I
feel a bit silly asking this.....But it's
a question i've had for a while????? I
think I know the answer, but want to have
it confirmed>>>> here goes:
a. What is an orgasm?
B. How do I know i'm having one?
C. When a woman "cums", does that mean
she's had an orgasm?
I welcome answers to these questions.....I
have more, but I firgured I start with
these.
I look forward to hearing back.
Thanks!
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momofthree
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2004 Posts: 3 Location: New York
What Is An Orgasm?????? Posted: 07-09-04 13:37pm
Sixteen views, and no replys?????
Ladies, I know this may seem
elementary.....But please let's have some
responses.......
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CheekyMonkey
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jun 2004 Posts: 34 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 07-09-04 14:03pm
If you have an orgasm, there will be no
question in your mind whether or not
you've had one.
There is a build up, a mounting of tension
where you start to become very focused on
the feeling.
Once you actually orgasm there is the very
pleasurable "release" of tension followed
by a series of involuntary muscle
contractions.
I don't know how else to describe it.
Hope this helps.
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 07-09-04 15:46pm
Most people say "you will know when you
know" but that's not much help.
Cheekymonkey is righton with her
description. The muscle contractions are
usually localized in the uterus, with some
women experiencing muscle contractions in
the vaginal area. Though most women will
say you can feel some release throughout
the whole body, not just the uterus and
vagina.
The word "cum" is often used to refer to
two different things. Some refer to "cum"
as orgasm, and some use it to mean when a
woman ejaculates (aka the female
ejaculation).
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momofthree
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2004 Posts: 3 Location: New York
What Is An Orgasm?????? Posted: 07-09-04 16:39pm
Both of you are great in your
explainations......And I thank you for
that, but....I'm still??????Reason
being....Let me explain:
during foreplay, I reach a point where the
best way to describe it would be, a
tickling feeling, so I pull away.......Am
I about to reach an orgasm there??????
During intercourse I tend to feel the same
thing, I don't pull away and allowing him
to finish.......My toes tend to
curl......And it feels really
good.....Have I had an orgasm then??????
Are there any really good books anyone can
suggest>>>>>i recently
ordered a book called the big "o"
i'm still open to all your repies.
Thanks
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 07-09-04 20:42pm
Oh,hon-don't pull back!!Ride the wave of
pleasure all the way!!Maybe if you have a
few "practice runs"(masturbate!!) on your
own,you'll feel more comfortable with the
feeling of orgasm.I did not enjoy sex for
the first 5 years I was sexually active.I
was so focused on being a "good lay"that I
focused entirely on my partner and not at
all on me.Got over that,thank god!!Relax
and enjoy!Patty
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Sunni58
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2004 Posts: 2 Location: ohio
Posted: 07-09-04 22:38pm
I agree that if you have an orgasm you
would know it. It is a build up of a
feeling and you can't wait to get to the
top. Once you get there, the release is
awesome and you might feel it through
your whole body. Sometimes it even makes
me light headed. My suggestion is to
discover your body and masturbate to see
what feels good to you. Relax and bring
yourself to an orgasm so you will know
what it is and how it makes you feel.
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I
feel a bit silly asking this.....But it's
a question i've had for a while????? I
think I know the answer, but want to have
it confirmed>>>> here goes:
