I Need Womens Suggestions/help! Posted: 07-19-04 23:12pm
Uhm.. Im a bit vervous when I ask this
because im new to this site, and not sure
what people will say, but ive read a lot
of posts here and generally everyone here
seems to be very nice! Anyways, here it
goes..!
My girlfriend and I have been going out
for 2 years now. The sex in our
relationship is going great. She seems to
really like the oral stuff too - but
lately I think shes been getting kind of
bored with the oral. Dont get my wrong, I
"put myself into her" more than we do
oral, but you cant just do one thing
everytime. That gets boring any women out
there know any great ways to arouse with
oral I may not have tried yet??
Thanks a bunch!
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ftmommy201
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Posts: 178
What Ive Noticed.... Posted: 07-20-04 21:00pm
Hey hun...Well...Lol.....I have noticed
for me it is when a guy is aggresive (not
all women like this) but it seems the
harder the better??? Have you tried
placing your hand's on her bottom when
doing this...Almost lifting her lower half
in the air..Kinda hard to explain. Also
do you use your tounge alot?? I have
noticed that whe a guy uses all of his
tounge as far as licikng or whatever that
seems to work also...And have you tried
different areas?? Her in a chair? Or
..If you wanna give it spice..Try
different places in your house or where
ever you are....Counter..Table...Noticing
the surrounding's and what not may be a
bigger turn on for her and you both.. I
hope everything work's out ok...Hoped I
helped some
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bLackwInter
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: California
Ftmommy201 Posted: 07-20-04 21:57pm
Hey thanks. Yeah, ill defidently try your
suggestions. I like the one where you
said to place my hands on her bottom.
That one might turn her on a lot. I know
it will for me! Once again, thanks.
And yes, ill take all of the other stuff
you said into action as well!! :d
if you think of anything else, please let
me know!!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
So Many Ways...... Posted: 07-20-04 22:59pm
Have you tried to write the alphabet or
your phone number with your tongue??Try
some chocolate syrup or honey or whatever
floats your boat.Long licks followed by
little ones.Play around a little bit.It's
not brain surgery after all,this is
supposed to be fun!!!!!!Enjoy!Pattyv
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rayrayduce
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Aug 2004 Posts: 6
Posted: 08-24-04 02:09am
I like light sucking of the clit. My
husband does it to me and it always makes
me go crazy. You have to switch back and
forth between sucking and licking.
Another thing that always makes me go wild
is when we are in the middle of
intercourse and he just stops and flips me
over or lifts my hips off the bed and goes
down for a little while and then he stops
and puts himself right back in again. Oh
my god! I think i'm going to bed now.
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 08-24-04 03:07am
One thing I do have to add (because this
always angers me off) is when you are
going down on her or you are having
intercourse and she is obviously enjoying
what you are doing at that moment, don't
stop! I mean, don't start doing
something different. You have to pay
attention to the "pleasure" sounds and the
frustration sounds. It seems for me that
everytime the guy finally does something
right he will stop and do something
different that does nothing for me. If
you find her spot and do what she likes
with it, orgasm will be easy!
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Teenytoona
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 101
Posted: 08-24-04 23:23pm
If you want to try flavored syrups, (yes
i'm being practical, but seriously here,
no noe likes to deal with the blahs) get a
flavored gel (sugar free - try the wet
brand or something like it) made expressly
for oral sex instead of chocolate syrup or
honey, the sugars in them (hershey's or
something) can make even a non yeast
infection prone woman get the yeasties
bad! Check out www.Goodvibes.Com
for some good purchasable yummies.
Also teasing the area (lips, clit, etc) it
a very good precursor to any further
stimulation.
Oh and what hotsafrick said about not
stopping, very important.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 08-25-04 10:42am
Flavored gels,no sugar?Hmm,might have to
go shopping!!
patty
any women out
there know any great ways to arouse with
oral I may not have tried yet??
patty