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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004
Posts: 221
Location: OHIO
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How Did You Tell Your Loved Ones...
Posted: 07-29-04 15:07pm
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That you were pregnant?
I remember the day clearly...
I had been having unprotected sex with my
baby daddy for 4 months and then it
happened, I missed my period! We were
planning it but then we kinda changed our
mind but it was too late. I called
romair and told him that I was pregnant
and he took the news well! He has a son
from a previous relationship, so I kno he
has an idea of how to raise a child.
But when I told my mother and father, it
was a different story.
They told me that I had to get an abortion
and blah blah blah, but I had my cousin
talk them into not making me get one and
it worked! They became very
supportive...I am happy that I have
reasonable parents, everyone is not
blessed with that.
How about yall?
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bellax0x
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Jun 2004
Posts: 3572
Location: Jersey Baby!
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Posted: 07-29-04 15:14pm
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Well im not preggo and ive never been so
idk, but I just wanted to say thaat your
very lucky you have parents like that an
dim glad everyitng worked out!
<3
gaby
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004
Posts: 772
Location: houston
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Posted: 07-29-04 15:50pm
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Well I had the pregnancy test in my pocket
and my I was like I gotta tell u
something, but he was like whats that in
your pocket and he just took it and looked
at it and he looked at me and said does
this mean yes and I just shook my head
yeah. He sighed and then we went home and
then he was happy.
Meagan
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JenniferN
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jul 2004
Posts: 136
Location: Tennessee
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Posted: 07-29-04 17:05pm
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Well I had two dear friends with me when I
told my mom and she was very upset, cried
then begged me to give it up for
adoption.. Finally towards the end of my
pregnancy she came around and my son is
now her pride and joy.. She once told me
that she loves him more than me! Lol
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 07-29-04 17:16pm
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Well I didnt beleive I was pregnant but
jose kept telling me I was. He was like I
had a dream you were pregnant! And I was
like "i had a dream I was in a movie so
what!" lol. And then everyone here kept
telling me I was so, I got a cheap test
and it was faint. So I went to target and
took a test there and it was positive. I
didnt believe it but I called jose and he
was happy, then I told everyone here.
Then I went home and took another test and
it was still positive. So I didnt want to
tell anyone so we didnt for like 2 weeks,
then we told my mom. She was happy and
started crying and then called the whole
world telling them she was gonna be a
grandma. Jose told my mom not me lol. I
was a chicken. So then she took me to a
clinic for another test! Which came
positive too! Lol. That was annoying!
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MegEve
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2003
Posts: 353
Location: Alabama
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Posted: 07-29-04 18:34pm
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Nikki, you crack me up. I can totally
see you look at jose with a dead serious
face and say, "so what, I dreamed I was in
a movie"!!! Hahahahaha, I love it!
Love,
megan
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ScOrpiO4ORyan
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 May 2004
Posts: 221
Location: OHIO
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Posted: 07-29-04 18:44pm
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Nikki, you are so funni... 
and thanks gaby for the kind words...
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 07-29-04 19:12pm
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I peed in my little cup....And then called
my 16 y/o cousin whitney into the
bathroom. She had to drop the drops in
because my hand was shaking really bad.
After about 40 seconds it was a definite
positive. I told my grandmother and she
said I hope your happy and then went into
her room and cried hysterically. I went
in there after her and asked her why the
hell she was crying (not in those words)
and she called my mom and told he and my
mom said she was going to force me to have
an abortion, got over that, pressed
adoption on me, got over that....And now
she loves him to pieces! Lol......I don't
like to think about those sad sad
days....I like to think about the happy
ones! Like the first timi saw that peanut
on the screen! And then think about his
chunky butt now compared to then! Lol.
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Shayna
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jul 2004
Posts: 180
Location: NY
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Posted: 07-30-04 09:13am
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When I told my dad he reacted better than
I expected but that was only because he
was high and drunk. Then the next day
when he wasn't messed up he was really
mean to me. Now I hear that he's telling
people that he hopes I have a miscarriage
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 07-30-04 10:42am
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Any parent who ever tries to *force*
they're daughter to get an abortion or the
thought ever comes into their mind even
for a split second is complete scum and if
it were me she would never see her
grandchild in a million years no matter
what, and there is *no* redemption as far
as i'm concerned. 
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 1410
Location: burlington
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Posted: 07-30-04 11:39am
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Ryan(babies daddy) was with me when I
tested, he came home from work to come
down be me for us to test. We waited
until my mom and her boyfriend left and
found out after taking 3 tests all in one
night that I was pregnant. I wasnt done
peeing so I had ryan take the test from me
and go in the other room, so he did. He
came back 2seconds later and said "heather
we are gonna be parents" I didnt believe
it at first and then I went in my room and
it all just sank right in, I started
balling my eyes out becuase I didnt know
how to tell my mom or dad. I called my
mom and she knew something was wrong
because I was crying. I told her she
wasnt gonna be happy with me and that I
was pregnant. She hung up on me and made
me cry even worse. I called her back and
she said "heather we will talk about this
when I get home, ill be there in 5mins."
so ryan left because he didnt wanna see my
mom. She came home and said well we will
buy more tests tomorrow and then we will
go from there. We bought more tests and
those were positive too and so she finally
accepted the baby. After she saw the u/s
pics shes loved the baby ever since and
was happy about it. My dad took the news
really good, usually hed be health forum
and start beating on ppl or myself. To
tell ryans parents was a lil bit of a
different story, ryan put the u/s picture
on the table and said here you go take a
look. They did and his mom said " I dunno
how to read these f*ckin things" and ryan
said here ill show see this? Yea this is
mine and heathers baby. She said that she
was gonna talk to me about abortion and I
told ryan to say hell no because I am not
like that, we did it now we take
responsibilities. His parents didnt talk
to me for like a month and a half and
finally they started to except the
pregnancy since I wasnt gonna get an
abortion. Now they love the baby to
peices(even though shes not here yet) and
his sister buys things up the a$$ for this
baby. She spoils it like crazy!! But she
told ryan from the beginning that she was
happy just their parents didnt know that.
Sorry so long but that was how it went
when we told our families.
~heather ryan and mackenzie
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 07-30-04 11:53am
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Once again, anyone who thinks they will
try to force me to get an abortion better
hope they don't change because from there
no matter what, they will never see their
grandchild.
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 07-30-04 13:17pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 11-09-04 11:56am; edited 1 time in total
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bd1012
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004
Posts: 1998
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Posted: 07-30-04 13:25pm
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Arrgh you people make me want to kill your
parents!!!! luckily everyone
around me knows there will be hell to pay
if they even mention me gettin an
abortion. Let alone try to make the
decision for me and force me to.
Depending on my sanity if I had no way out
of it I will try to find someone who is
inexperienced so that I can have
complications and maybe that will show
them!
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noodleandshorty
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 1410
Location: burlington
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Posted: 07-30-04 14:06pm
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Bd we really cant control what are parents
say or said when they found out we all
were pregnant. Im sure if we could
control it than we would so that they
wouldnt ever say for us to get abortions
but obviously we all never listened
because half of us here already have there
babies and the other half is still
pregnant waiting for their babies to come.
I think parents only say that because
they are angry and thats the first thing
that comes across their mind. But in the
end they love their grandchildren to
death!
~heather ryan and mackenzie
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