Help I Want to Know If My Girlfriend Is Pregnant Posted: 07-24-04 22:25pm
Hi my girlfriend has had normal periods up
until last month she had it really heavy
and then light then gone in two days.
Then she had to pee a lot. Her normal
period is around the 20 and it is now the
24 she hasn't had her period yet but
everytime we have sex a little comes out
it doesnt seem like a spot she is also on
birth control and has stopped taking them
since she found out that her period was
abnormal. Any help really soon would be
very appreciated. Thanks dusty
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 07-24-04 22:30pm
4 days after a missed period is enough
time for a pregnancy test to detect it.
So I say take a test. Good luck!
<3
gaby
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dustyp
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Posts: 4 Location: kathryn
Posted: 07-25-04 19:56pm
I would have her check but she just left
for canada she is like into art and stuff
and there is a camp down there but I was
reading when you have sex really hard it
can make it stay away for a while I dont
know if it is true or not but the last
time we had sex it was hard and then I
noticed the blood. Any other suggestions.
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004 Posts: 3572 Location: Jersey Baby!
Posted: 07-25-04 21:01pm
Yeah, if youre too rough you can tear a
bit. I say wait until she comes back to
be safe.
<3
gaby
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dustyp
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Posts: 4 Location: kathryn
Posted: 07-25-04 22:14pm
Yeah I will wait till she gets back but I
am really worried, what do you think from
the information that I gave you would you
think she is pregnant or just something
really weird becuase she said that a lot
of times her period is like either really
early like the middle of the month or the
first part of the next month. Hopefully
that helps please give me your info.
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Kit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2004 Posts: 41 Location: PA, USA
Missed Period Posted: 07-26-04 10:00am
I would never attribute a strange period
to being pregnant. That is not saying it
isn't possible. Changes in age alone
cause our period to become different,
lighter, heavier, early, late. Stopping
her birth control would cause spotting,
which may have been noticed while having
sex, but not necesarily caused by it.
That alone could have thrown off her
period also. She may also have had a
slight urinary tract infection causing her
to have to pee. Peeing alot is part of
being pregnant, but not usually that
early. She should go to a doctor. Also,
if she went off the pill, and you still
had sex, there is a chance she is pregant
now and not before she stopped! I suggest
condoms until you are ready to have
children, get over whether you like them
or not so you don't have to worry. I
have a child conceived on birth control
and foam. I never missed a pill.
Good luck.
Also, she can't be as concerned (really)
as you are if she is on an art trip in
canada.
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Kourtney08
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 May 2004 Posts: 937 Location: Alaska
Posted: 07-26-04 11:11am
Of course she can be just as concerned as
he is. Being concerned dosn't mean she
needs to put her life on hold.
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dustyp
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Posts: 4 Location: kathryn
Posted: 07-26-04 18:05pm
Yeah since she went off birth control we
have used condoms so there is a better
chance that she isnt pregnant and when we
didnt use condoms before we wouldnt go
till either of us went we would stop and
then I would use a condoms but rarly we
didnt use one but I would pull out
obviously that gets said alot so I dont
know how well it worked. I am hoping that
is starting to get it though becuase she
has had cramps. Any more reaplys would be
greatful
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Kit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2004 Posts: 41 Location: PA, USA
Posted: 07-29-04 15:26pm
You are right of course, I cannot say she
isn't concerned, I can however base my
opinion on what he posts, as we do with
all of our replies. That having been
said, I based my opinion over her concern
on one simple statement he made. "have
her take a test" "i would have her check,
but she left for canada" . . . Ok,
she couldn't test there and maybe call?
If she were overly concerned would a
reasonable human being be able to assume
she would take a test on her own?
However, maybe it's just me, but dropping
a bomb like that on someone for them to be
concerned about, then leaving to a place
where she cannot be tested yet so as to
either confirm it, or ease the concern if
she is not...Shows lack of concern.
Whether it's lack of concern for possibly
being pregnant or lack of concern for his
stress bombing over it I am not sure.
No I don't feel she should put her life on
hold, however being the one in control of
finding out if she is in fact pregnant, I
feel it is irresponsible and selfish, i.E
showing lack of concern to expect him to
wait until her trip is through to come
back and find out.
Maybe I am unrealistic, but you dont say
to your husband or wife..."by the way, I
may have hiv, but I will go get tested
after I get back from disneyworld."
by the way, this is all conjecture, no
offense to dusty or his girlfriend, I was
just justifying a statement!
Now for dusty, yes cramps are a sign,
howver the actual period will be nice as
cramps are also a true sign of early
pregnancy if the period doesn't follow
them. They feel exactly like period
cramps. Sorry if this doesn't help your
optimism, I am just being realistic.
