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Lildreamer
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Joined: 14 Sep 2003
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Location: CALI
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How Come I Cant Get Pregnant?is Ther Something Wrong With M?
Posted: 09-25-03 16:42pm
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Hey everybody whats up...Its
lildreamer!!!!I got the results of my
pregnancy test and it came out negative.
I just finished a period and I took a test
the next day in the morning but its the
same..I guess it means im not pregnant! I
still feel like I am but I guess its
something else.What else could it
be???(peeing alot,cramps,always
thirsty,now im getting a huge
appatite)maybe im just getting fat. My
stomach gets fat in a funny way
though...It gets round and hard.Not
blubbery...Oh I guess its the way my body
is. I wonder how come ive never gotten
pregnant when ive done 2 years worth of
unprotected sex. I know.. Know...Its
just that we wanted a baby and tried but I
never got pregnant.Trust we tried who
knows how many times a day.Do you think
theres something wrong with me? Am I
infertile) before my boyfriend now I had a
nother 2 year rlationship with someone
else and it was the same only that I was
14.I never got pregnant.What do you guys
think, I really want to know.
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nikki_caro
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Oh Goodness...
Posted: 09-25-03 18:04pm
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How old are you right now? 16? 17? I
couldnt tell. First I think you should
start having protected sex! Because if
you keep doing it like you are, you risk
many std's. And you are too young to be
getting pregnant. There are so many
things to think about. I mean you have to
have a secure future and job, and place to
stay. Where will you keep the baby, will
the baby have medical insurance, can you
tolerate crying in the middle of the
night, every night. Can you make a
million bottles, change a million diapers,
waste a million wipes and spend all your
money on a baby??? Plus didnt you say
your guy was in jail? How are you going
to do it with him in jail and you by
yourself with a baby? Thats alot of
stress. These are things you need to
think about. Please take another test to
make sure your not. And hold off for a
while if your not.
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Darling
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Posted: 09-25-03 20:52pm
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Nikki is absolutely right (lol I look
forward to the day I can disagree with you
nikki!). However, if you are worried
about not being able to conceive you could
always pop into your obgyn's and have some
tests done. But consider yourself lucky
your not pregnant yet! Sometimes the
body has funny ways of telling you, that
you shouldnt be having a child yet.
Sometimes it can take a few years to
conceive and thankfully you haven't
yet!!!!! I really wouldn't worry honey,
it will happen when it's supposed to. But
would you consider starting to use
protection??
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Lildreamer
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Joined: 14 Sep 2003
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Location: CALI
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I Know Your Right!
Posted: 09-27-03 17:13pm
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Im 17 and my boyfriend is 16.Yes my
boyfriend is in jail. I know it would be
hard if I was pregnant right now. My mom
would kick me out of the house with
nothing but the clothes on my back.She
said she wouldnt consider me her daughter
anymore. I know youre right and im not
ready for a baby. My boyfriends were the
one to ask for a baby not me...Weird huh!
I know what its like to take care of
babies. I took care of my neice and
nephew ever since they came home from the
hospital. Changing diapers, feeding them,
the crying,...U name it.I took care of
them before school, after school intill my
sister gets home from work(shes a single
mother). If shes really tired I take them
to my room and they sleep with me on my
bed. I know what its like to wake up in
the middle of the night for them. But
maybe its still not enough....I guess im
still not ready.I admit I get
realllllllyyyyy fustrated somtimes, but I
love them both. Getting advice from you
girls has helped me alot and I appriciate
it deeply. Yes I will consider
protection.....On the real.I guess god
doesnt want me to have children yet and im
thankful for it.Im not o
dissapointed....Ok alittle! As for my
boyfriend....What do u think?Do u think he
should choose what he thinks is more
important to him or what? Or is that
selfish? His family and I are not going
to get along anymore after the huge
arguement. When do you think I should
retest....For the last time?Pleeze write
bak..I love you guys!!!!!!!!
Always
lildreamer
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Cindy1
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Posted: 09-27-03 20:12pm
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I don't think it is up to us to decide how
old you should be to have children and the
situation you are in is none of our
business, and I think it is wrong of
people to judge when the time is right for
you. Also, 1 million bottles, 1 million
nappies, 1 million baby wipes??????? I
think that is a terrible exageration,
raising children is not exactly that bad,
believe me I have 4, and I don't remember
it ever being that hectic, gosh no one
would have children if it were that bad,
and i'm sorry to be so blunt nikki but I
have read in previous posts before that
you don't have children, hello??? Good
luck on everything lildreamer, and I hope
everything works out for you
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youngmama
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Joined: 05 Sep 2003
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Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-27-03 20:20pm
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Cindy, while I agree that it was an
exageration, I do not believe that nikki
was making an educated guess about how
many things you need, she was just tossing
a number out there. Secondly lildreamer
came in here asking what we thought, none
of us seeked her out and started preaching
about teen parenting. And lastly just
because nikki does not have kids of her
own does not mean that she doesn't know
anything nor does it mean that she can't
give advice. Just because you have 4
children does not mean that you know
everything there is to know! Everyone,
every pregnancy and every relationship is
different.
Much love
-jessika-
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Darling
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youngmama
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Posted: 09-27-03 20:50pm
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Thank you hun!! So how have you been
doing? I have hardly talked to ya in the
last week or so! Hope all is well with
you!!
Much love
-jessika-
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Darling
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Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Posted: 09-27-03 21:11pm
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Im good darling  working my @$$
off though! I try to get on here as much
as possible. I think my kittens sick so
im trying to nurse him back to health. I
think of him like my little baby!
Although no dirty diapers, or midnight
feedings, just scratchings and kisses.
Most importantly how are you?!?! I read
your post about being able to swim!
Congrats! Must feel so good to be able to
go out and actually do things! You should
put up a picture of cheyenne when she's
born. I hopw your doing well, its always
lovely to read your posts and hear from
you.
Much love
tanya
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youngmama
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Joined: 05 Sep 2003
Posts: 437
Location: Cheyenne Naomi born 10-2-2003
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Posted: 09-27-03 21:25pm
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Aww! How cute!! How old is your kitten?
I hope he feels better soon!! I am doing
ok! I was a little irritated earlier
cause I kept having false labor
contractions and they were going on and
off for about 14 hours!! But they have
been gone for about 2 hours or so now! I
think swimming really helps! It takes a
whole lot of pressure off of my back!! If
I could I think I would live in water!
Lol I will be sure to post photos of
cheyenne as soon as she is born! And it
is also always wonderful hearing from you!
You are so sweet to me!
Much love
-jessika-
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
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Thanx Cindy1!!!
Posted: 09-27-03 22:43pm
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Hey cindy1 thanks for backing me up! I
really didnt pay attention to the number
nikki was saying. Its not that, that I
was worried about. Im not saying I think
now is a good age for me to have children.
I just wanted to know why it was that I
never got pregnant...Thats all. I also
wanted some advice on my relationship and
just know what would any of u girls would
do. At first nikki was cool but she just
sent me a private message telling me im so
irresponsble and need to grow up.She said
that I share my body with everyone and
that my parents turned me into a hoe.What
is her problem? I never said I was with
alot of people sleeping around.I never
knew she doesnt have any kids. Why is she
attaking me for?Even when no one answered
my question about my relationship.....Just
talking about kittens(lol)...Thanks for
the advice.If you can give me advice on
everything I ask I deeply appriciate it.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003
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Posted: 09-27-03 22:58pm
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Lildreamer im sorry for going way off
topic! Lol
about your relationship I think you should
really think through the pro's and con's
of being with him. You said he wants a
baby but does he understand what goes
along with having a child? He can no
longer be irresponsible and will have to
stop any illegal activities (i only calll
them that because he's in jail). No one
can make a decision for you. Only you
know what is right. And although you do
have experience with children having one
of your own is a full time commitment.
I'm not saying that your too young or that
you should wait, thats not my choice, but
think very hard about the future and about
your relationship with this boy. Wouldn't
it be so much easier if people could make
decisions for you! Im sorry im not much
help, I just hope you do what feels right
in your heart. 
love
tanya
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Lildreamer
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Joined: 14 Sep 2003
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Location: CALI
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Thank U Darling!
Posted: 09-28-03 14:44pm
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Its ok for the subject part (lol)! I just
want to say thanks for all the advice and
no one has really given me an answer about
my relationship...I get the hint that its
really up to me.I know..Ive been thinking
about it and im going to let him choose
what he feels whats right and who to go
with. Its either me or his family.His
family doesnt have to like me for me to be
with him we can be just fine.(baby not
included).Im not talking about babies im
talking about our relationship. For the
record im not pregnant.Ive decided not to
retest and leave it the way it is!3
negative test is sufficient. On the 30th
is his court date and his verdict I hope
he goes free on probation or house
arrest.Anything but stay in juvie.What
ever god feels is best!Thanx again.Love
you all
lildreamer
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Dainty Dee
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Hi There!
Posted: 11-15-07 07:35am
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hi i was just browsin through google and
found this page!
i jus wanted to say that i can not
actually see and actual answer for lil
dreamers question? i say this because i am
actual in the same situation as her only
thing is im jus a couple years older, i go
through the whole, peeing alot - cravens -
ma stomache looks like im pregnant most
times (lol) etc. i have taken a few test
and the test came bk negative but i really
want to have a baby! im 19, 20 next month
and me and my boyfriend have been trying
for a baby....what could possible be
causing these symptoms? and if im not
infertile how do i go about having a
baby?? please answer
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-15-07 12:03pm
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Yes, the desire to have a baby can trick
your body into acting pregnant. You should
try to become pregnant for a full year,
and then go to a fertility specialist.
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Verizon-y
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Re: I Know Your Right!
Posted: 11-15-07 12:41pm
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| Lildreamer
wrote: | Im 17 and my boyfriend is
16.Yes my boyfriend is in jail. I know it
would be hard if I was pregnant right now.
My mom would kick me out of the house
with nothing but the clothes on my
back.She said she wouldnt consider me her
daughter anymore.
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So since you know that if you get pregnant
you will be living in the streets and your
bf cannot help you because he is in jail,
what were you and your baby going to do?
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Analisa
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Posted: 11-20-07 19:12pm
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I think you should be thankful your not
pregnant and start being smarter and get
on birth control...I mean your 16-17 your
what a Sophmore/Junior...maybe Senior?
Why do you "really want a baby" right
now...I mean don't you like not having to
be responsible for yourself...I mean don't
you like being able to do basically
whatever you want? Do you want to give
that up just because you want a baby now?
Do you have enough money to pay for a
baby?
I mean what if you can't breastfeed for
whatever reason and you have to use
formula...do you know that formula alone
costs almost 1000 dollars a year.
Not to mention diapers, clothes, wipes,
stroller, etc.
and your boyfriend obviously isn't
responisble if he's in jail?
Where are you gonna stay?
Shack up with friends...you think there
really goingto want to deal with a baby
crying at all hours of the
night...ha...no...and what if you have to
pay rent?
Can you pay that and raise a baby while
still providing the things you need for
yourself?
THINK!!!!!
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soldierswifey
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Posted: 11-20-07 19:16pm
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how long have you been trying?
if it hasnt been very long most obgyns
will tell you its ok
not to worry and most couples will
concieve in 1-2 years
they wont automatically test you for
infertility
especially if you 16 or 17
sorry hun
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jessamyn
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Posted: 11-21-07 11:12am
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lildreamer pleassseee explain to me the
positives in you trying to concieve a
child?
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 11-23-07 21:03pm
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Her bf (or bfs plural) asked her to, so
she'd be making him (them) happy. I
guess.
I wonder why he (they) want(s) a baby?
| Lildreamer
wrote: | | Im 17 and my boyfriend is
16.Yes my boyfriend is in jail. I know it
would be hard if I was pregnant right now.
My mom would kick me out of the house
with nothing but the clothes on my
back.She said she wouldnt consider me her
daughter anymore. I know youre right and
im not ready for a baby. My boyfriends
were the one to ask for a baby not
me...Weird huh!
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