Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
I Hate Suprises Posted: 07-23-04 09:28am
Ok last night kevin told me I was supposed
to be ready to leave at 10 am today. I
asked him why, and he told me it was a
suprise... I figured he would be coming
home from work and we were going someplace
but I just didnt know where or why, cuz he
never takes off work unless its important.
Well this morning I was like well how
ready do I be? Do I gotta take a showwer?
Do I just gotta have my hair brushed and
my shoes on? And hes like take a
showwer... And then he was talkin to me
about how im going out to my moms and he
asked me when I was going, and I told him
whenever he took me... Well he forgot
that I said he was taking me and he asked
if I was going to be home when he got
home... I asked him why he was asking me
that if I had to be ready to leave at 10,
and I asked who was coming... He told me
it was a suprise... So its probably his
mom, or pleease, god no, I hope its not
his grandma, his mom is bad enough. But I
have no idea what the hell is going on and
its pissing me off. I hope they didnt
find a lamaze class for me that had an
opening and she is taking me! I will
absolutly ~kill~ kevin! I would rather
not know any of the breathing patterns,
than to go to that with his ~mom~! Im
just being drivin insane here.
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 07-23-04 09:40am
Yeah, I hate that kind of stuff where I
ask where I am going and they say "it
doesn't matter". I hate it. They are
the same people who complain I took too
long to get ready. I need to know where
I am going so I know how much effort I
have to put into getting ready. It's not
even a big surprise or nothing, it's just
them thinking I am a 5 year old with no
life and I can go with them on a whim
whenever and wherever they feel like
taking me!! I better stop now before I
end up ranting.
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 07-23-04 09:48am
Lol its ok, rant all you want, I do! Its
good for ya... It might be that his mom
is taking me shopping or something but im
gonna be pissed if its something other
than that... Lol like a suprise baby
showwer... Cuz im not getting all special
looking or nothing.. Lol I just took a
showwer and did my hair... No makeup, no
nice clothes... I just threw on a pair of
my sweats and a comfortable maternity
tanktop... She better just be brining me
shopping lol... And she better not be
taking me to try and get on wic. Im gonna
health forum if thats what it is, cuz I
cant get on wic til after the baby is
born, and I thought I got kevin to
understand that, but he said before that
his mom wil sit there and health forum til
she gets her way.... Lol I dont think
thats going to work with wic, cuz my
parents make too much money, and there is
no way in hell im lying and saying I live
with kevin or nothing.
Oh lord. Surprises! I hate them too!
Lemme know what it is as soon as you can!
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 1998
Posted: 07-23-04 11:11am
It's especially rude to drag someone
without telling them where they are going
when at the same time they complain that
you spend too much time getting ready.
Next time, I will get all dolled up and
make upd and everything and make them wait
and when they complain about it i'll just
say " since I don't know where i'm going,
I figured I should look my best just in
case". I mean, they dont' even have a
big thing planned at all, they just figure
they can drag me wherever they want to and
I shouldn't care where it is!! I
seriously think they have some control
issues and i'm not even kidding!! They
actually had the nerve to threaten to
seperate me and my fiance because we spent
too much time together! Sorry if I
actually love my fiance! They have the
nerve to tell me that my relationships
aren't healthy. Mind you this is coming
from a person who had a kid and got
married at around oh say 20 years old, got
seperated when that kid was 8 years old I
think, later to be divorced. Ran away to
another state with the woman he cheated on
her with, had a kid, they seperated a few
years later. Moved to another state and
met another woman who was also divorced
and had a kid, they got married, later
seperated, got back together, seperated
again, and now they are back together
again.
I am supposed to take relationship advice
from them???? what!! So far I have had
about 4 bfs. One when I was in 6th grade
which lasted for 8 months because he
moved. One in 8th grade which lasted for
8 months becuase he moved. One in the
summer between 9th and 10th grade which
lasted for 3 months and the breakup was
mutual because we were obviously not
compatible. One that happened in 10th
grade that lasted for a week (someone
laughed at us because it was so short)
because he got jealous about how much I
talked about the previous bf. He thought
I still liked him but I really talked
about how much I was mad at him. In 11th
grade my now fiance asked me out and we
have been together for about 2 years. He
was the one who went out with me for a
week before in 10th grade. How ironic.
I guess the person who laughed at us now
has their foot in their mouth. Anyway
who should be giving who advice??
I seriously think their only reason for
getting married, is a guranteed lay every
now and then, procreation (not for them
but other people) and tax breaks.
Everything so far from them points to
those 3 reasons. I marry for moral
support, someone to grow old with and make
a real family with, and more repsect for
the relationship. There is nothing more
frusturating than loving someone so much
and have other people treat the
relationship as just another immature
teenage fling. Just because of your
age!!
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babyrae
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Posts: 2957 Location: Manitoba, Canada
Posted: 07-23-04 14:43pm
So what was the surprise!!!!!!!!!!!!
shauna
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lilmama2b_oct04
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Mar 2004 Posts: 1970 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 07-23-04 21:32pm
Lol I didnt think anyone really cared
about what my suprise was... Hehe you
guys must not like suprises either, even
if their not for you...
but yea, it was kevins mom, and she took
me shopping... I guess kevin was just
being a dork and telling me it was a
suprise, when it wasnt supposed to be.
When she showed up im like, ok, I have no
idea what is going on, he just told me to
be ready and it was a suprise, and she was
all like oh!?. But I got a winnie the
pooh crib set, and some pooh recieving
blankets, and some water proof crap lol...
Oh yea, and the mobile I really wanted...
Its that one with the bears and they are
like butterflys, and its got this thing on
top of it that projects butterflys and
leaves onto the ceiling, it has a remote
to turn it on and off, and a night light
that dims and then gets brighter I
guess... I dont have batteries for it so
I didnt get to use it yet... I really
wanna try it out! Im gonna load up my
pics on shutterfly now, and I will soon
post some pics of my new appartment, and
some of brooklyns room, and the new crib
set I got, and some new belly pics....
but yea, it was kevins mom, and she took
me shopping... I guess kevin was just
being a dork and telling me it was a
suprise, when it wasnt supposed to be.
When she showed up im like, ok, I have no
idea what is going on, he just told me to
be ready and it was a suprise, and she was
all like oh!?. But I got a winnie the
pooh crib set, and some pooh recieving
blankets, and some water proof crap lol...
Oh yea, and the mobile I really wanted...
Its that one with the bears and they are
like butterflys, and its got this thing on
top of it that projects butterflys and
leaves onto the ceiling, it has a remote
to turn it on and off, and a night light
that dims and then gets brighter I
guess... I dont have batteries for it so
I didnt get to use it yet... I really
wanna try it out! Im gonna load up my
pics on shutterfly now, and I will soon
post some pics of my new appartment, and
some of brooklyns room, and the new crib
set I got, and some new belly pics....