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ACGUY

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Social Anxiety
Posted: 07-11-04 22:12pm

There are times when im around people I feel a chaotic, horryfying feeling of paralysis, where I cannot talk, my heart beat thunders and I start sweating too (especially around women) I feel im being terryfyingly judged, I have tried some techniques including self-mind control which has helped but other then that I cannot speak, also so weird that when I drink alchahol it dissapears!!!! I feel my speech returning and can talk freely, make freinds and pick up women.. The worst part is when I am sober these people look kind of shocked to find me now a quiet, awkard, weird acting guy, even worse I know exactly when its happening and what they are thinking when im in this mode.



I just dont understand myself, im 25 and I need help. I have been single all my life, if I can beat it it would obvously help.



I recently studied admin where every other student was female, I self destructed at times and felt miserable. Yet people with asian or african decent I feel no anxiety towards, which has prompted me to ask the question on the society of western culture. I litterally feel im talking to a demon when im talking to a western mind. My mind is paralysed and horrible things happen.


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Neurosis_

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Posted: 07-11-04 23:18pm

Dude!!!! I am 17 and you remind me of me... Exactly!!!!! Its scary.. But im sure lots of other people are the same way... For me, it usualy takes me a long time to start to adapt to people espeacialy girls.. But the ones that give u the time to adapt to you know they are speacial... I also have to get hammerd at social gatherings to be social.. I feel its the only way for me.. If im sober... I am just... Bleh and all weird and shy... I cant help but feal it... So someone help us :p
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lollipop4u

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Pipe Down !!!
Posted: 07-23-04 22:31pm

And, be thankful that there are so many antianxiety meds out there to choose from such as paxil, zoloft, ect now get your sweet sweet self into see a doc who can and will help you no matter what the sweet doctor 's ancestory !!! Laura
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ACGUY

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Posted: 07-24-04 07:46am

Aww laura your so cute!!!

Thanks guys for the support, ill look into it. I also like the mind techniques ive read in some sites. Like shuunited.

Its a good resource.
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Meds Are Not the Only Answer!!
Posted: 07-25-04 04:27am

There are many alternatives to taking prescription meds for the rest of your life - not to mention the fact that these meds have side effects that can be worse than your original problem for heaven sake at 17 & 25 you need alternatives not long term mental health meds that could cause health issues, lose you jobs etc etc & you can't drink when on them - or you can be in real trouble.

Alternatives - cbt (cognitive behaviour therapy)
- natural meds - eg: sam-e, 5htp(tryptophan), valerian, gingko, dhea, st johns wort etc etc.
- machines (cost from about $us200) which affect the brains functioning to reduce stress, anxiety, pain, sleep problems, behviour issues etc check dynamind.Com & alpha-stim.Com re ces & sound/loght machines.

There that's a start.
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ACGUY

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Posted: 07-25-04 09:40am

Thanks purple, but lollipop4u is still really cute!!!

I hate drugs of any kind, I allways try to solve things natures way, not the toxic way..

I will look at my options, im sure ill be fine..
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