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dtyber

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Hypochondria ???
Posted: 07-22-04 09:01am

My younger sister (age 44) has been diagnosed (several times) with meniere's disease (ringing in the ears, dizziness, nausea, fainting, vertigo) and she also has a lot of allergies. I am concerned because she runs from doctor to doctor and doesn't seem to follow their advice. If they recommend an otc medication, she doesn't take the correct dosage. She ran to the health food store and took the clerk's advice on ginko biloba, but won't take the recommended amount. She won't fill the prescriptions the doctors order. She says that they make her feel ill.

I know that she does have real attacks on occasion and has had to make a couple of trips to the emergency room for the vertigo. She had a pain in her right side recently and went to the emergency room because she thought she was having a heart attack. They suggested it could be her gall bladder, but a few days later she couldn't decide whether or not to go forward w/ the tests to confirm it. She did and she was normal.

I'm beginning to think she likes the attention all of this brings. When I suggested to her that she needed to take the doctor's advice, she got angry with me and won't speak with me any more. Although I know she does have some real problems, I am very concerned that a lot of this is mental. Any thoughts? Sad
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purple333

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Joined: 01 Dec 2003
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Location: Sydney

Posted: 07-22-04 09:14am

Isn't there a thing called munchausen's syndrome where people "get" all these health problems, I do tend to agree that if she's not abit of a hypochondriac then she certainly enjoys the attention at least abit & also that she's being her own worst enemy re not taking dr's advice & the right dosage - but you can not do any of this for her nor can you make her see sense - she's 44 - not a child & it really is up to her.

Since she's already angry with you maybe you could just say "look if you decide you actually wnat to get help & are willing to do what is required etc then i'll be there for you but until then I am not prepared to worry about you etc".
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Haley

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Joined: 23 Feb 2004
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Posted: 08-10-04 00:26am

There was a really good article on hypochondria awhile back in the ny times and it said cbt was the best treatment for it. I was never a classic hypochondriac but I did tend to over worry whenever I had health issues and that has all stopped since I finished my cbt group earlier this year. The two books we used in my group are really good and I would recommend them both highly: been there, done that? Do this! By sam obitz (www.Tao3.Com) for anxiety and depression and mastery of your anxiety and panic-third edition by michelle craske and david barlow (www.Amazon.Com) for panic disorder. Cbt teaches you exercises on how to counter distorted thoughts and once you get good at using the tools like the tea form you start to feel better and better and not worry so much and hence make so many unnnecessary trips to the doctor Smile
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