Pregnancy Through Dry-humping Right Before Period? Posted: 08-06-04 10:43am
I never intended to have sex, but I did,
and I ended up pregnant. I caught it
-very-early on--the doctor told me I was
"just barely pregnant"--a few days earlier
and there would have been nothing on the
ultrasound. I ended it chemically on june
1, which was uncomfortable but not
emotionally draining or too painful.
However, that was enough for me and I
decided never to have sex again until I am
married, and on birth control.
Here's my problem. A male friend that I
had not seen in a while got drunk and
decided it would be a good idea to
convince me to sleep with him by pulling
his pants down, pulling my skirt up, and
trying to dry-hump me. I was wearing
underwear, of course, and he didn't get a
chance to take his off before I convinced
him to stop it. I don't think his
underwear was wet at all, and I he did not
ejaculate. 6-12 hours later, I had my
period. It ended on july 6, and I have
not yet gotten it for this month. I am
sometimes very irregular, and frequently
run on a 30+ day cycle. However, this
time I am feeling extremely paranoid and
afraid, and the thought suddenly hit me
that I might be pregnant. I have had no
symptoms of pregnancy, as I did last time,
but none of my usual pms symptoms either.
I need to try and get a test, but I have
no driver's license, and I have a very
nosy mother and friends, so that's a bit
difficult at the moment. I have been
researching and researching, and I just
need some reassurance. What are the
chances of me being pregnant? Could my
body still just need to adjust from the
previous pregnancy?
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linuxChique
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 May 2004 Posts: 4535
Posted: 08-06-04 12:28pm
Yes, there is a high possibility that this
is still your body adjusting to your
abortion, and no chance whatsoever that
you are pregnant. As you know, sperm is
absolutly required for a pregnancy, and
there was none involved. I think you just
need to wait it out.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 08-06-04 15:42pm
I have to agree with linuxchique.
I really don't think there is even a
remote possibility that you are
pregnant.
Hormones take a while to settle down after
an abortion.
I took a pregnancy test a month after mine
and it came up positive (i was really
scared that they hadn't done it right -
needless to say I wasn't but it didn't
stop me worrying) so don't be too hasty or
you may worry yourself about nothing.
Also worrying could delay your period.
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twinkle_star
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2004 Posts: 5 Location: maryland
Posted: 08-08-04 10:18am
I'm sure you're both probably right. I'm
just feeling very paranoid and jumpy after
I had to have the abortion. I -really-
don't want to have to experience that
again, especially in this situation where
I didn't even try to do anything sexual.
I guess I just keep worrying what if
something -did- somehow make it past both
of our underwear? Even though I had my
period right after that, could I have
ovulated again right as my period was
beginning? (although I know that sounds
far-fetched and bizarre)
i'm just feeling so frightened because I
had my period about 4 weeks after the
abortion, and now it's been longer than
that and nothing. I guess i'll just try
to be patient.
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trevino61601
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Aug 2003 Posts: 88 Location: Michigan
Relax... Posted: 08-10-04 15:06pm
Sometimes it can take up to 3 or more
months for your cycle to regulate after an
abortion. You can get more than 1
period in a month or none at all. I am
pretty sure you are safe to just wait it
out.
