Short Periods!!!!

Hey girl,

first let me tell you one thing...You are too young to be wanting someone in jail!! Its never going to get you anywhere. He wont change and he says he loves you but can you see yourself in the future with somone whos in and out of jail? Trust me I know. I had so many guy friends and they were the same way.And now they are in there for another 3 years. But im married now so I dont need them. Stress can cause your period to act weird. It can make it late, light, heavy..You name it. And yes you can have it and be pregnant. Some women get it all during pregnancy and some spot up to 6 months and some not at all. But everyone is different.

But you need to think about one thing, is this guy the best for you? I know you werent asking about that but I know how hard and annoying it is to be dealing with someone in jail. Please think about it.

Hun u can take ten pg tests that come out negative and then all of a sudden it can come out positive...They aren't always right. But it could also be that ur just worried about it so calm down and everything will be ok.~misty

Honey if your really worried go see a doctor. They will be able to tell you for sure, that way you wont be agonizing over it for weeks with home pg tests. Let us know!

My boyfriend has never done anything like this before and its his first time in jail......(attempt homicide) he could get 9 years at the least and hes only 16. We have been together for 2 years and...I dont even know what to think anymore. I took a blood test on the 12th and it was negative then 2 days later a home preg test and it was negative. Then my period came and after it was over the following day I took another home test and it was negative. I took the blood test exactly 2 weeks after my missed period. I try to calm down but its to hard. When my boyfriend got locked up I went to visit his mom on her birthday becuase I know she feels bad about her son. He has some ex-fling that still loves him and is bestfriends with his sister so shes always around. His whole family knows we have caca and how much we hate each other. They kept her around the whole time when all she does is dogg me and they didnt seem to care becuase they knew her longer than they knew me. "shes a friend of the family." so I got into an argument with his sister and that girl......Later when I went home I told my mother what happened and she called his mom arguing with her. I felt disrespted when they kept her around when I was there.(this girl is huge in every way...Huge "chola") the next day my boyfriend called me from jail and told me that they told him what happened and they said I started all the dogging and caca. So hes mad at me becuase of that.Theres way more to the story but its way long. Do u think I should take a blood preg test again or no.What if its negative again? Should I just leave it like it is?Maybe im just getting fat. What would you do?Only if you understand the story maybe you can get a better view. Pleez writ back and give me some advice.Im so stressed I dont know what to do. Im sooooo heartbroken!

Ok look. You need to think if its worth it when his family is more close to that girl than to you. I know how you feel trust me! Ive been there! Look hes in there for attempted homicide, so you need to think hard about this. Are you really worried about losing him, when the shortest time he can get is 2 years? This is attempted homicide on someone elses life you know that? This guy is not a good influence if you want to have his baby. Hes in there for a reason. I have a friend who was always a good guy and he hung out with the wrong people and now hes doing 2 years. You dont need this trouble with him, his sister, his mom or anything. And you dont need some chola dogging you. Ive been in that situation too and I never resolved it the way I should have. You did a good thing leaving. And obviously he is going to trust their word on it, not yours. You dont need to think about him right now, hes not going anywhere. Why dont you concentrate on yourself. If youve taken these tests and they came out negative thats a good thing. Take another one in a few days to make sure. Hopefully you arent pregnant because it would be very hard doing it by yourself. Hes only 16, trust me... He will keep this up for a long time!!! I know you are going to feel heartbroken but you need to get over it. Keep yourself busy. Isnt there something else you can do besides worry about this guy and chola? Its not what you need I know that. Well I have to go, good luck ok?

I am afraid to lose him becuase I love him. I know it sounds typical. Im 17 and hes 16. He is facing 9 years for attempted homicide and hes never done this before. I dont even know the verdict yet becuase hes court date is on the 30th. Theres nothing I can do about that girl becuase she is a "friend of the family". I know they will never like me like her......She probably brain washed them. I know my boyfriend loves me and not her (shes in love with him). What if he stops calling me altoghter..In or out of jail. What if he calls his friends or her instead of me.What do u mean u didnt resolve it like u should have.How do u think I should handle this? It just hurts so bad becuase he threw his life away for someone who is not worth it. As soon as he felt his sister's life was in danger he went to her in the speed of light to kill her ex from beating her. When I was getting sexually harassed at school and guys were throwing dollar bills at me and trying to get with me.....He wasnt here becuase he was scared....When my life was threatened when my ex boyfriend wanted me to get back with him........He wasnt there becuase he was scared or nervous. When I told him I might be pregnant he was happy. His sister told him that I was lying and just wanted to trap him.He asked me if it was true. I was so hurt. Ive been threw so many bad relationships..Theyve all done me wrong. He hasnt even called to let me up date him on the test results.I cant go through another heartbreak again. I dont think ill survive.Do u think im being selfish?What should I do? Do u think I should take a test one more time or leave it how it is? I think im not pregnant! Pleeze any advice? I really really need it.

Girl get over him and move on!!!! Im sorry it took so long to post but I was gone since friday afternoon. You dont need him and you dont need the trouble from this girl or his sister. Why do guys throw dollar bills at you? (i would have been so mad...But picked them up anyways!Hahaha) no but thats wrong. Do you have a bad rep? Ok look. You dont need this. And he wasnt there for you through it anyways right? So why are you head over heels over a guy, who wasnt there for you, is mad at you over a dumb thing, hasnt called you, and is in jail for the next 9 years? You mean to tell me you are so in love you are going to wait that long for him? Is he worth it? No. You need to stop thinking about yourself being heartbroken and take a pregnancy test after your late. You might not be so thats a good thing. And the reason I said I never solved it like I should have is because I was all talk for my first three years of school and me and my friends started fighting girls we didnt like. And I should have laughed them off and kept busy with school and work. I almost lost walking down the isle for graduation because of fighting too much. Its not worth it and neither is that guy. I have to go so write me back ok?