People Are Starting to Find Out Posted: 07-21-04 14:22pm
People are just starting to find out I am
pregnant. Daniel's ( the babies father)
best friend just found out, and it was my
friends who told him. That kind of bugs
me cause since daniel is having nothing to
do with the baby he is trying to keep it a
secret. I dont really care that people
are finding out because I know they will,
but why do people care so much. This one
girl im not very good friends with has
told everyone.
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004 Posts: 221 Location: OHIO
Posted: 07-21-04 14:26pm
Thats crazy becuz I went thru the same
situation as you.
My whole 8th grade class knew that I was
pregnant becuz my friends went around
telling everybody, even teachers, that
really piss'd me off.
Real friends would have not told anybody,
so make sure you watch who you pick as
your friends ma...
Now that I am 16, I know that I have to
keep some things to myself.
How far along are you?
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 07-21-04 14:29pm
I definitely know how you feel. The girl
who was supposed to be my best friend went
around telling everybody. Even after I
asked her not too and then denied it and
blamed sopmeone else. (who she had also
told, lol) I think they do it because it
makes them feel important to have such
juicy gossip. A lot of people I never
even liked started talking to me when I
got pregnant but I knew it was just
because they wanted to be the first to
know everything so they could talk about
me. That's how people are. Ther are so
sadly immature. I feel for ya!
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 07-21-04 14:33pm
Well,people are bound to find out sooner
or later.Unfortunately,when you tell
another person a secret,it is no longer a
secret.If these people are telling others
to humiliate you,then they are not worth
your time.It is what it is,you are
pregnant and soon enough it will be
impossible for others not to know.Whatever
your plans are, they are between you and
your boyfriend and your families.All those
others don't matter and don't let them get
to you.Some people just love to spread
gossip and point and judge.How would they
feel if the shoe was on the other
foot?They would want others to respect
their privacy and not judge.If these
people can't do that-you do not need them
in your life.Best of luck to you!Patty
