal
perfect today. Once you find the little
things in life that makes you happy, you
will become happy. I kbow you were in
love with this woman but there are other
women out there you deserves the love that
you will be able to give them and they
will appreciate it.
Take it one day at a time and if that
seems like to much take it by minute.
Think about your son and how much he loves
and misses you now. Don't break his
heart.
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uk_ladybird
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2005
Posts: 17
Location: Maryland, USA
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Chris
Posted: 11-28-05 22:52pm
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Chris,
you dont want to hurt anybody and deep
down in your heart you know it and feel
it....What good would it do hurting them?
Youd only hurt yourself more cause then
you would have to live with it and your
son would have this to have in his life do
you really want to do that to him???
You need to accept your ex has moved on
whether its right or wrong or what you
dont want she has made her choice and now
you have to choose to live or give up!
We all have shitty things happen in our
life I dont think many people go through
there lives totally happy but you have
choices..Like I do
should I give up and carry on being
depressed and criyng.No cause I owe myself
more than that and my kids........
Your son is always going to love you.No
matter what.Do you get to see him??
You really should get to a dr or to talk
to somebody in person .Do you ever go out?
Who brings you food and stuff we all
gotta eat ........
Dont punish yourself ......You have to try
and be strong its easier to give up and
harder to fight I know but listen you can
do it!!!
A day at a time...........You will never
have a better life till you decide you
want it for yourself and nobody can make
you do it it has to be cause you want
it!!!
I am not being mean I really feel badly
your going through this and it is the
holidays coming up.....But you can get
your life turned around if you really want
but hurting people who have hurt you isnt
the answer and you know it!
Concerned!
Take care
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