Hi, im very worried.. Its been already 8
days since i've had a "sexual" intercourse
with my boyfriend.
Well, frankly speaking,i didn't want to
lose my virginity, im still 15. I told my
boyfriend that i'll lose my virginity only
after marriage. Then we agreed to have
anal sex.
After getting home, 3 hours later, while
taking a bath, ive noticed a white thing
near my vagina. I removed it but I really
have lots of things going in my mind.
Im still a virgin and I want to get a
clear answer. Can I get pregnant?
If yes, please tell me what should I do.
Please help me,i need your advices.
Thank you.
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cw2004
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Georgia
White Thing? Posted: 07-27-04 13:12pm
Was the white thing hard? Or mushy? If
it was mushy it may just be discharge. Or
it could be your boyfriend's semen. Did
he ejaculate near your vagina area? If
so, don't panic. Wait until you get your
period. If it doesn't come, maybe you
need to take a preg test.
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p1r4t3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Mauritius
Posted: 07-28-04 09:33am
Thank you very much for replying.
According to my calendar, I will get my
period around the 3rd of august.If I dont
get my peroid, wat should I do?
If you don't get your period then take an
hpt test. You should know that sometimes
too much stress and worry can cause you
period to delay. Just relax and wait to
see what happens. Ask your boyfriend if
he ejaculated inside you or something. It
may not be anything bad but just make
sure. Good luck
maddy~
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JennyH
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jul 2004 Posts: 1 Location: Illinois
Don't Think So Posted: 07-28-04 09:59am
I doubt you are pregnant. You do realize
that sex is sex no matter how you have it.
The anus should be an exit
only.....Think about it. You are only 15
years old. If you want to stay a virgin,
don't let your boyfriend talk you into
something you don't want to do. If he
can't respect your decision then he really
doesn't respect you. He won't die if he
doesn't have sex, really he won't. No
guy has ever died because he didn't get to
have sex when he wanted it! One last
thing, by waiting until you're married to
have sex, you will never have any regrets.
Trust me, I know. I had sex for the
first time when I was 14. I got pregnant
at 16 and I had an abortion. You have no
idea of the shame and regret that have
followed that decision and that was 18
years ago. God is good and he forgives.
Don't let your peers talk you into doing
something you don't think is right.
Jenny
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p1r4t3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Mauritius
Boyfriend Confirmation Posted: 07-28-04 11:53am
Yes, my boyfriend told me that he
ejaculated.
Im very afraid.
Just wait to see if you get your period
you never know the chances. Good luck.
Keep us posted.
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the one
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 139 Location: Miami Beach
Posted: 07-28-04 12:16pm
Um, the first thing you might wanna do is
get mad at your boyfriend. Sex is sex
either way, and in my opinion, it's worse
in the butt. Anal sex isn't even a nice
thing to do, it's not like making ass love
or anything...He's just getting off using
your body. You should have asked him if
he didn't mind you sticking a cucumber up
his ass, then having him lick it, assuming
you'll evenually give him oral sex.
I assume you guys weren't using a condom
so uhh, you need to ask him where he
ejaculated... If it was in you, then you
definately can't get pregnant if none came
out, because there's nothing leading to
the egg. That's a one way road out. If
some came out and seeped into your vagina,
then you *might* have a problem. But you
see, hypothetically, if he ejaculated 100%
into your vagina, you'd have an 8% chance
of getting pregnant. Since you're not
even sure, and this is assuming he didn't
ejaculate on your vagina at all, you're
looking at a very small chance.
Ask him where he ejaculated. It's too
late for you to take an emergency
contraceptive, so whatever you find out,
stay calm and know your chances are very
slim, and wait for your period.
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p1r4t3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Mauritius
Posted: 07-28-04 12:17pm
Ok. I'll wait till monday and let you
know. I dont know where to get advices.
Thank you all very much.
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p1r4t3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Mauritius
Posted: 07-29-04 08:35am
Hi friends. I got my period today in the
afternoon. Its 2-3 days earlier.
Hm_03 said that stress may cause period to
delay but mine came earlier. Is it ok and
is it a good sign?
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Cassy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jun 2004 Posts: 103
Posted: 07-29-04 12:25pm
If your period is like a normal period,
it's like any that you've had before then
you're fine. If your period is extremely
light or stops after 2 days or something
then you may want to take an hpt.
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p1r4t3
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Jul 2004 Posts: 6 Location: Mauritius
Posted: 08-02-04 07:14am
Hello everybody, like ive said, i'll be
giving some feedback today.
Well,since thursday ive been having my
period, so I guess there is no problem.
Thanks to all of you for giving me advices
when I badly needed them.
Thank you
