We Had Sex...but I Didn't Cum In Her Posted: 07-24-04 22:55pm
So here is the deal...
We had sex but I pulled out before I
came(i didn't use protection). She did
wash, but obviously that is no garuntee
against her possibly getting pregnant from
my precum. Basically my question is how
likely is it that she will get pregnant
from my precum and should we take serious
action rght away. I downloaded this
program that determined how fertile she
was and on a scale of 1 to 5 she was on
day 3 of being fertile. The most fertile
day is in two days. However I am not sure
how accurate that is because we don't know
the length of her typical menstrual cycle
or the luteal phase. So please give us
some info on how worried we should be. We
are only 17 so keep that in mind. Thanks
for your help
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the one
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 139 Location: Miami Beach
Posted: 07-24-04 23:27pm
People usually don't give you a straight
answer with this kinda thing becuse they
want you to know how stupid they think you
are but I know where you're coming from.
I once read that you have an 8% change
getting pregnant... You see though, this
is an estimation, which is good
considering you don't know how fertile she
was.
If you want to keep a piece of mind then
get a morning after pill from a planned
pregnancy center thingy. The same thing
has happened to me before and I nearly
killed myself from thinking about it, and
now I even think i'm pregnant when we use
condoms and they don't break.
Recap: you have a very slim chance but it
might be better to take responsibilities
for your actions early, when there's still
time to do something about it.
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PattyV
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 May 2004 Posts: 1103 Location: Chicago area
Posted: 07-25-04 08:24am
I agree with "the one".Go to planned
parenthhod or your girl's gyn and get the
morning after pill.And while you're there
you can get more info on birth
control.They have a name for people who
use the withdrawal method-mom and dad!You
are both at your most fertile, age wise,so
be careful!!Hope it all works out for
you.Patty
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precum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-25-04 12:14pm
Thank you very much for the response. I
of course am still very worried, but its
nice to know that the chances are slim.
And ya, its ok that you let me know how
stupid I am, because it was stupid. If
anything develops, i'll keep you posted.
Thanks again
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precum
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2004 Posts: 3
Posted: 07-25-04 16:21pm
Considering everything that is going on do
you think it would be wise to get a
morning after pill? I've heard there are
some pretty bad side effects and I am not
sure if it is really worth it. If anyone
could give me some info on how to get
them, where to get them, and if it would
be a good idea, I would really appreciate
it.
Thanks
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 07-25-04 16:51pm
If you don't want to be mom and dad then
yes, get the morning after pill, have her
go on birth control, and start using
condoms.
As for how fertile she was on that
specific day, you cannot go by a chart or
anything, because all women are different.
We ovulate at different times of the
month. I suppose that most women ovulate
by that chart, but not all of us do.
So, anyway, we all make mistakes, but just
try to solve this one before it becomes a
problem. Good luck to you.
The morning after pill did not give me any
side effects at all....You are just not
suppose to use this method all of the
time.
