Me and my boyfriend have bin 2gether for
11months and we have had sex and
everything but, everytime he puts it in
me, like right when he starts to, it hurts
and I force him back out. Why does
this hurt when he does this????Plus, I am
on my period now but it has only bin 2
days and my period is starting to go aways
so soon and it is scaring me, what does
that mean? I dont know if I am pregnant
or not whats happening???
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 09-25-03 19:24pm
Has this always happened ? Or is it
something that has just started happening
lately ? It shouldn't be starting to hurt
if you are pregnant, I mean it I doubt it
would be a symptom of pregnancy although
everyone is different. How long does your
period usually last ? And are your
periods usually regular ? If it hurting
as he is just starting to push inside of
you it sounds as though you might be
anxious about something and tensing up,
although there might be other contributing
factors to. Is it red and inflammed
around your vaginal area ? You may have
thrush if thats the case, that can be
painful having intercourse during an
episode of thrush. If you can tell us
anything else we may be able to help a bit
more with some advice.
Take care...
.::suzy::.
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daddys_gurl16
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 4 Location: austin,tx
Hey Posted: 09-25-03 19:43pm
The pain has happened before when he has
inserted. I dont think I would be
pregnant cause I slept with him last
saturday and when he tried it hurt the
other times but now my period is starting
to decrease and it usually lasts 5 to 6
days and it has only bin 2 and my periods
are regular except for this one cause it
is lighter now.There is no redness or any
sign of other thing around my area.
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Suzy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 530
Posted: 09-25-03 20:02pm
Do you get nervous or anxious when you are
having sex with your boyfriend ? You
maybe tensing up the muscles in your
vagina to the point where it is painful
for you. Some women, especially young
girls having sex for the first time
experience this, and it can go on for as
long as the emotional side of things have
been addressed and they feel completely
comfortable with their partner.
.::suzy::.
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 09-25-03 20:46pm
Suzy is right, sometimes if you are
nervous or tense it can definitely cause
the muscle to tighten. Also do you have
any reason to be pregnant? Have you had
unprotected sex with him? Are you on the
pill?
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daddys_gurl16
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 4 Location: austin,tx
Posted: 09-27-03 10:08am
I had unprotected sex, but I didnt know he
had taken the condom off. I am not on
the pill cause my parents dont know that I
am sexually active.
But my period was a little light this
time and ended a little early and I was
really tired throughout the time
