Hey guys! Its sami! How's everyone and
their baby's doing lately? I am doing
alright. But I need some help. I am
dreading telling my parents I am pg again!
First time my mom had me get an abortion,
well I am not putting myself through that
again! If anyone has any ideas on how to
tell them. The thing is they have a
restraining order against my b/f and
despise him...And I just don't know what
to say or how to say it... Any help is
appreciated...God bless everyone! And
good luck..
i'm 16 and i'm in the beginning of my 3rd
pregnancy. 1st adopted, 2nd aborted and
this one i'm keeping. You need to tell
you mom and dad that you are pregnant.
How did you tell them the first time?
Just be honest and some out and tell them.
I'm sorry your parents have a
restraining oreder on ur boyfriend...But
despite that you do need to tell them.
-sarah-
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-25-03 12:38pm
You need to tell them but why do they hate
your guy so much?
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-25-03 12:46pm
But first, you need to have a long talk
with your parents. We do this all the
time at my house...We call it a family
meeting. You need one. Let them know
that they need to compromise with you and
your guy. Because you care for him alot
even if they stop it, it only makes you
want to see him more. But are you sure
hes worth it? Does he have a clean past?
Sometimes seeing his past and present is a
good insight of the future. But they have
to get used to it. Then make sure, sure,
sure you are pregnant, then give it a few
weeks and tell them. They will be so
upset and hurt...Again. But you need to
enforce it that you are having this baby.
Tell them how you feel and that you cant
go through another abortion. That can
damage you emotionally. Try all this and
let us know how things go ok!
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shortee913
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 141 Location: michigan
Rhnks Nikki Posted: 09-25-03 18:02pm
Hey nikki well it's a long story about my
b/f and parents. My parents could see how
much me and my guy care dabout eachother
and I think were afraid to let go. They
also made false accusations and police
reports to the police, saying my b/f hit
me, when my dad did! Yeah its all messed
up. My bf is the best, we are bestfriends
and love eachother very much. We are
looking for some help ( government
assistance) but are having a hard
time...Well nikki thanks for the advice
its greatly appreciated..Much love and god
bless....
Sami
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-25-03 18:10pm
It shoudlnt be too hard, all you have to
do is fill out some forms and see if you
qualify. Good luck! Have you taken a
test yet?
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shortee913
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Sep 2003 Posts: 141 Location: michigan
Hey Posted: 09-25-03 18:13pm
Yeah I took a test and it was positive so
I went to the doc and I am a month! I
went to the family independant agency and
they asked me questions about my parents
income b/c I live at home and I had no
idea plus they had to contact them so I
have to wait..It sux cuz I really need to
know if I even qualify...Me and my b/f are
hopefully moving in together soon, we went
looking today! But all I nknow is I have
to tell my parents
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-25-03 18:13pm
Please read under abortion in the main
forum titles! Thanks!!
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~*~Bree~*~Bree~*~
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 48 Location: minnesota
Posted: 09-25-03 18:52pm
Hey....Its a god thing you have so much
respect for your parents like that....At
least your not keeping it from them!!! I
respect you more!11
