Male Orgasmic Disorder And Depression. Advice & Help Ple Posted: 07-11-04 22:36pm
Hi, you guys can call me brand. I'm on
here trying to learn more about a problem
I have (male orgasmic disorder). I'm just
going to be candid. I've just recently
figured there was a name for my issue, but
for those of you who don't know its a
disorder that keeps men from having
climax. Although I am 20 years old i've
only ever had proper sex twice(full orgasm
with partner) even though i've tried with
alot of women. I can sometimes maintain
an erection for several hours and often
get physicaly tired before I achieve an
orgasm. Its becomming quite a problem
for me and I often give up trying before I
start because I know i'll just end up
falling asleep or passing out before I get
there anyways. It is somewhat of a
prideful thing for me sometimes to be able
to last a long time and give the girl i'm
with what I think she wants/needs. I get
very guilty though because I think that
she would like to do the same for me but I
just doesn't happen.
I'm starting to get very depressed because
of this and recently i've started feeling
physicaly ill after a sexual event. One
time I had to ask a girl to leave my
apartment early because I felt I was going
to throw up. My sexual appetite, I
think, is quite a large one and there is
no lack for my want, or need to have an
orgasm. Like I said before, this is
becomming quite a problem for me and i'm
just looking for some advice, or people
who have more knowledge about my problem.
Maybe there are more men out there with a
similar issue... If you have anything to
add, please do...I'm feeling somewhat
desperate now.
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niemann
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jul 2004 Posts: 1
Posted: 07-18-04 21:32pm
I have a very similar problem. I am 24
and have only been able to have sex
successfully a few times. I have trouble
maintaining an erection, and rarely
ejaculate.
I virtually never have problems getting
and maintaining an erection when
masturbating. Along the same lines, i've
found that manual and oral sex, though not
always successful, is generally more
enjoyable and leads to ejaculation more
often. My sexual appetite seems normal or
greater than normal, and I masturbate
about once a day.
The one piece of advice i've received from
girlfriends and friends i've shared this
with was to "relax", but i'm sure some of
you will agree that this is only
marginally helpful. Relaxing seems to be
the problem, so it doesn't help to say to
"just do it." it's almost like saying, "be
casual!"
in several cases I feel that I was
completely relaxed and without any worries
about my performance, but the outcome
seemed to be the same - it just wouldn't
happen.
The biggest problem now is that this has
(obviously) affected my confidence quite a
bit, so getting in a situation where I
could possibly have sex is becoming very
difficult. I have only been in a sexually
active relationship 3 times, and my last
girlfriend broke off the relationship over
sexual frustration.
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