Jason(myboyfriend)was Wondering Something And Asked Me Posted: 08-01-04 14:18pm
Hi girls again,
my boyfriend jason was wondering and asked
me something hes like "maddison what do
you think about getting married" im like
um..I dont know im only seventeen and
pregnant im going to be a senior this
year" than he's like ok maddison I love
you and our baby very much you guys mean
the world to me just think about it im not
pressureing you im like okay hunnie I love
you to so does the baby..
But I dont know what to say girls please
help me I love jason with
all my heart he means everything and the
world to me what should I say girls?
Maddison
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
Posted: 08-01-04 14:22pm
Well I am 17, and I will be getting
married the mothe I turn 18 (4 months
after the baby is born). But if you are
not ready let him know, and I mean when he
said that to you if you just didn't turn
really emational and happy, you know that
you are not ready. It is kind of like
when you fall in love, you never know the
exact moment it happens, but when the
person you loves says "i love you" for the
first time you just know its right.
Thank you hun alot but me and jason been
saying we love eachother for the past
2years I just dont know you know what I
mean?
Maddison
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tweety12986
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jun 2004 Posts: 772 Location: houston
Posted: 08-01-04 15:50pm
If you want to marry him do it, it sounds
like he's ready to settle down, but my bf
and I have been together 3 years and 8
months he asked me to marry him about two
years ago, and now if I ask him about it
he says later and there is a baby in the
picture now, but now I dont know if I
wanna marry him. So if u want to and he
is sincere about it jump on it before he
changes his mind. Lol.
Meagan
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gypy04
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2004 Posts: 398 Location: florida
Posted: 08-01-04 16:41pm
Don't feel pressured to get married just
because you have a baby on the way...
Your only 17 years old, you have alot of
life ahead of you... I know you two love
each other very much, and especially if
you are having doubts then seriously think
about it. There is no reason why you
would "have" to say yes... You should get
married because you guys love each other
and want to spend the rest of your lives
together. Take it easy, don't rush into
anything you may regret later on.
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KariM1804
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 May 2004 Posts: 852 Location: grand blanc michigan
Posted: 08-01-04 16:42pm
Honestly if u have to ask us what u should
say, its obviously not the right time yet.
When u want to marry him and are ready,
you will know for sure*
Thank you so much girls for your help once
again I got to talk to him tonight!
maddison
ps..I'll take your girls advice!
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newlife
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jun 2004 Posts: 874
Posted: 08-01-04 18:37pm
You don't see what I mean. Okay
basically, if you didn't feel it in your
heart to say yes the moment he mentioned
it, than you are not ready and you truely
dont want to. Just like when someone
tells you that they love you, if you don't
feel it in your heart than, you shouldn't
say it back. If you have any doubt right
now ,you are not ready at all.
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