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angelicangel

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Jason(myboyfriend)was Wondering Something And Asked Me
Posted: 08-01-04 14:18pm

Hi girls again,
my boyfriend jason was wondering and asked me something hes like "maddison what do you think about getting married" im like um..I dont know im only seventeen and pregnant im going to be a senior this year" than he's like ok maddison I love you and our baby very much you guys mean the world to me just think about it im not pressureing you im like okay hunnie I love you to so does the baby..
But I dont know what to say girls please help me Sad I love jason with all my heart he means everything and the world to me what should I say girls?
Maddison Sad
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newlife

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Posted: 08-01-04 14:22pm

Well I am 17, and I will be getting married the mothe I turn 18 (4 months after the baby is born). But if you are not ready let him know, and I mean when he said that to you if you just didn't turn really emational and happy, you know that you are not ready. It is kind of like when you fall in love, you never know the exact moment it happens, but when the person you loves says "i love you" for the first time you just know its right.
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angelicangel

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Posted: 08-01-04 14:30pm

Thank you hun alot but me and jason been saying we love eachother for the past 2years I just dont know you know what I mean?
Maddison Sad
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tweety12986

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Posted: 08-01-04 15:50pm

If you want to marry him do it, it sounds like he's ready to settle down, but my bf and I have been together 3 years and 8 months he asked me to marry him about two years ago, and now if I ask him about it he says later and there is a baby in the picture now, but now I dont know if I wanna marry him. So if u want to and he is sincere about it jump on it before he changes his mind. Lol.
Meagan
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gypy04

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Posted: 08-01-04 16:41pm

Don't feel pressured to get married just because you have a baby on the way... Your only 17 years old, you have alot of life ahead of you... I know you two love each other very much, and especially if you are having doubts then seriously think about it. There is no reason why you would "have" to say yes... You should get married because you guys love each other and want to spend the rest of your lives together. Take it easy, don't rush into anything you may regret later on.
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KariM1804

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Posted: 08-01-04 16:42pm

Honestly if u have to ask us what u should say, its obviously not the right time yet. When u want to marry him and are ready, you will know for sure*
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angelicangel

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Posted: 08-01-04 18:09pm

Thank you so much girls for your help once again I got to talk to him tonight! Laughing
maddison Laughing ps..I'll take your girls advice!
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newlife

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Posted: 08-01-04 18:37pm

You don't see what I mean. Okay basically, if you didn't feel it in your heart to say yes the moment he mentioned it, than you are not ready and you truely dont want to. Just like when someone tells you that they love you, if you don't feel it in your heart than, you shouldn't say it back. If you have any doubt right now ,you are not ready at all.
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angelicangel

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Posted: 08-01-04 18:42pm

Okay thank you sorry I didnt get it the first time im so confused tonight! Crying
or Very sad
maddison Crying
or Very sad
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