My problems are several, and I don't know
if this is where I need to be or not.
Could someone please help me?
First I am a 46 year old mother of a 17
year old, and I take on her love problems,
as if they were my own. She recently
broke up with a boyfreind, that I though
was a total mismatch. I got mad at him.
I don't understand this. Why?
Then my marriage of 18 years is really
falling apart. We have seen a counselor
(due to my husbands problems). He is a
crossdresser, and has no sexual desires.
He has tried to be very supportive of me,
he has even had a penal implant (he has
diabetes, and has had heart bypass). I
really don't know whether I even want him
sexually anymore (i feel so unwanted
sexually). I am very much overweight,
and very down on myself. I quit smoking
1 and half years ago, and seriously
thinking of taking it up again. I was
going to a diet clinic and losing weight
very good, but had to stop (financially
husbands medication was more important).
I love my husband, and really don't want a
divorce, I just don't know how long I can
go on this way.
I also have type 2 diabetes, and the
weight loss was helping my blood sugar,
however, I now am totally out of control
(eating everything in sight).
i am currently on prozac for depression,
and my mind keeps going over the same
things. I become obsessed with
something, and won't let go (yet there are
a 100 other things rattling around in
there). I am
very sad with my life 99% of the time, I
keep feeling that there must be something
more. Can anyone suggest something?
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scaredmother
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2003 Posts: 10 Location: texas
Smile Hunny Posted: 09-27-03 13:25pm
I am an 18 year old and have many
situations with my bf to my mom tends to
take my side also....U might want to try n
look at things from his point of view...U
will always want to take her side because
she is your daughter...But she needs to
learn n grow up on her own...All u can do
is just listen to her and be there for
her....Thats the best u can do.
Now as for your life I have been throught
that depressed stage recently to...I just
found out I am 3 mnths pregnant and it
really hit me hard....But I have to keep
my head up in order to keep myself healthy
and my child and thats all I can say for u
also...Dont let your self get so down...Im
sry to hear about you and your husband
mabey yall just need a lil one on one
time....Did u ever think about your
husband being gay...Mabey thats why hes
not sexually attracted to you...If hes a
crossdresser then im sure he is...Dont
beat your self up over it...You are
beautiful no matter your size or
looks....From what I hear u have a
excellent heart...Just talk to him there
are others out there who I am sure would
love to be with u and would love to
satisfy your needs.....Just please keep
your head up...For your self n if not for
your self do it for your daughter she
needs u at this point in life I know how
it is to be 17 in day n age.....Just smile
ok
I am
very sad with my life 99% of the time, I
keep feeling that there must be something
more. Can anyone suggest something?
