Orgasm Or No Orgasm, That Is the Question. Posted: 07-18-04 15:05pm
This probably sounds horribly stupid, but
I don't know if i've had an orgasm. And
I keep hearing you'll know when you have
one, but I don't. My boyfriend and me
aren't having sex, I have a no-marriage
no-sex policy on that not to mention i'm
18 and he's 17, but we are doing all that
other sex related stuff. Fingering and
all that. Back to the question.
Sometimes i'm pretty sure I have and then
my boyfriend insists that I didn't, but
technically neither of us have any idea
because before we started going out we did
absolutely nothing like this. Is there
such a thing as a mini-orgasm?
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Yes,virginia That Was An Orgasm Posted: 07-18-04 19:27pm
Orgasms have many different intensities
and for your boyfriend to tell you that
you did not climax is beyond me.Does he
have you hooked up to a richter scale??How
would he know if you did or did not reach
climax??I am very fortunate to be very
orgasmic and I never have doubts if I have
reached orgasm.If you feel a sense of
release and are very contented
afterwards,chances are you just had the
big "o".Everyone's different,many women
feel very different things before,during
and after orgasm.Can you bring yourself to
orgasm?Try and see if you can,that way
you'll know what to look for.Pattyv
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Hel
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Jul 2004 Posts: 28 Location: UK
Posted: 07-21-04 08:13am
Sounds as if your boyfriend doesn't know
what the hell he's doing down there and
this is probably why you're unsure if
you're reaching orgasm! My guess is,
you're not, because you're having to ask
yourself that question. Perhaps if you
taked to each other about what you like
and what you don't like, what feels nice.
Do you masturbate? It would certainly
help if you knew how to pleasure yourself,
so that he can learn to do the same!
