I think I have a very good chance of being
preg. But im dead scared to tell my
parents. Im 17 now but when I was 15
almost 16 I gotten preg. And they
threatened me to get an abortion or get my
boyfriend in lots of trouble. Of course I
was scared for my boyfriend and went with
the abortion even tho it killed me to,
well now im really scared of what to do, I
will not let myself have another abortion.
I kno u should see a doctor right away
when u find out u are pregnant. But becuz
im scared to tell anyone if I am preg. Im
not sure how long it would be b4 I see a
doctor. So are u more likley to have a
mischarage if u dont see a doctor the
first month or 2? Im jus really scared
and I dont wanna loose another baby, I
wanna see a doctor but its jus the fact of
my parents. And I was thinkin of telling
them when its too late to even have an
abortion. But then im scared it could be
bad for the baby and lead to a
miscarriage. Please help!
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-11-04 10:01am
Well first of all this is the time u need
to put your baby ahead of you. That means
you have to go to the doctor and not put
being scared in front of it. Im 18, I was
scared to tell my parents too, they are
soooo strict...But it all ended up working
out (im 38 1/2 weeks) but I mean u have
had an abortion before, and now your
pregnant again, so no offense but it seems
liek you werent being too careful..
Either way its the baby that will suffer
if he/she doesnt get the proper care. So
you need to make the mature choice and
just stand up tell your parents and go to
the doc.
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KC
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2004 Posts: 23 Location: VANCOUVER ISLAND
Posted: 07-13-04 11:33am
I agree wit karim1804.You should be
putting ur baby be4 ur self ur baby needs
to be healthy and u need to go to the
doctors...I am a 14 year old turning 15 at
the end of this month but I was scared to
tell my dad it took me a month and a half
to tell my dad I told him just be4 the
ultra sound I am now 24 weeks....Please go
to the doctors and make sure ur baby is
healthy if u are pregnant.
Kc
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JadeS
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jul 2004 Posts: 33 Location: MO
I Understand Posted: 07-21-04 10:10am
When I was 19 I had an abortion because my
mom didn't want any of her children to
become a stereotype and my boyfriend had
just had a child by his ex, and wasn't
looking for a 2nd child. Feeling backed
into a corner, I did it, with no regard
for myself or my unborn child. Because of
that abortion, my body has been subject to
so harsh beginnings and endings, I am now
22, out of my mothers house, and pregnant.
A part of me is still somewhat afraid to
tell her, afraid what she's going to say.
But I won't let that stop me from having
this baby and making sure I do all in my
power to make sure it's okay. I will tell
her when i'm comfortable, and that's the
advice I would give to you, however, if
that's your only means to getting around
than you'll have some explaining to do.
Right now, to avoid getting my mother
involved, i'm taking the bus to my clinic,
getting rides from friends, all because I
don't want her to know right now. The
first 3 months of a pregnancy are
important, I don't want to be under any
added pressure due to me arguing with her
about the life of my child. Therefore, I
plan to tell her in my second trimester.
Keep your head up though, we all make
mistakes when it comes to our love life,
but being pregnant is not the mistake,
take care!!!
