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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Location: OHIO
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Drama With Baby Daddy's Girlfriend...
Posted: 07-21-04 13:14pm
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i just need somebody to talk to, I am at
my grandmother's house and all my sisters
are at home, so I thought I would talk to
yall about it.
Well, me and my baby's daddy was together
2 years and inbetween those two years, I
gave birth to amari. We broke up when
amari was a few weeks old, anyways, he has
a new girlfriend (that I can't stand) and
everytime I call for him she answers his
cell and start sh**.
The reason why I don't like her is becuz
she goes around telling her friends that
amari is her daughter... 
and she is trying to keep me and romair
(my baby daddy) away from each other.
Duh! We have a daughter together and we
are gonna have to keep up with each other
becuz there's a child involved.
I want to fight her so bad but I know
thats not the best solution, I am just
used to fighting to solve my problems, but
now that I am approaching 17, I am trying
to act like a young woman. What should I
do??????
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:02pm
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When she answers what does she say? If
she answeres just say can I talk to
romair, and if she says why? Then say it
doesnt concern you, it concerns our
daughter. And why is she telling people
its her daughter? It obviously not! Just
tell her "look id love to sit and chat
with you about nonsense but im really busy
and im sure you have nothing better to do
so just pass the phone on darlin!" hehe id
say that
as much as this little girl tries to keep
you apart, its not gonna work, so she
might as well give up! You two have kids
with each other. Why dont you tell
something to this guy? Tell him you dont
have to put up with her calls so he either
answers the phone when its you or can
start getting his privelages taken away.
As in your too busy to let your baby see
the dad. And see what he does.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Posts: 221
Location: OHIO
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:17pm
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thank you sooo much! :d
well, when I call and she answers, she
says, "why you always calling here" and
blah blah blah and I end up having to cuss
her out and romair always takes her side.
I have no idea why she is going around
telling people that amari is her daughter
...I am going to ride the bus over there
this evening and talk to romair becuz she
needs to stop answering his phone when I
call, my name pops up so she know its me.
I think she thinks that me and romair got
something going on becuz romair said she
always ask him if he was over my house.
She is 18 yrs. Old and she should have
better sense. I am 16 and romair is 17
1/2, so she should be more mature then the
both of us.
Thanks for the advice chika! 
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:30pm
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Well if she says "why you calling here?"
then say "youd think youd know by now, or
are you not that smart? You know why im
calling so save your breath and pass the
phone!" dont fall for her, just give her a
smart remark and shut her up! If your
name pops up, block your number. Its *76
I think, so your number wont show and she
wont know its you. Shes acting chilidish
and jealous. Tell her "boy arent we a
little insecure" well if he continues to
take her side then tell him "you know
what, im not gonna bother calling anymore,
you just wont see your daughter!" shut him
up too lol
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Location: OHIO
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*j@ydynsmama*
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:34pm
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Dummy nikki! Its different everywhere!
Her is *82~ lol
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:38pm
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Whatever like I knew that! We have so
many, *82 unblockes the number, *76
blocks, *72 forwards a line, *73
unforwarsd it... Thats alot to know you
know? Hehe
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*j@ydynsmama*
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:38pm
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Yea its *67 here too! My bad, *82 is call
forawding I think or somethin..
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bellax0x
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Posted: 07-21-04 14:47pm
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Yeah *67 to block and *69 to see who
called.
Sorry I dont have any advice for ya, but I
htink nikki said it all very well!
<3
gaby
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RezGurl
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Sorry Post Is Soo..long!
Posted: 07-22-04 20:50pm
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Hi! Welcome !! I am elijah I am 19 years
old and I have a 6 month old
daughter.....I used to have the same
problem..I mean with dealing with girls
who are jealous of me and my
family....Have you been in fights before?
A few years back one of my good friends
was asking (when I first got with my bf)
when how long were we going to last cuz
she had a crush on him... I was so mad
because I was falling in love with him and
she had gone out with him before ..A long
time ago.... And she also had a bf at the
time..I ended up fighting her ..Then the
next year I fought with her cousin because
of her....I put it all behind me and I am
moving on with my life and as for them
still acting immature..Trying to start
caca!!
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hm_03
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Posted: 07-23-04 13:16pm
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Sometimes girls are so immature and they
do like to start sh*t whether you're up
for it or not. When you break up with
your boyfriend and then he starts dating
another girl and when you have a kid no
matter what you are not going to be out
of his life. You know because of the
baby, but these girls just don't see it
that way and then they get all paranoid or
jealous when you call. But just be
straight up with her like nikki suggested.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Posted: 07-28-04 11:50am
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yeah elijah, I have been in plenty of
fights with her, she just doesn't kno when
to shut up. But I must admit, I went to
romair's house and talked to her and she
is improving, I guess it took me to talk
to her to str8'n up, dats a shame...
And tell me why romair called me last
night and he said he wants me back!!!
What should I do?? 
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nikki_caro
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Posted: 07-28-04 12:03pm
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Hes either messing with you or hes just
seeing if he can still get you. Just
ignore it and dont even bother. Most
likely hes about playing games. Not worth
it.
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hm_03
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Posted: 07-28-04 12:05pm
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I agree with nikki he may be just messing
with you to see whether he can get you.
It's not worth it but you know him better
than us. Just be careful.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
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Posted: 07-28-04 12:28pm
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Thanks ladies for the advice! I feel
special! :d
i promise I will get pics of me and amari
on here as soon as we get some taken!
It was so funny becuz when he said he
wanted me back, I hung up on him.... 
and he didn't call back, so basically he
don't want me back that bad.
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