I think I have a very good chance of being
preg. But im dead scared to tell my
parents. Im 17 now but when I was 15
almost 16 I gotten preg. And they
threatened me to get an abortion or get my
boyfriend in lots of trouble. Of course I
was scared for my boyfriend and went with
the abortion even tho it killed me to,
well now im really scared of what to do, I
will not let myself have another abortion.
I kno u should see a doctor right away
when u find out u are pregnant. But becuz
im scared to tell anyone if I am preg. Im
not sure how long it would be b4 I see a
doctor. So are u more likley to have a
mischarage if u dont see a doctor the
first month or 2? Im jus really scared
and I dont wanna loose another baby, I
wanna see a doctor but its jus the fact of
my parents. And I was thinkin of telling
them when its too late to even have an
abortion. But then im scared it could be
bad for the baby and lead to a
miscarriage. Please help!
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1684 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 07-08-04 20:15pm
It is very important to get to a doc right
away. The first few months are the most
critical in fetal development. If you
can not get to a doctor I highly suggest
getting some over the counter prenatal
vitamins from your local pharmacy. They
generally have them in the aisle with the
other vitamins. When do you turn 18????
How old is the father? If the father is
under 18 I do not see how he could get in
trouble. Well thats the law here in
wisconsin, I dunno about where you are.
But if he is a minor I would tell you
parents because there is nothing they can
get him in trouble for if he is a minor.
Please think about your unborn child and
see a doc. The chance of a miscarriage
is greater due to the fact that you
previously had an abortion. The abortion
could have caused scarring in your uterus
which in turn could effect this pregnancy.
Good luck....Best wishes.
Sara and jayden
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alison123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004 Posts: 14 Location: Ma
Posted: 07-08-04 20:37pm
The father is 21, I wont be 18 till may.
Im from ma so he cant get in trouble
anymore cuz im over 16. The abortion I
had was a pill and I had to insert it
myself the doctors told me it is really
safe. But im scared of how to tell my
parents this time, only becuz of the
reaction last time. Yea im older now and
they might not be as bad about it as I
think but im still stuck on what happened
a yr and a half ago, ya kno, on top of
that the father dont have a clue bout any
of this, im scared to tell him also!,...He
will be really upset especially cuz he
hurt so horribly over what happened a yr
ago and also we arnt together any more, we
jus stay good friends.
But I will not allow myself to have an
abortion. I went through depression and
so much last yr from that and I knew what
I did was horrible and wrong and I gotta
live with that. And that was a horrible
experience, that I wont deal with again.
I have no one to go to, or to help me. I
feel really alone in this situation.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 07-08-04 21:05pm
Are you sure you are pregnant? Have you
taken more then one test?
<3
gaby
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 07-08-04 22:44pm
Well regardless u have to think of your
baby over everyone else including yourself
if u are pregnnat.. That means no matter
the outcome. . U need to see a doctor.
Once u become pregnant, or put yourself in
the situation to get pregnant, you have to
be mature enough to put that babys life in
front of yours no matter how bad you think
it may get. Plus, its never as bad as you
think its going to be.
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alison123
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Jun 2004 Posts: 14 Location: Ma
Posted: 07-09-04 07:46am
Thanks I feel a bit better, I kno the baby
is to come first im jus really scared, my
parents scare the hell outta me my mom is
horribly mean we dont get along, my dad-
whatever he says goes, ya kno- and as far
as the babys dad- he probably will say its
not his or its my fault im preg. And did
this to him. Hes really jealous and seems
to think I cheat on him. So I feel this
is gonna be so hard but I guess I kno I
gotta do whats right for the baby. I jus
feel so stressed out. I want the baby im
jus scared im not gonna get the comfort I
need from my family, I dont want them to
reject me again.
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