I doesn't happen very often, but sometimes
after an orgasam I can't help my self and
I just start crying. I'm not sad or
hurt, I just feel overwhelmed with emotion
and can't help myself. I feel embarassed
when this happens, but I can't control it.
I hope someone can help me figure it
out. Is it common? And why do I do
this?
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the one
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jun 2004 Posts: 139 Location: Miami Beach
Posted: 07-28-04 12:18pm
Do you feel guilty at all? Do you feel
any emotions?
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Forum Girl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Oct 2003 Posts: 207 Location: Orlando, Florida
Posted: 07-28-04 17:18pm
Its a normal response. While its not
extremely common, it does happen. Some
people cry after sex, some laugh, some get
hungry, some fall asleep - its all normal
responses to orgasm. When you have an
orgasm your body does this massive release
and in some people it can trigger an
emotional response. For you that
response appears to be crying. I know
for me I sometimes get the giggles. I
wouldn't stress over it too much. It
might be a bit embarassing but as long as
you are with someone who understands you
and you are comfortable around I wouldn't
worry too much over it.
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Pixie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jun 2004 Posts: 41
Posted: 07-31-04 04:55am
My ex cried once out of pleasure and I
felt like a rock star!!!
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oangelc543
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2004 Posts: 521 Location: TX
Posted: 09-25-04 12:57pm
Well I only cried once after sex.. It was
my second time, so I think it was alot of
emotional release plus I was scared to
death because the condom had torn. Alot
of conflicting emotions I suppose
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rachael909
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Sep 2004 Posts: 22 Location: san jose, ca
Posted: 09-25-04 19:21pm
One time, my boyfriend and I had
simultaneous orgasms (rare, I know, and
it's happened twice since then, too!) and
I got all teared up as we lay in each
other's arms. With me, it was that I felt
really connected with him, it was a very
special experience. Could be the same for
you.